Any obese hobbyists here?

[nacho]

Larry, If you're a Big Beautiful Man, try out a BBW!! Lots of them around and they love it!! My recommendations, puss in boots, and Nathalie.

 

[Phillymale]

Been awhile on this thread...I am a bigger guy...fluctuate between 250-300 and 6’1. I have never had an issue with an SP. some seemed less into it (but that happens regardless) but I have found if you are clean and kind and friendly they have a good time. I have even been invited out “later” to hang with some SPs and their friends....just be a gentleman...you will be surprised.

philly

 

[Hunterzzzzz]

I think your weight will only limit certain positions.
However, hygiene might be a factor. Obese people sweat in their fat layers and without proper « breathing », it can smell sour mostly during the summer. Weight can also impact your gut bacteria and make you have foul odor in your mouth. I am not saying that this is absolutly the case, but it is a possibility.
I read in a lot of thread clients complained about being refused a DFK. If your partner’s mouth smells terrible, it doesn’t matter you are a man or a woman, you don’t want to kiss them. Sometime, mouthwash will do the job for 5-10min but the odors in your guts will come up again afterward.
As a client, I think the minimum I can do is to have a good attitude, good hygiene and I will be given a great time.

 

[jmioffe]

Larry,

I am not a very big guy but ironically I recently had a conversation with a very petite SP I met about the issue of taking poundings from "bigger", not necessarily fatter, guys. My take is that if a guy is very big and he just wants to pound the shit out of a smaller, petite woman it can be a very rough experience for her, and a lot of guys don't realize this. In your case obviously you should lose some weight and you have acknowledged the problem, but until that happens, just try to be gentle and don't "use your weight" as you would on the football field.

A XO girl once joked to me that she had a client who was huge that liked to pound her. She had to hide from him, check the peephole every time to make sure he didn't book a date under a psuedonym.

 

[Lloyd's of London]

I'm a pretty big guy (~375lbs). I'm constantly concerned about getting a bad reaction from an SP when she shows up, in fact it is a major deterrent from seeing an SP at all.

I know a guy that is in the same predicament that you are in, he told me that many would refuse him when he arrived. One even screamed when she opened the door and slammed it in his face. I suspect they are afraid of getting crushed.