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Lunaseraphim

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We already pay taxes as other sex-employed workers and we already have regular health checks.

Just like with the SAQ and the SQDC, and knowing our government, we would have an STDSDQ (Société des Travailleuses(rs) du sexe du Québec) where we would have to work from and between, what, 9 to 5 maybe. I would have an employer (RIP private businesses in the sex industry — and I love my self-employment status) and no other than the government! We wouldn't work from home anymore since it had to be from selected places in the city, and if you do go on the black market, they could arrest you. If you go out with a courtesan, they could arrest you because Article 30, alinea 1.5; prostitutes can't be used in public. We, SW, wouldn't go to hotels anymore, this will become prohibited since it can't be tracked and a way to keep the regular businesses "clean of prostitution". They would take your licence on arrival, your phone number and an emergency contact.

edit: since we would prefer to keep our business private, we would have to go underground. We would still advertise online (illegally) but our ads would become even more cryptical, with so few details that it would be an even bigger hit or miss for the clients. More scammers would get in the way since no one can give enough details to be proven not a scammer. We would be resorted to going to private residences because hotels would be too dangerous, putting us in a more vulnerable position.

I understand the brothels in other countries, but it's not the best scenario either. It needs to be like any other job: most jobs aren't legal. They just "are" within the existing laws, and rights, of the country.
Perfectly said.
 

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Long time lurker here! What are SP thoughts on giving oral with a condom on vs off? Is it more common for SP’s to ask to have the condom on due to safety etc?
 

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Long time lurker here! What are SP thoughts on giving oral with a condom on vs off? Is it more common for SP’s to ask to have the condom on due to safety etc?
At the top of this page there is a box marked "search this thread" (just type condom) which should lead you to many interesting answers on the subject.
 

Lunaseraphim

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Long time lurker here! What are SP thoughts on giving oral with a condom on vs off? Is it more common for SP’s to ask to have the condom on due to safety etc?
It's safer to do it with a condom, but as a gfe provider most clients ask for bbbj. So that is why I recommend people take their sexual health very seriously and get tested on a regular basis.
 
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1) I've had a few sessions now where the SP has forgotten their lube. I think I will buy/pack a backup just in case this happens again. What's the consensus on the best type of lube (unscented silicone & water-based blend)?

I personally prefer water based but my good friend cannot use it so I guess it’s again a case of “it depends on the kitty”
 

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I personally prefer water based but my good friend cannot use it so I guess it’s again a case of “it depends on the kitty”
Indeed, anything Skyn/Lifestyle is out of the question for me, I get an infection every time. And I prefer silicon-based lube (Durex, Lubrifiant silicone Real Feel is my favorite)

2) I'd like to send my test results to SPs without implying that 1) I'm looking for BBFS (I'm not) and 2) I expect them to send me their results back (I don't). What would be the right non-awkward way to effectively communicate this?
As for the test results, I would say you can send it if the provider asks for it. Letting me know in your short presentation that you get tested every 3 months because you take this industry and your health seriously, without adding details, would do it.
 
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As for the test results, I would say you can send it if the provider asks for it. Letting me know in your short presentation that you get tested every 3 months because you take this industry and your health seriously, without adding details, would do it.

I agree with this. Someone letting me know they take their health seriously is delightful, I don't need extra details and certainly don't want to see someone's test results unprompted.

As, indeed, this could come off as a way to inquire about unsafe services at worst, or at best, it makes you seem clueless - nobody does that. Nobody sends their test results to an escort unprompted so I'd wonder what the motive is lol
 

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The only way for an escort to verify for certain that you don't have an STI would be a long, tedious and expensive process that would go as follows :

> Hire an escort for 3 months
> Go get tested together on day 1
> Take 3 months off from work to spend 100% of your time with her 24/7
> Get tested together again after 3 months and wait until those results to start living your life again

That's the only way to be sure, and obviously isn't realistic haha
 
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I know a few American students living in Montreal that don’t want to buy weed from the SQDC with their American credit card because they’re scared it will cause them problems when they return back home.
"The recreational use of cannabis has been legalized in 24 states, three U.S. territories, and D.C."

That’s more than half of the USA, also:
"Another seven states have decriminalized its use"

IMHO, most these people are ignorant of the legislation in their own country
 
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Giselle Montreal

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"The recreational use of cannabis has been legalized in 24 states, three U.S. territories, and D.C."

That’s more than half of the USA, also:
"Another seven states have decriminalized its use"

IMHO, most these people are ignorant of the legislation in their own country
You have to differentiate the country and the states. I understand that it's different in the USA as I think it's something about the federal laws that prohibit its use, so you can't cross the border with pot but you can consume it in your own state where it's legalized.

"At the federal level, cannabis is classified as a Schedule I drug under the Controlled Substances Act, determined to have a high potential for abuse and no accepted medical use, prohibiting its use for any purpose.[1] Despite this prohibition, federal law is generally not enforced against the possession, cultivation, or intrastate distribution of cannabis in states where such activity has been legalized."
 

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Why do you feel the need to mention that you’re white? Most of us either have a form on our website or if you message us will send you a few things we require to book. Even when we don’t ask for race, some of you will mention that they’re white. Why?
Only one true race = human
 
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What has everyone’s experience been with condoms breaking or catching something with an SP
I never in my life had a condom that broke, but I had a condom slippage 3 or 4 times total since my beginnings because the penis got softer during penetration. For the last part of your question, I can't help you but I recommend that you get tested frequently if you are sexually active, as most of us sex workers do.
 

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What has everyone’s experience been with condoms breaking or catching something with an SP

Why specify "with an SP"? !

STIs can be caught also in the civi world and, all proportions taken, where you are often at far greater risk.

And by the way if one receives "from an SP" just keep in mind that she got it from a John.
 

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I never in my life had a condom that broke, but I had a condom slippage 3 or 4 times total since my beginnings because the penis got softer during penetration. For the last part of your question, I can't help you but I recommend that you get tested frequently if you are sexually active, as most of us sex workers do.
Yes please get tested if you see SP's frequently.
There are ways to prevent a condom from breaking, for example using a lot of lube. I've never had that happen. As for slippage, it's the client's responsibility to make sure this does not happen. Obviously you feel it if the condom is slipping off. Check to see if it's still on regularly specially if you know you might get softer. When you cum, make sure the condom is still around you and hold it with your fingers before pulling out.
 
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