Ask us anything part 3

[LC18]

You say that as if it's a bad thing. Receipts aren't going to deter anyone. People use debit and credit cards for cams, strip clubs, massages etc etc.
Those businesses are booming. Travelling international won't be a problem at all. The way things are now if a client gets in trouble he won't be able to cross the border at all..

Hey! Thank you for mentioning things that are very legal almost in every countries.

There are very few countries in which strip clubs and cam shows are illegal…


Regardless of that, whatever you get a receipt for leaves paper trails and I know for sure not everyone likes that idea. Especially after reading a few threads here of people asking ways to avoid screening etc. you’re telling me those people would be ok with paying an escort with a credit card? Allow me to laugh.

 

[Rebaynia]

A question to my fellow SP's : what is your dream booking? Like the absolute perfect date with a client? I'll answer mine later.

Dream booking.
I may have had it once already.

A sweetheart who time flew by with and enjoyed eachothers company so much, while was also overpaid for the time together. He just wanted company while he was going threw his divorce. I had seen him a couple of times before this, all closeness but no sex, this story was 5 hr visit.

I am uncomfortable in public settings, so was a dinner date at his place where he planned on cooking a 12 couse dinner, we were full after 8 courses lol. With wine, and we played youtube music roulette where we would take turns picking songs to play on the TV while we talked and sang along with the music. Then cuddled as we watched a movie. Then gave him a massage, and I was horney from the romantic setting and atmosphere at that point and wanted to go farther but his divorce wasn't finalized yet, and he didn't want to be sexual with anyone till it was.

He really did want a relationship more than a hookup, and was trying to woo me into leaving my master, and this life to be his. But I have tried living a vanilla life before, and that lead me to my darkest days that I am still trying to recover from. My master is my kinky fantasies come true and I couldn't leave what my twisted dreams needed, for a traditional vanilla relationship, even if he wanted to take care of me. I need my master I dreamed of and finally have to lead me down the kinky rabbit hole to wonderland, not another person I have to pretend that side of me doesn't exhist and suppress my sexual appetites with.

That was the last time I saw him as his divorce became final, and he has moved on and took him no time at all to find a lovely lady to be with him. I wish them the best, and she really is a lucky woman.

I get my taboo kink relationship fantasies taken care of by my master who I trust and love and have a relationship planned for life with. But I get the softer sexual more vanilla and relationship style side filled by the clients I am willing to see. Why I am gfe and not pse in this business. I am only comfortable exploring that side with the person my whole heart is in it with, as it needs aftercare and love that work parameters don't have room for.

 

[LC18]

I am uncomfortable in public settings, so was a dinner date at his place where he planned on cooking a 12 couse dinner, we were full after 8 courses lol. With wine, and we played youtube music roulette where we would take turns picking songs to play on the TV while we talked and sang along with the music. Then cuddled as we watched a movie. Then gave him a massage, and I was horney from the romantic setting and atmosphere at that point and wanted to go farther but his divorce wasn't finalized yet, and he didn't want to be sexual with anyone till it was.

That’s a really beautiful date, sorry he tried to get you to leave your master though.

 

[Rebaynia]

That’s a really beautiful date, sorry he tried to get you to leave your master though.

I'm not. It felt nice to be wooed, and I get how vanilla people don't understand bdsm. Often to a lot of them they hear the stories of people forced into it, or don't understand how someone can enjoy pain in a controlled trusting environment, while with a client it would just be a horrifying experience.

I leaned that about myself when I realized in mosh pits, I would get so dripping wet I thought I peed, to realize what I thought was pee was squirting, and the wetness was even beyond that point. I would go home after spending hours in the mosh pit to count my bruises and often had over 100.

I'm a freak in that way.. but we are all created differently, and no 1 structure works for everyone.

 

[Nostalgia]

Hey! Thank you for mentioning things that are very legal almost in every countries.

There are very few countries in which strip clubs and cam shows are illegal…


Regardless of that, whatever you get a receipt for leaves paper trails and I know for sure not everyone likes that idea. Especially after reading a few threads here of people asking ways to avoid screening etc. you’re telling me those people would be ok with paying an escort with a credit card? Allow me to laugh.

That's my point. It should be legal like strip clubs and cams. Never said it should be obligatory to pay with credit card. Even for cam shows there are different options for payments.

 

[Nostalgia]

We want decriminalization, not legalization. Not everyone wants to work in brothels in Nevada, it seems terrible. I don't even want to work for an agency here, let alone do this job for an employer (let alone the government!). Most women would leave the industry. Why do you want to push governmental regulations on us?

We all have to deal with government regulations. Brothels are not the only option. I don't want to push anything on anyone. Like I said when I first asked. There are some that are also calling for full legalization. So who should be listened too?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

We all have to deal with government regulations. Brothels are not the only option. I don't want to push anything on anyone. Like I said when I first asked. There are some that are also calling for full legalization. So who should be listened too?

What would be improved with the legalization of prostitution, and how do you think it will be better for you as a client?

 

[Workingman]

My point is they have a good record in Nevada. Their system seems to be working.

Our government can't figure out how to regulate anything successfully.

On the side of workers rights the systems heavily favour the employers. There are laws and rules, but try and see how it works out for the average person when it comes to health, safety and fair treatment.

I understand fully why there's little trust to allow the government in to regulate. They're absolute idiots.

 

[LC18]

If it’s legal, we can unionize and all have equal and high rates.

Now what are the clients gonna do?

 

[Jazzman1218]

If it’s legal, we can unionize and all have equal and high rates.

Now what are the clients gonna do?

Just don't go on strike. Although that would be a pretty picket line!

 

[Julia Sky]

We all have to deal with government regulations.

That simply isn't true. Only about 20 per cent of jobs are in regulated occupations.

 

[bodick7]

If it’s legal, we can unionize and all have equal and high rates.

Now what are the clients gonna do?

Hum...des briseuses de grêve. Ha!Ha!

 

[DouMan]

If it’s legal, we can unionize and all have equal and high rates.

Now what are the clients gonna do?

So, So, So
Go wank, your dick, right off

So, So, So
You wish, your hand, could blow

Go, Go, Go
Five finger so-lo

 

[haberbosch25]

There is no need for legalization or decriminalization. The current model is fine as it is.

 

[Julia Sky]

There is no need for legalization or decriminalization. The current model is fine as it is.

No it is not, hope this helps!

 

[Fradi]

This is 100% true, and I've known many civilians who have unprotected sex with strangers.. I'm not shaming anybody, but there are more chances of catching an STI if you are hooking up with random people rather than seeing SP's, in my humble opinion.. And if you are very afraid of STI's, please ask for covered services.

I don’t really share your opinion.
SP have boyfriends fuck buddies content creators etc… where they don’t wear protection and the shear number of sexual experiences do give them more opportunity to have an STI especially ones that you can get even if you where protection.

Do SP take more precautions than civi women absolutely and their hygiene is far superior to ladies of the general public.
Bottom line is that the only sure way of not putting yourself at any risk is not to have sex or be in a monogamous relationship with someone you trust 100%.
Seeing SP or hooking up with random women is really not for people who are continually freaked out by the thought of getting an STI.
Luckily most STI are curable with antibiotics and the really dangerous one HIV you are very unlikely to get through oral sex of any kind or if you wear protection for fs.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I don’t really share your opinion.
SP have boyfriends fuck buddies content creators etc… where they don’t wear protection and the shear number of sexual experiences do give them more opportunity to have an STI especially ones that you can get even if you where protection.

Do SP take more precautions than civi women absolutely and their hygiene is far superior to ladies of the general public.
Bottom line is that the only sure way of not putting yourself at any risk is not to have sex or be in a monogamous relationship with someone you trust 100%.
Seeing SP or hooking up with random women is really not for people who are continually freaked out by the thought of getting an STI.
Luckily most STI are curable with antibiotics and the really dangerous one HIV you are very unlikely to get through oral sex of any kind or if you wear protection for fs.

My opinion is that if you wanna see SP's and you are afraid of STI's please ask for safe services (no daty, cbj). Everyone should be concerned with STI's. Yes they are curable but they can cause other health issues in the long run, particularly if you're someone who doesn't get tested often.

 

[Fradi]

My opinion is that if you wanna see SP's and you are afraid of STI's please ask for safe services (no daty, cbj). Everyone should be concerned with STI's. Yes they are curable but they can cause other health issues in the long run, particularly if you're someone who doesn't get tested often.

I agree with what you are saying 100%.
The only part I didn’t agree with before was that you are less likely to get an STI with an SP than a civi lady, and I also agree that SP do much more for prevention than civi women.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I agree with what you are saying 100%.
The only part I didn’t agree with before was that you are less likely to get an STI with an SP than a civi lady, and I also agree that SP do much more for prevention than civi women.

I mean, it depends which civilian lady for sure. What I meant in my earlier post is that certain civilians have a lot of casual sex and don't get tested and don't use protection, and they have casual sex with other people who also have a lot of casual sex without always using protection and rarely get tested.

 

[Fradi]

I mean, it depends which civilian lady for sure. What I meant in my earlier post is that certain civilians have a lot of casual sex and don't get tested and don't use protection, and they have casual sex with other people who also have a lot of casual sex without always using protection and rarely get tested.

As far as getting tested yes it is essential to do that but in reality your test results only give you peace of mind and the ability to get treatment if you do have an STI and to be able to stop spreading it to someone else after.

Otherwise if you had sex 2 months before your test your test results are potentially useless for some STI as you did not account for all the incubation periods and if you had one sexual encounter after your test it is already potentially useless again.
Just because someone got tested it does not mean they don’t have an STI or even that they didn’t have one when they got tested it is not that simple.
I doubt that any SP stops having sex a month or two prior to getting tested or after the test if it comes back negative.