It depends. Personally I would because I'm 31 and I would feel creepy but some SP's are your age and would be glad to see a client who's young
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I prefer regulars, as I am very weary about meeting new people. It's almost an anxiety thing when meeting someone for the first time.
But every regular, was once a new person too. So now it is on the new client to make me feel comfortable with meeting them. I look to alleviate my fears in our discussion before I agree to meet them.
LoL I may be more like the men on this form than I like to admit sometimes.
Fresh meat lol. I have no problem with being a cugar, as long as he is legal. Often men under 25 who have a milf fantasy, who aren't trying to be dominant, can be so sweet and cute. Some are rude and need to be put in their place (which seems to add to their milf fantasy), being disrespectful, but some are so much more respectful than the average visit as well. I like good boys.
I'm not looking to be in a relationship with them, and it's quite an ego boost when someone half my age is telling me how hot they find me.
Besides in many of these cases I don't know how old the person is I am seeing is. I often don't know if they are half my age, or double my age unless they volunteer that information while texting.
I like my partners to be younger than me Usually I like to take the lead if they are inexperienced.
When I was young I remember being with a SP cougar and it felt like she just wanted to get it over with and collect her money. While the young ones still want to to try and experiment new things. Maybe I’m jaded but I prefer 20 yo rather then. Milfs. I acknowledge that there are exceptions to my experience but I’m just relating my feelings
Just saw this post!
I agree with some of the things you mentionned, tiny waist and young looking mainly. BUT! Idk why you keep bringing up huge tits, from experience and from reading this board for many years I feel like the majority of active merb users don't care much about big boobs, they prefer real boobs at any size. Yours are perfect the way they are. YOU are perfect the way you are, it just takes time to build a big clientele. None of this has anything to do with the way you look and your best clients are the ones who see you for you and not just your body <3
What do you mean by "isnt your type"?
If it's a bait and switch, I am leaving and I am not paying. (Actually never happened before)
It happen once. It took way too much time before engaging action and the meantime turned me totally off.
I left what was on table...it wasn't there anymore anyway and I didn't care about getting it back. I just wanted to leave.
This brought another question! Lol
When you say "a cancellation fee I have previously agreed to", does that include when it's written on her website even if you didn't explicitly state agreeing to it? I've had men book through my website contact form but somehow say they didn't know I had a cancellation fee (it's written on the same website) when cancelling, so I'm curious
This has never happened to me before. I think beauty can be found in many different ways. Yes, there are faces that I would not consider attractive at all, but it is unlikely that they would be in this profession. I would perhaps try to change it to a social date.
I would pay her entire fee unless it is a bait and switch and she looks nothing like her advertised photographs, in that case I would just leave.
It is up to you to do your research and not waste her time.
My word will always mean more than a couple of hundred bucks.
Same goes for cancellation if I cancel within 48 hours and can’t reschedule for the next day or two with her I will pay her full amount, yes life happens and it could be a real emergency or family thing but again a couple of hundred bucks is not going to put me in a different tax bracket and for me it is the right thing to do.
I guess we see comments that make us feel insecure first.. Which is why I've decided to avoid many sections of this board and to seriously limit my posting.
Thank you so much for your sweet response tho, I really appreciate it. I think you're perfect the way you are too!
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I guess there are many men that are attracted by the size of someone’s boobs I am not one of them.
Initially of course looks are what attracts you, in my case it is a pretty face, an hour glass figure with curves in the right places and long dark hair.
A fabulously shaped rear end always helps.
It is not the looks however that keep you going back to that lady but her kindness, the chemistry and the way she treats you.
After a while you don’t even give her looks another thought as in your mind you have already determined that she is gorgeous in your eyes and you can’t wait to see her because of who she is and the bond and friendship that you have together.
You always kinda take a chance on a first encounter.
I don't think I was ever disappointed to the point where I wanted to leave. Merb does help for that.
I don't think I was ever disappointed to the point where I wanted to leave. Merb does help for that.
Not sure if it was asked before but how do you deal with a situation when you get booked by a poor hygiene or a person that smells?
Sorry earlier I replied to your comment and confused you for someone else who sent me an extremely similar inquiry on the same day and I wanted to make sure everyone sees I got the person wrong and you did nothing wrong.
You are so pretty, you need to smile more on your pics!
Usually we don't say that.
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