Ask us anything part 3
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Because I know a lot of women in abusive relationships. And if the guy knew he could use that as a way to belittle her and use her even more I have no doubt in the world he would.
I even know some who are broken up and are still being controlled by their ex by financial abuse just to maintain power over her so she can't escape.
Admittedly I have seen the dark side of many people. And I wouldn't want to think how bad it could get if they were allowed to be their darker side of themselves without society holding them accountable for their actions. Most keep themselves in check only because of what the next person would think of them.
I tend to have a pretty low oppinion of humanity as a whole, and people will often do whatever they can get away with, if they can do it without reprocutions.
Water based as silicone has an adverse reaction for condoms. But I would suggest it as an in case deal. I have my brand I like and I won't let other kinds be used on me.
I don't know about others, but I would think it a red flag if someone is sending me his test results. My first reaction is/would very likely be, what is he up to? And what is he expecting from sending test results? I question the intentions behind it. It won't make me any more comfortable to be with him if he did, it wouldn't lesson my barriers or what I allow in a visit, and I would fully expect he has the intentions to push my limits if he is trying to show he is safe.
You might be very careful but you will never know how careful your partners really are.
Why bro? It’s a red flag for SP. Makes SP think you might have STI if you try so hard to make them think you don’t have one
Yea thats refreshing and respectful The other SP talk about “hiding” their period. I rather have partners say when it might be coming and be honest and we can modify the sex practices
BBBJ is way, way less of a risk than any type of penetration. I never got an STI as an escort (that's 8 years and counting!), but I did get one as a teenager and every single person I know who told me they got one hasn't been an escort.
I made this post on this subject, worth reading to better understand my stance.
You say that as if it's a bad thing. Receipts aren't going to deter anyone. People use debit and credit cards for cams, strip clubs, massages etc etc.
Those businesses are booming. Travelling international won't be a problem at all. The way things are now if a client gets in trouble he won't be able to cross the border at all..
OK first of all there would be safe places for it just like every other country where it is legal. They Don't necessarily have to be brothels.
No job " just is". There are regulations and laws around.all of them. I can't just sell food without a license and permits or a proper location.
As far as the health checks. How does a client currently verify something like that?
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That's precisely why it needs to be regulated. Illegality favour's pimps. An SP safety needs to be taken into account. That should be the top priority as well as the clients.
That's precisely why it needs to be regulated. Illegality favour's pimps. An SP safety needs to be taken into account. That should be the top priority as well as the clients.
Nevada brothel workers get tested with much more frequency than that. They have been rather successful keeping std's out.
Yes unprompted seems weird but it does seem like a reasonable thing to do for everyone involved. Safety should be the priority.
They don't, and even if things were made legal, they still wouldn't as your health record is private. As of the age of 14 even a parent doesn't have access to their kids medical information unless they are granted by the child.
For those who use prelib, I have access to the latest test for proof on my phone, but at the same time if a client demanded to see it, well it is still my private information and my choice if I so choose to share it.
And if it is done threw family Dr.s then there is still no proof, as you are often told the results by the Dr, and not handed the paperwork.
No matter what happens in the future, a client will never be entitled to a SPs health information. If my family members aren't allowed what makes you think clients have any right.
Exactly what I said ->
And I don't want safe spaces to do my job or an employer. People today can choose to work for themselves and start their own company at any time, with the Internet easing the creation of websites and marketing tools, people are more than ever self-employed — plus, they can work from home. This is what I do, this is what I want to continue to do.
Because they’re a client and it involves their health too? It wouldn't be asking for your entire health record. It wouldn't even necessarily be checking in with you. There are already jobs that require to get HIV tests. Not sure why this would be a problem. I would gladly do so.
Your wife doesn't have access to your health records.
Besides it is a reason why condoms and safe precautions are involved.
Not just that, but how would you like it if you had to provide your testing information to every provider you see, as we need to make sure we aren't going to catch anything from you.
A provider who takes her work seriously, takes precautions, often many more precautions than any average civilian. Sure there may be some who might likely be super spreaders if they don't. It is what makes any form of bb services a risk, each chooses what risk level they are comfortable with.
It's up to you to decide what risks your comfortable with too.
Kind of like I would refuse to ever see anyone who ever even asked for bbfs, because even if they agreed to covered services, I am safe in assuming the risk is too great for my comfort levels at that point.
And even those jobs that do HIV testing, don't share your results with others. And don't prevent you from working. It is the persons responsibility to protect others from themselves though.
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You want me to give you my test results from 3 weeks ago, just to prove that I got tested? Fine, but it won't tell you that I am not carrying an infection though. So, what does it do to your health as a client? Nothing.
Even a start up at home has rules and regulations they need to follow. Comparing an online job where you have no direct contact with clients to one where you're directly in contact with them is way off.
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