Ask us anything part 3

[LC18]

Maybe this will answer your question and all future ones.

Periods are natural, vulvas don’t smell like flowers just like your dick doesn’t. It shouldn’t have a strong smell either. If it smells like fish or vinegar there’s an issue.
Most of the time it’s caused by men, condoms, unwashed fingers or unwashed toys.

Vulvas, vaginas are sensitive and should always be touched with clean hands and trimmed nails.

You shouldn’t put soap or perfume on your vulva or in your vagina.

Discharges are normal, you don’t get bonus point for having dry pantie at the end of the day.

Don’t go from butt to kitty you’re going to ruin her pH.

Saliva isn’t lube.

Yes, vulvas and vaginas aren’t the same thing.

You may bleed in between periods and it’s not always a sign of STIs but if you’re concerned, speak to your gynaecologist.

I will always say yes to sex education in high schools.

 

[Nachoy]

What’s up with your fascination about “feminine hygiene” ?

Your questions lately have been: how do you have sex while you’re on your period??? How do you wash your vagina????? Do you put perfume in your vagina???? Why is your vagina smelling nice????

Hey I’m going out with a civie and there’s been strong fishy smell when sex happened for the first time around and I really do not know how to ask tactfully and get her to have proper hygiene so I am posing these questions to the pros who might be able to give me insight. Cause it’s really a deal breaker for me to have sex again with her unless things change

 

[LC18]

I said ask us anything but I mostly meant ABOUT THE INDUSTRY.

We can’t diagnose your girlfriend based on what she said. Please just talk to her maybe she doesn’t know

 

[Nachoy]

I said ask us anything but I mostly meant ABOUT THE INDUSTRY.

We can’t diagnose your girlfriend based on what she said. Please just talk to her maybe she doesn’t know

Not a GF just someone I dated
Can you suggest tactful way of bringing this subject up before we have sex?

 

[LC18]

Not a GF just someone I dated
Can you suggest tactful way of bringing this subject up before we have sex?

No I can’t

 

[DouMan]

Not a GF just someone I dated
Can you suggest tactful way of bringing this subject up before we have sex?

You said you already HAD sex, anyway ...

"Ah my little sugar plum, you know I love you to death and I hope yours is as far away as possible. To be safe have you seen your doctor lately? You really should, just to be sure. I will also go, I have a stwainge itch down dare".

That should work out just fine and very rapidly.

 

[Julia Sky]

I'm giggling a little because surely if you don't know how to go about telling her, I promise buying a bottle of summer's eve is NOT the solution unless you want to make sure she never wants to see you again.

Summer's eve and any product like this is bad and can actually cause pH imbalance and infections, by the way.

Do you two go shower before you have sex? It could be as simple as this. I know far too many civilians don't shower before sex.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I interpret ''dont mind'' as ''I can tolerate it'' lol...
I guess its a state of mind. I don't even like body hair on myself!
I guess I was fishing for info on preferences. I groom. I suspect most clients groom. But do they? Do they groom enough? The more grooming the better? Where is the line? Or do some like the 'masculinity ' of facial and body hair? I guess it aslo depends on the guy too.

It's not someone's choice if they have body hair or not except for grooming certain areas. Personally I'm not a huge fan of beards.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I interpret ''dont mind'' as ''I can tolerate it'' lol...
I guess its a state of mind. I don't even like body hair on myself!
I guess I was fishing for info on preferences. I groom. I suspect most clients groom. But do they? Do they groom enough? The more grooming the better? Where is the line? Or do some like the 'masculinity ' of facial and body hair? I guess it aslo depends on the guy too.

I prefer hair to a short stiff re-growth that hurts my sensitive skin. Facial hair, I like it short, or stylish.

 

[Nachoy]

I'm giggling a little because surely if you don't know how to go about telling her, I promise buying a bottle of summer's eve is NOT the solution unless you want to make sure she never wants to see you again.

Summer's eve and any product like this is bad and can actually cause pH imbalance and infections, by the way.

Do you two go shower before you have sex? It could be as simple as this. I know far too many civilians don't shower before sex.

Yes we did shower first , that’s what I was surprised. It’s was an overhead fixed shower with water spraying above our head and not one of those hand held shower head where I can spray water at her pelvic area.

 

[Rebaynia]

I interpret ''dont mind'' as ''I can tolerate it'' lol...
I guess its a state of mind. I don't even like body hair on myself!
I guess I was fishing for info on preferences. I groom. I suspect most clients groom. But do they? Do they groom enough? The more grooming the better? Where is the line? Or do some like the 'masculinity ' of facial and body hair? I guess it aslo depends on the guy too.

I haven't really thought much about it. In my personal life less hair has often been prefered. But have found as long as he grooms it is good. A soft beard can feel really nice on the skin. Though like shaved to short hair on genitals.
Men I have dated in relationships, I have shaved their backs for them, and the beginning of summer chest shave and let it grow in for warmth in winter.
But I often cut their hair too, so became kind of an erotic whole body hair grooming.
I just don't like when the hair is coarse, it can cause rugrash on the sensitive skin on the body, and makes kissing or DATY painful. While a soft beard can add an added exciting stimulation during both. Rather enjoyed the feeling of someone with a soft beard kissing my back as well it tickles in a way that excites me.

The joys of this business is I enjoy variety, and that every person I see is different.

 

[Zero_Six]

SPs and clients,
When going on a social/dinner date, do you have a cover story in case you run into someone you know? What is it? Something simple like "we matched on tinder" or is it more elaborate?

 

[LC18]

SPs and clients,
When going on a social/dinner date, do you have a cover story in case you run into someone you know? What is it? Something simple like "we matched on tinder" or is it more elaborate?

No because the people I know aren’t nosy and would probably not approach me if they saw me having dinner with someone.

If so, they would only say “hi!” and I would say “hi!”

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

SPs and clients,
When going on a social/dinner date, do you have a cover story in case you run into someone you know? What is it? Something simple like "we matched on tinder" or is it more elaborate?

All my friends and family knows about my night job haha they would most likely give me two thumbs up and leave us alone

 

[Lunaseraphim]

SPs and clients,
When going on a social/dinner date, do you have a cover story in case you run into someone you know? What is it? Something simple like "we matched on tinder" or is it more elaborate?

Everyone I'm close to knows what I do for work. But I'd rather a client doesn't tell people they matched with me on tinder personally.. I've had someone say that about me because they found out somehow we had mutual friends, and it really upset me. Not because I felt insulted that this person would be matching with me on tinder lol but because it just isn't respectful and it's not a fair lie.

 

[Zero_Six]

I guess I'm referring more to a situation of someone the client knows.

I tend to overthink everything, which eventually leads to worst case scenarios such as running into my boss or a family member while on a dinner date. The chances of that are slim, but like I said - I overthink stuff.

 

[DouMan]

I guess I'm referring more to a situation of someone the client knows.

I tend to overthink everything, which eventually leads to worst case scenarios such as running into my boss or a family member while on a dinner date. The chances of that are slim, but like I said - I overthink stuff.

So just chill out a little and present your "date" as a long lost classmate.

As much as possible always sit in front of each other for obvious reasons and anyway, the "view" is better.

As long as you keep your hands off her body and your tongue out of her mouth all should be just fine.

 

[LC18]

I guess I'm referring more to a situation of someone the client knows.

I tend to overthink everything, which eventually leads to worst case scenarios such as running into my boss or a family member while on a dinner date. The chances of that are slim, but like I said - I overthink stuff.

You’re not allowed to date? I mean if you’re married or partnered up I could understand how that could be awkward but if you’re single, who cares who you’re dining with?

 

[Zero_Six]

You’re not allowed to date? I mean if you’re married or partnered up I could understand how that could be awkward but if you’re single, who cares who you’re dining with?

If it were my boss or a co-worker, no problem. They probably wouldn't ask many questions.
Someone closer though. They know I'm not dating and haven't been on a date in years. Once they got over the shock of seeing me being a normal human being doing normal human things, they'd have questions. I wouldn't be opposed to telling most of them the truth, but IDK if that would be proper etiquette.

I'm obviously worrying about nothing though. My family doesn't live here and my few friends aren't the fancy restaurant type. Was just curious if setting up a backstory was a thing.

 

[LC18]

If it were my boss or a co-worker, no problem. They probably wouldn't ask many questions.
Someone closer though. They know I'm not dating and haven't been on a date in years. Once they got over the shock of seeing me being a normal human being doing normal human things, they'd have questions. I wouldn't be opposed to telling most of them the truth, but IDK if that would be proper etiquette.

I'm obviously worrying about nothing though. My family doesn't live here and my few friends aren't the fancy restaurant type. Was just curious if setting up a backstory was a thing.

You also don’t owe them an explanation about how you live your life.

“I was on a date. We met through a mutual friend/coworker” end of the story.