Ask us anything part 3

[Sylar]

My question for you is, what makes someone's reviews acceptable? A lot of providers don't have reviews, and it's considered inappropriate to ask a client to review you.. Also, what is a turn off or turn on about someone's conduct on social media?

I don't fully understand your first question but I will answer your second one.

Honestly, I rarely check for social media. I only do if it has been mentioned in the reviews or if the SP advertises it. And when I do it it's mostly to see the up to date and non-professional photos / selfies, which are more indicative than professional shots.
But sometimes checking social media can result in me changing my mind. Red flags would be public drama with other SPs, shitting on clients for the sake of shitting on clients, any form of racism, not being able to clearly articulate, excessive flaunting of wealth. These kind of kind of behaviors

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I don't fully understand your first question but I will answer your second one.

Honestly, I rarely check for social media. I only do if it has been mentioned in the reviews or if the SP advertises it. And when I do it it's mostly to see the up to date and non-professional photos / selfies, which are more indicative than professional shots.
But sometimes checking social media can result in me changing my mind. Red flags would be public drama with other SPs, shitting on clients for the sake of shitting on clients, any form of racism, not being able to clearly articulate, excessive flaunting of wealth. These kind of kind of behaviors

oh, that's totally understandable.
for my first question, i think i meant.. what makes a sp appealing to you when you read reviews about her?

 

[Sylar]

oh, that's totally understandable.
for my first question, i think i meant.. what makes a sp appealing to you when you read reviews about her?

Mostly her overall conduct, behavior, looks (does it match her photos) and once again checking for red flags.
I really don't care about reviews with overexaggerated escapades and the back to back to back acronyms. Mainly because the experience will always vary depending on the two people involved and of course the wide spectrum of clients who are vastly different than myself. Not to mention the attached self-praise that is ubiquitous.

I do appreciate when the reviewers mention their own age, preferences and experience, as this will help me assess their review and how my experience could be potentially be similar or different.

 

[Murlockus]

hey an other day an other weird question !

questions about duos
i saw some providers mentioning '' Rate Match Policy '' on their websites
i understand what it means. my question is does every single provider do a Rate Match Policy ? or only providers that mentions it on their website follow that rule ?


2 birds 1 stone.
how you contact providers for duo ?
contact provider A then ask her if she's willing to do a duo with provider B ?
or contact provider A tell her ''id like to go on a Duo date with you''
i saw on websites ''duos available with my girlfriends'' but no names are mentioned does that mean they are opens to duos with any provider ?
ty for ur time i really appreciate it <3

 

[Lunaseraphim]

hey an other day an other weird question !

questions about duos
i saw some providers mentioning '' Rate Match Policy '' on their websites
i understand what it means. my question is does every single provider do a Rate Match Policy ? or only providers that mentions it on their website follow that rule ?


2 birds 1 stone.
how you contact providers for duo ?
contact provider A then ask her if she's willing to do a duo with provider B ?
or contact provider A tell her ''id like to go on a Duo date with you''
i saw on websites ''duos available with my girlfriends'' but no names are mentioned does that mean they are opens to duos with any provider ?
ty for ur time i really appreciate it <3

I prefer personally when rates are matched because often my duo partners charge more than I do, and it's honestly more polite and more fair to the provider who charges less, but you can still ask. I've accepted to do a duo recently during which I was supposed to get paid less than my duo partner, it was disappointing but I still did it. However we had to cancel because the client was not respectful.

When I've gotten approached from duos I asked a few companions if they were available on the day of the booking and then I show the clients the providers websites and let him choose. Sometimes people advertise duos with other providers. I think it's also perfectly acceptable to email 2 companions together and ask them if they would be willing to do a duo together. I don't have a duo section on my website personally because I'm still fairly new at doing duos, but I absolutely loved the experiences I've had so far even if I was shy at first.

 

[Murlockus]

I prefer personally when rates are matched because often my duo partners charge more than I do, and it's honestly more polite and more fair to the provider who charges less, but you can still ask. I've accepted to do a duo recently during which I was supposed to get paid less than my duo partner, it was disappointing but I still did it. However we had to cancel because the client was not respectful.

When I've gotten approached from duos I asked a few companions if they were available on the day of the booking and then I show the clients the providers websites and let him choose. Sometimes people advertise duos with other providers. I think it's also perfectly acceptable to email 2 companions together and ask them if they would be willing to do a duo together. I don't have a duo section on my website personally because I'm still fairly new at doing duos, but I absolutely loved the experiences I've had so far even if I was shy at first.

ohh ty for ur answer.... noted for matching rates o7

but what if you would book 2 providers not for the same amount of time ? like u would book A for 5 hours and B for 3 hours would u still match rates ? (i know its crazy i just had that question pop up in my goomba mind)

 

[Lunaseraphim]

ohh ty for ur answer.... noted for matching rates o7

but what if you would book 2 providers not for the same amount of time ? like u would book A for 5 hours and B for 3 hours would u still match rates ? (i know its crazy i just had that question pop up in my goomba mind)

I've heard of that happening! I don't think you would have to match rates in this case, but maybe like match B's rate to A's 3 hr rate, or vice versa?

 

[Murlockus]

I've heard of that happening! I don't think you would have to match rates in this case, but maybe like match B's rate to A's 3 hr rate, or vice versa?

noted ty.... i really appreciate ur fast replies have a good evening ! and take care <3

 

[LC18]

''duos available with my girlfriends'' but no names are mentioned does that mean they are opens to duos with any provider ?

Always ask them who they duo with. There’s a few people I wouldn’t want to do duos with, not because I don’t like them but just because we don’t have the same vibe and values.

Not everyone does rate matching but I personally find it to be the most polite/ethical. I remember one time receiving a duo request from a girl who wanted to be paid 1k while I would have been paid 300, I declined

 

[CuriousGent]

I prefer personally when rates are matched because often my duo partners charge more than I do, and it's honestly more polite and more fair to the provider who charges less, but you can still ask.

Always ask them who they duo with. There’s a few people I wouldn’t want to do duos with, not because I don’t like them but just because we don’t have the same vibe and values.

Not everyone does rate matching but I personally find it to be the most polite/ethical.

It does make a lot sense to prefer a duo with an sp you know / confortable with, chemistry, communication, there are so many variables already with three people involved.

Would you duo with an sp you know and are comfortable with but that has a different offering than you, for example you offer GFE and the other SP is more PSE/kinky and would have offerings like anal, rimming, Face fkng would you accept the duo at different rates given the offering is different?

 

[Julia Sky]

Price matching is the norm for many of us for obvious reasons. Typically double the rate of whoever charges more, but in some cases I don't mind lowering my rate if it means I get a duo, as I love doing duos.

I used to refuse duos because I was scared I wasn't good enough for duos. Now I've done them with a dozen different girls lol, how things change.

I will typically accept a duo with most girls (except rare exceptions) but I still prefer when the client (or provider) asks me privately before. I might feel uncomfortable if I get added to an email where both providers get a duo invite at the same time because then if one of us doesn't want to do it, having to say no in an email that the other provider (or the client) can read is awkward.

My preference, however, is definitely when a client lets me pick the other provider. Then I can choose my friends or someone I'm genuinely curious to do duos with, and that makes for a fun time usually!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

It does make a lot sense to prefer a duo with an sp you know / confortable with, chemistry, communication, there are so many variables already with three people involved.

Would you duo with an sp you know and are comfortable with but that has a different offering than you, for example you offer GFE and the other SP is more PSE/kinky and would have offerings like anal, rimming, Face fkng would you accept the duo at different rates given the offering is different?

I think this is complicated. A lot of SPs have rates for both GFE and PSE. I think it would be strange to book one SP for PSE and the other for GFE. I can see why the rates wouldn't be matched in that case.. But personally I've done duos with people who offer PSE services and our rates were matched. The clients didn't particularly ask for anything that's specific to PSE like greek during those bookings

 

[Murlockus]

wow ty for all the replies i love this forum i get good answers instead of the typical reddit hate. at the end of the day i just dont want to be awkward.
noted if i decide to go for a duo i will contact both the providers individually first.

now my daily question
*i swear when im on the grind they just keep coming*

this one is more for clients but id like to hear from every1

what yall do in 24 hours booking ?
i guess its more of a private thing like you get to know each other and such...
but if you take 6 hours of sleep out of the 24 hours that means 18 hours of doing whatever. im just curious what people do ? binge watch the extended version of the lord of the rings ?? XDD
or they go out on dates ? if its downtown Montréal and im not from Montréal does that mean i could get a gorgeous tour guide ? 0_0

2 birds one stone
can you book a provider at anytime ? like start at 11pm sleep during the day type thing ? *i would understand if they would refuse since that means ur sleep schedule will be a bit weird afterwards*
(long story short i work at night time because its when im most productive)

ty for ur time means a lot to me <3

 

[LC18]

if its downtown Montréal and im not from Montréal does that mean i could get a gorgeous tour guide ? 0_0

I do offer that, if you’ve seen my Twitter account I’m pretty knowledgeable about Montreal. I know a lot of fun facts and can show you places you’ve never heard of.


Other than the obvious, on my overnights or 24 hours booking, clients have let me bring my video games so we could play, they’ve let me do face masks with them, we’ve been out to eat and sometimes people book vineyard tours or spa date. I remember going on a FMTY and the client took me to the aquarium because he knows it’s my favourite place (we sadly don’t have one here but there’s one in Quebec City).

 

[LC18]

can you book a provider at anytime ? like start at 11pm sleep during the day type thing ?

Do you mean a date that would start at 11:00 PM? If it’s under 4 hours I see no problem with that if that’s asked ahead.

If it’s longer than that it might be a little complicated because most would maybe fall asleep.

Pulling an all-nighter is rough when you’re not used to that. I know I sometimes do but it’s against my will, my sleep schedule isn’t cooperating

 

[Murlockus]

I do offer that, if you’ve seen my Twitter account I’m pretty knowledgeable about Montreal. I know a lot of fun facts and can show you places you’ve never heard of.


Other than the obvious, on my overnights or 24 hours booking, clients have let me bring my video games so we could play, they’ve let me do face masks with them, we’ve been out to eat and sometimes people book vineyard tours or spa date. I remember going on a FMTY and the client took me to the aquarium because he knows it’s my favourite place (we sadly don’t have one here but there’s one in Quebec City).

the obvious you mean intimate time for 18 hours ? or on off on off ? video games 0_0 that's such a good idea hahhahah or maybe Netflix n chill ? ngl the tour guide thing sounds like such a good idea, im taking notes so much to see in Montréal. its after all the biggest city in the state

yeah do something like 11pm to like 7-8 am. i understand it might be harder for some people i guess that's totally something to talk about in emails

*im sry im totally out of practice recently (since early may) ive been working with French people 90% of the time my English is suffering ((*

 

[LC18]

the obvious you mean intimate time for 18 hours ? or on off on off ? video games 0_0 that's such a good idea hahhahah or maybe Netflix n chill ? ngl the tour guide thing sounds like such a good idea, im taking notes so much to see in Montréal. its after all the biggest city in the state

yeah do something like 11pm to like 7-8 am. i understand it might be harder for some people i guess that's totally something to talk about in emails

*im sry im totally out of practice recently (since early may) ive been working with French people 90% of the time my English is suffering ((*

Oui, autre que le sexe il y a plusieurs activités qui sont possible mais normalement les SP demandent à ce qu’il y ait un minimum d’heures passées hors de la chambre d’hôtel. Je ne connais aucune qui accepterait de passer tout un overnight dans la chambre ou 24 heures dans la chambre.

Province* not state

With enough planning and coffee an all-nighter could be possible with the right SP.

 

[Sylar]

what yall do in 24 hours booking ?
i guess its more of a private thing like you get to know each other and such...
but if you take 6 hours of sleep out of the 24 hours that means 18 hours of doing whatever. im just curious what people do ? binge watch the extended version of the lord of the rings ?? XDD
or they go out on dates ? if its downtown Montréal and im not from Montréal does that mean i could get a gorgeous tour guide ? 0_0

This thread will be of interest to you: https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/dinner-dates-and-overnights

 

[Fradi]

hey an other day an other weird question !

questions about duos
i saw some providers mentioning '' Rate Match Policy '' on their websites
i understand what it means. my question is does every single provider do a Rate Match Policy ? or only providers that mentions it on their website follow that rule ?


2 birds 1 stone.
how you contact providers for duo ?
contact provider A then ask her if she's willing to do a duo with provider B ?
or contact provider A tell her ''id like to go on a Duo date with you''
i saw on websites ''duos available with my girlfriends'' but no names are mentioned does that mean they are opens to duos with any provider ?
ty for ur time i really appreciate it <3

I think it would be both demeaning and unkind to pay one SP a lower rate than the other in a duo even if their individual rates are different.
If you want and can afford a duo then be a gentleman and make them both feel equally wanted.
If I was an SP and someone tried to negotiate that I would totally refuse to see them.

As far as who they do duos with many times their duo partners are listed on their website and if you would like someone else then simply ask there is nothing disrespectful about that they may even be happy to try someone new as a duo partner also.

 

[Murlockus]

Oui, autre que le sexe il y a plusieurs activités qui sont possible mais normalement les SP demandent à ce qu’il y ait un minimum d’heures passées hors de la chambre d’hôtel. Je ne connais aucune qui accepterait de passer tout un overnight dans la chambre ou 24 heures dans la chambre.

Province* not state

With enough planning and coffee an all-nighter could be possible with the right SP.

SP= provider ?

sheesh yall giving me DA answers <3 i love it
this forum as been a gold mine of info


noted noted noted o7

im the type that likes to plan
(planning is almost more fun than traveling XD)