Worth noting that the poster has a history of asking needlessly provocative questions on this thread.That's a good question that caught me off-guard
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Worth noting that the poster has a history of asking needlessly provocative questions on this thread.That's a good question that caught me off-guard
Thank you so much !!!!!
I've noticed! I know the intentions behind this question may not have been the greatest lol but I still thought it was worth answering genuinely.Worth noting that the poster has a history of asking needlessly provocative questions on this thread.
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For me it's the conversations, meeting people I wouldn't meet otherwise, human connection, feeling like I am making someone happy. My sex drive isn't higher than anybody else's even if I do enjoy sex, but I do like the social part the most. I really enjoy getting to know my clients and bonding with them. I also like that I get affection from doing this job. Since I'm a GFE provider a lot of clients like to cuddle with me, and I'm not in a relationship at the moment, so this is something I find fulfilling.Not sure this has been asked before on the thread but- to the providers out there what is it that you love the most about your job? Obv besides the $$$
Some women I've talked to say that they have a high sex drive and love the thrill of doing it with strangers, but is there any part of you that likes the other things like getting to know new people, dining out, etc? I've been with mostly agency and spa girls and they usually turn down my offers to take them out for (non sexual) social time even with offers to compensate- seem to me that they are more purely in this for the $ and not the sexual/social enjoyment. But could be wrong!
what is it that you love the most about your job?
In some cases I certainly hope not since they act like total illiterate a-holes. Without naming anyone we all have souvenirs of such behavior.[Everyone]
When you see someone interacting on the boards (merb, terb, perb), do you assume they’re acting/talking the same in person?
Being called "naughty" is also pretty cuteBeing called a good girl
Yes.[Everyone]
When you see someone interacting on the boards (merb, terb, perb), do you assume they’re acting/talking the same in person?
Providers, no. Providers I've met and see on here are much cooler in person and their personality really shines in real life and on their public social media. We have to be careful about what we say here and I think some of us are more reserved on this platform and over text. I think that's my case.[Everyone]
When you see someone interacting on the boards (merb, terb, perb), do you assume they’re acting/talking the same in person?
No, not necessarily. Clients also don't treat all providers the same way. I think in some contexts, clients treat SP's better than women in their real life. I think for other clients, it's the other way around.[Providers]
Somewhat related question: When you observe how clients present themselves and behave in sessions, do you assume that reflects how/who they are outside of sessions?
Haha thanks LC and Luna Good to know that you guys get similar emotional fulfillment from this as we do. Will have to work in more dinner dates and calling providers "good girls" more often in my future visitsIt satisfies all of my needs:
Sex
Money
Talking
Joking around
Sending nudes
Being called a good girl
I don’t need a boyfriend with this job
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[Providers]
Somewhat related question: When you observe how clients present themselves and behave in sessions, do you assume that reflects how/who they are outside of sessions?
I mainly do cbj. Cum/precum makes me ill. I have seen enough clients who try to convince to go bbbj, but I have my very strict criteria for it, and honestly it's a worse bj without condom as I don't want to taste his excitement.I always do CBJ, but I'm getting tempted to go with BBBJ or CIM if it's offered. I know it's a YMMV thing, but I just wanted to ask because it seems like a good space here.
SPs, have you ever had someone skeptical about going for it? Did they cite health reasons, or playing it safe for a potential partner?
I used to be for 20 years I lived a civi life after being an escort at 18.Escorts that retire and return to civilian life....
It didn't intersect.For those that settle into normal long term relationships, how do they go about their past life intersecting with their new life?
I can't speak for others, but it was one of those things I mentioned before it becomeing a relationship, because there are some civi men who view it as dirty, and are harsh when they find out your past. It was easier to weed out these people before becoming attached, than to have someone you care about belittle you for the secorite coming out.From a % standpoint, how many keep their escort life secret from their relationship forever, how many eventually tell their partner after a commitment and hope it doesnt blow things up and how many dont even enter a committed relationship until they have their past life out in the open and its accepted?
? I didn't. I met my partner who understood I needed to make a living after I quit my job from burnout, and he suggested other types of SW when I suggested I was more comfortable with escorting than say being a dancer. (It was a fantasy of his that his parter was in SW. And was something I had considered many times over the years, but didn't feel I could have a relationship ever again if I got back into it.) Now when my emotions are down he is my rock and keeps me built up. Reminding me that SW doesn't devalue me like people in my past had drilled into me. And turns him on to hear about my encounters. It's actually a requirement I was given for his ok with it, I must tell him about all my encounters.How many retired escorts enter LTRs with former clients?
If it were legalized and regulated it wouldn't be appealing. And many more people would be forced into it against their will. The way it is now, it is designed for the provider to be in charge of themselves, if it were legalized pimps and providers forced into this work would become the norm. It is something society wants to avoid.Do you think escorting should be completely legalized and regulated?
The main argument I hear against this is from women that say sex work is exploitative and no women do it of their own free will and that legalizing it will only help sex traffickers. I asked this on another forum and I got some pretty angry responses. I would like to hear your opinions on this.
I would not work with an agency again. To me it is almost akin to having a pimp. They take so much off the top that you make much less than the client actually thinks, and the clientel there is, you get what you are given, and it can lead to some pretty bad expieriences.Indies.
Would you work with agencies again ? Or you prefer to be independent?
I never worked for an agency and never will!Indies.
Would you work with agencies again ? Or you prefer to be independent?