I've noticed!
I know the intentions behind this question may not have been the greatest lol but I still thought it was worth answering genuinely.
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I know the intentions behind this question may not have been the greatest lol but I still thought it was worth answering genuinely.
For me it's the conversations, meeting people I wouldn't meet otherwise, human connection, feeling like I am making someone happy. My sex drive isn't higher than anybody else's even if I do enjoy sex, but I do like the social part the most. I really enjoy getting to know my clients and bonding with them. I also like that I get affection from doing this job. Since I'm a GFE provider a lot of clients like to cuddle with me, and I'm not in a relationship at the moment, so this is something I find fulfilling.Not sure this has been asked before on the thread but- to the providers out there what is it that you love the most about your job? Obv besides the $$$
Some women I've talked to say that they have a high sex drive and love the thrill of doing it with strangers, but is there any part of you that likes the other things like getting to know new people, dining out, etc? I've been with mostly agency and spa girls and they usually turn down my offers to take them out for (non sexual) social time even with offers to compensate- seem to me that they are more purely in this for the $ and not the sexual/social enjoyment. But could be wrong!
When it comes to the sexual part, this may sound strange, but being a SP gives me a relatively ''safe'' (for me that means I won't get my heart broken or get into weird messy situations or any other type of social discomfort involving people I know in my ''real life'') space to explore my own sexuality in many different ways. Obviously not all dates provide this opportunity, but for example threesomes, being involved in scenarios that involve me being more dominant, certain kinks, etc. Also everyone likes to feel desired.
There are many other aspects that I just find fun, like obviously being taken on dinner or lunch or brunch dates, gifts and treats, going to fancy hotels, going to someone's fancy airbnb downtown, etc. These things take me out of my daily routine.
It satisfies all of my needs:
Sex
Money
Talking
Joking around
Sending nudes
Being called a good girl
I don’t need a boyfriend with this job
In some cases I certainly hope not since they act like total illiterate a-holes. Without naming anyone we all have souvenirs of such behavior.
In other cases we have some super jocks which just love having an audience and really go into each and every detail about how wonderful it was and especially how wonderful they were. Is all true, ein who cares.
Then we have the giddy-up ride-em cowboy super sprawer that sees MSOG as a contest. A very close and well known friend of mine in the industry when fed up with their obnoxious boasting would answer "if you want to impress me forget telling me how many condoms you went through in a session but instead how long you can last with just one". Can't we all just imagine the dudes boner melt away ...
But thankfully I would say most of the guys here are downright cool gents. Some more passionate, others more reserved. Some may enhance a few things here and there but never with malice.
All in all it's a nice place to hang and just like choosing a provider, by reading and doing a little homework, we feel more connection with some than others. It's like any other social gathering, there are different tastes.
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For some I’m hoping they’re not the same in person otherwise they’d be horrible to hangout with
Providers, no. Providers I've met and see on here are much cooler in person and their personality really shines in real life and on their public social media. We have to be careful about what we say here and I think some of us are more reserved on this platform and over text. I think that's my case.
Clients.. not sure hehe. I do think some clients probably put on an act to joke with other men, but I wouldn't see certain clients just based on what they post on here, specially about other providers. Of course, one on one interactions are always different no matter what!
No, not necessarily. Clients also don't treat all providers the same way. I think in some contexts, clients treat SP's better than women in their real life. I think for other clients, it's the other way around.
Haha thanks LC and Luna
Good to know that you guys get similar emotional fulfillment from this as we do. Will have to work in more dinner dates and calling providers "good girls" more often in my future visits
It might be silly but I don’t think or should I say I don’t try to imagine them in the “real world”. It might be why I look so surprised when I meet them on the street.
“Oh you actually exist outside of my bedroom?”
I’m kidding but I’m serious about the “I don’t try to imagine them in the real world” part
I mainly do cbj. Cum/precum makes me ill. I have seen enough clients who try to convince to go bbbj, but I have my very strict criteria for it, and honestly it's a worse bj without condom as I don't want to taste his excitement.
Yes I have had the rare case where they tried reciting minimal health risks for why I should let them go without, I recite health as a reason it is a must, for my life partner, and all the other clients I see. This 1 person's desire for bbbj is not more important than protecting everyone I see.
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I used to be for 20 years I lived a civi life after being an escort at 18.
It didn't intersect.
I can't speak for others, but it was one of those things I mentioned before it becomeing a relationship, because there are some civi men who view it as dirty, and are harsh when they find out your past. It was easier to weed out these people before becoming attached, than to have someone you care about belittle you for the secorite coming out.
And it was a good thing I did tell them, because even after faithfully being with someone for years, if we ended up at a party where there were people who knew about my past, even if I was nothing like it any more, they would feel compelled to tell my partner about my history.
Too many people when they have it rough, and see you good, will try and ruin what you have, just Because it makes them feel better about themselves to tear you down. And this is something you don't want someone else to tell your partner, they will feel betrayed if they didn't already know.
? I didn't. I met my partner who understood I needed to make a living after I quit my job from burnout, and he suggested other types of SW when I suggested I was more comfortable with escorting than say being a dancer. (It was a fantasy of his that his parter was in SW. And was something I had considered many times over the years, but didn't feel I could have a relationship ever again if I got back into it.) Now when my emotions are down he is my rock and keeps me built up. Reminding me that SW doesn't devalue me like people in my past had drilled into me. And turns him on to hear about my encounters. It's actually a requirement I was given for his ok with it, I must tell him about all my encounters.
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If it were legalized and regulated it wouldn't be appealing. And many more people would be forced into it against their will. The way it is now, it is designed for the provider to be in charge of themselves, if it were legalized pimps and providers forced into this work would become the norm. It is something society wants to avoid.
I would not work with an agency again. To me it is almost akin to having a pimp. They take so much off the top that you make much less than the client actually thinks, and the clientel there is, you get what you are given, and it can lead to some pretty bad expieriences.
Besides you have a boss; working for someone else, is being over worked, under appreciated, and under paid for the work you put in. To me an agency is exactly the same thing. You aren't a person, but an item for them to profit off of.
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Not necessarily... what is traditionally good looking, can also often be more entitled attitudes, narcissistic, and have little regard for the person serving them. Serving traditionally good looking people can also be draining because they are demanding, and someone who rides threw life on their looks, and has it easy, often has no reguard to others difficulties and struggles.
Personality matters so much more than looks when it comes to being able to give good service.
Indeed, the conventionally good-looking guys who booked me have never been my best clients!
Not sure this has been asked before on the thread but- to the providers out there what is it that you love the most about your job? Obv besides the $$$
Some women I've talked to say that they have a high sex drive and love the thrill of doing it with strangers, but is there any part of you that likes the other things like getting to know new people, dining out, etc? I've been with mostly agency and spa girls and they usually turn down my offers to take them out for (non sexual) social time even with offers to compensate- seem to me that they are more purely in this for the $ and not the sexual/social enjoyment. But could be wrong!
For me there is high sex drive, but if a visit is only sex, I don't enjoy it. I like feeling connected to people, and enjoy the validation from people that they enjoy time with me.
When I am not around others I am very introverted, and I enjoy the feeling of the extrovert who comes out of me when I am in the company of others. At home I am quiet and anti-social, so it is nice to be out and talk with people and get to know how others live and survive. I like finding out how other people think, as it has become apparent over the years my mind really doesn't work the same as everyone else. I tend to view the world how I imagine AI would learn to understand the world if it was made into a robot and set out to pretend to be a person. So I enjoy accumulating data from all places to get a better understanding of humanity and spirituality from other people.
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