What do you do to hide the period from your partner ?
From a partner? Like someone I’m dating seriously?
Why would I hide that from them?
I also don’t hide it from client I just say: it’s that time of the month
What do you do to hide the period from your partner ?
Just curious, What control do you fear exactly? Having to pay taxes? Getting a permit? Regular Health checks?
IMHO the government does want to know what everyone is doing and when and with who. That's why we need to keep cash going and not always pay with debit/credit cards. I only see ladies that accept cash and I don't pay by etransfer or prepay, only for my safety.“Would you like a receipt for today’s banging session sir?”
We are already expected to pay taxes like other self employed people. However, most of us don’t tell our clients. We just absorb the loss. If the government gets in my panties, I’m definitely charging you a 14.975% extra on top of my advertised rate and I’m giving you a receipt.
I guess more people would prefer being paid by debit/credit cards if it’s legal and so discretion for clients becomes an issue.
I also doubt this would make the traveling internationally situation easier for sex workers.
I know a few American students living in Montreal that don’t want to buy weed from the SQDC with their American credit card because they’re scared it will cause them problems when they return back home.
TLDR: Why do you want the government in your bedroom? Are they not f***ing you enough with other taxes and laws?
IMHO the government does want to know what everyone is doing and when and with who
Don’t you get a negative reaction when period start during sex?From a partner? Like someone I’m dating seriously?
Why would I hide that from them?
I also don’t hide it from client I just say: it’s that time of the month
Don’t you get a negative reaction when period start during sex?
What sex is okay ? Like regular intercourse?No because I don’t have sex with immature people. They’re grown men that understand periods are part of life.
If it starts while we are having sex we are either stopping or we’re finishing off in the shower. Then they’re free to avoid me for a week if they don’t like the sight of blood.
We already pay taxes as other sex-employed workers and we already have regular health checks.Just curious, What control do you fear exactly? Having to pay taxes? Getting a permit? Regular Health checks?
You should stop today because menstruation can start at anytime!what about cunilingus? I don’t think I like to do DATY if period might be starting
What sex is okay ? Like regular intercourse?
what about cunilingus? I don’t think I like to do DATY if period might be starting
perfect example.Pot is legal, not decriminalized, in Canada. Is it still possible to buy in the streets? Yes. Can you be arrested if you buy your pot somewhere else than from the SQDC? Yes. It wouldn't improve our situation besides exercising way more control over us.
Perfectly said.We already pay taxes as other sex-employed workers and we already have regular health checks.
Just like with the SAQ and the SQDC, and knowing our government, we would have an STDSDQ (Société des Travailleuses(rs) du sexe du Québec) where we would have to work from and between, what, 9 to 5 maybe. I would have an employer (RIP private businesses in the sex industry — and I love my self-employment status) and no other than the government! We wouldn't work from home anymore since it had to be from selected places in the city, and if you do go on the black market, they could arrest you. If you go out with a courtesan, they could arrest you because Article 30, alinea 1.5; prostitutes can't be used in public. We, SW, wouldn't go to hotels anymore, this will become prohibited since it can't be tracked and a way to keep the regular businesses "clean of prostitution". They would take your licence on arrival, your phone number and an emergency contact.
edit: since we would prefer to keep our business private, we would have to go underground. We would still advertise online (illegally) but our ads would become even more cryptical, with so few details that it would be an even bigger hit or miss for the clients. More scammers would get in the way since no one can give enough details to be proven not a scammer. We would be resorted to going to private residences because hotels would be too dangerous, putting us in a more vulnerable position.
I understand the brothels in other countries, but it's not the best scenario either. It needs to be like any other job: most jobs aren't legal. They just "are" within the existing laws, and rights, of the country.
At the top of this page there is a box marked "search this thread" (just type condom) which should lead you to many interesting answers on the subject.Long time lurker here! What are SP thoughts on giving oral with a condom on vs off? Is it more common for SP’s to ask to have the condom on due to safety etc?
It's safer to do it with a condom, but as a gfe provider most clients ask for bbbj. So that is why I recommend people take their sexual health very seriously and get tested on a regular basis.Long time lurker here! What are SP thoughts on giving oral with a condom on vs off? Is it more common for SP’s to ask to have the condom on due to safety etc?
1) I've had a few sessions now where the SP has forgotten their lube. I think I will buy/pack a backup just in case this happens again. What's the consensus on the best type of lube (unscented silicone & water-based blend)?
Indeed, anything Skyn/Lifestyle is out of the question for me, I get an infection every time. And I prefer silicon-based lube (Durex, Lubrifiant silicone Real Feel is my favorite)I personally prefer water based but my good friend cannot use it so I guess it’s again a case of “it depends on the kitty”
As for the test results, I would say you can send it if the provider asks for it. Letting me know in your short presentation that you get tested every 3 months because you take this industry and your health seriously, without adding details, would do it.2) I'd like to send my test results to SPs without implying that 1) I'm looking for BBFS (I'm not) and 2) I expect them to send me their results back (I don't). What would be the right non-awkward way to effectively communicate this?
As for the test results, I would say you can send it if the provider asks for it. Letting me know in your short presentation that you get tested every 3 months because you take this industry and your health seriously, without adding details, would do it.