It can't be the latter. The SP has to work OT because you are unable to nut? I don't think so.
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J'ai déjà traversé trop de carrières. J'ai pleuré dans mon bureau et j'ai été physiquement et émotionnellement traumatisée dans d'autres carrières. C'est ici que je suis heureuse en ce moment, et je le serai pour mes enfants, quelle que soit la profession qu'ils choisiront.
Very fine gestures by introduction, Art. You seem very wise as to the details you pay attention to. Kudos to you.
Please continue, would love to hear more about how to handle a woman and the rest of the evening. Will be taking notes. Even an old dog can learn new tricks.
Cheers, CJ
LOL, I guess you are being sarcastic. Just wanted to know if I am doing things right haha.
Nope... was being 100% sincere.
Would love to hear more on the finesses of your chivalrous steps throughout those evenings/encounters.
May make an interesting topic but is going way out of the basic intent of the thread which is basically asking our generous ladies questions based on the "hobby".
A new thread based on your exchange would be appropriate and probably welcome by a certain audience.
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You're absolutely right, and I didn't frame the question properly. I should have said without exceeding the agreed to time, so in other words if you nut 20 mins into a 60 minute session. I didn't mean to suggest that the agreed to time should be exceeded for any reason beyond mutual consent to do so.
That's how I read it. 60 minutes is 60 minutes! "When a client books a 60-minute appointment, the time together is 60 minutes, including shower time. Personally, whether you ejaculate after 5 minutes or 50, as long as 60 minutes is not up we can certainly stay together and chat!"
Thanks. This brings up a corollary to your response. Do you screen/observe/mention/regulate how long the client spends in the shower, or what he does there? We all know that many guys don't want to take showers, having already showered (allegedly). What is the minimum standard? Guy grumbles and complains about showering, goes in, splashes water on himself then gets out and dries himself off. Do you press it further? Insist on a level of demonstrable cleanliness? Short of getting in and cleaning him off yourself what do you expect? Does the time he spends in there matter?
Based on these true life facts tells us that SPs would be top notch candidates to care for our kindergarten kids in another life.
Good hygiene just makes good sense for a number of businesses with people interactions, but yeah, people are babies sometimes. I'm not just asking about hygiene though.
Introduce yourself properly, don't be sassy or manipulative because most of us won't wanna deal with you if you are, follow screening info, take the booking seriously, let her know what you want clearly and respect her boundaries, show up clean, be sweet and agreeable
You are aware that the major problem with manipulators is that they are not conscious of being manipulative! In fact, I think most of them don’t even understand what it means!
Going to have to disagree with that. The manipulative people I've known are very aware of what they're doing, often more so than the person being manipulated.
I knew a guy at work that was great with the ladies. I heard him chatting with a woman and he brought up the fact that he had 3 sisters. He used that info as a way to portray himself as more understanding of their plights and woes.
When there were no women around, he told me that having 3 sisters allowed him to better take advantage of their weaknesses.
I disagree. Most manipulative people know exactly what they are doing. It's possible to manipulate without being conscious of it but in this context the person knows what they're doing. Some people even do research on how to manipulate and share tips lol you all know this
Definitely, that is true, but I'm talking about clients here. A lot of clients use manipulative tactics to try and get what they want, and they are often the same. I notice patterns. One very very common example is telling the SP that you want them to be your regular so that they give you a discount or better service or something extra. If you truly want a SP as your regular you aren't going to announce it, you're going to keep seeing them and that's it.
Or perhaps he was raised by 3 manipulative sisters? That can have a damaging effects as well. In his specific case, in a way maybe he learnt from the best. Just trying to illustrate that .manipulation is probably not gender specific.
Side note, the most manipulative person I've ever known, was completely aware of exactly what she was doing.
The commonality in our anecdotes is that manipulators go to great lengths to pretend to be someone else, gas lighting all along the way.
Also there is a strong (but not absolute) correlation between manipulators and narcissists, everything is about them and so well masked that even their closest friends have no idea how they truly are.
They may even create false narratives publicly against the victim/partner simply to win favor.
Very much in the spirit of Amber Heard.
Something to consider.
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