Ask us anything part 3

[Carl.is.Jung]

Saliva dries the skin. It is not a lubricant. Just like water doesn't hydrate the skin.

I hear clients saying sometimes that it's disappointing when we need lube, or that they don't want us to use lube, or comment when we reach the bottle before penetration "you need lube?". It's a very childish response. It is not personal: I apply lube every time, and I never had a condom that broke and I don't have to take multiple days off because of an irritated vagina. It is also important to add that our natural lubrication is not always abundant and readily available, depending on hormones and other variables, it is sometimes not enough.

There's nothing better than lube.

Clinically sound response.
However, 3 decades of personal experience has proven otherwise (for me, I'm just an outlier who knows how to prep the situation).

Concur with you about the childish responses. Just have no personal experience with that is all.

* References available upon request.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

Could an SP please enlighten us regarding the no blacks and no indians rules that have been increasingly advertised?

I don’t think it’s “just preference”

Enough bad apples have taken its' toll on the others in the basket.

Simple risk management (not here to debate the issue, just saying there's a reason that they feel the need to post those screening points).

Exceptions are always made if the client has a reputation / history in good standing.

Accept it and move on.

 

[talkinghead]

Could an SP please enlighten us regarding the no blacks and no indians rules that have been increasingly advertised?

I don’t think it’s “just preference”

This has been discussed ad nauseam out here for over a decade, and it never goes well. A simple search should find multiple threads on the topic.

 

[Fradi]

Enough bad apples have taken its' toll on the others in the basket.

Simple risk management (not here to debate the issue, just saying there's a reason that they feel the need to post those screening points).

Exceptions are always made if the client has a reputation / history in good standing.

Accept it and move on.

Ladies, feel free to chime in.

Another thread was closed because of the constant repetition.
How about just simply being a grown up and using some common sense and treating ladies with kindness and respect.
We all have/had loved ones mothers or sisters, girlfriends wife’s think how would you like them to be treated and act accordingly.
We don’t need several threads on the subject, there is already a sticky thread that covers it quite adequately.

 

[MajinBuu]

Si vous n'aviez pas suivi ce chemin, quelle autre carrière auriez-vous envisagées?

Laisseriez-vous votre enfant choisir la même profession que vous? Quelle serait votre réaction si vous découvriez que votre enfant fait la même chose?

 

[LC18]

1. Saliva is not lube.

2.SPs not accepting black or indian men can be pure racism or to protect their privacy if they are issued from those said communities. More opinions and comments can be found by searching “no black gents” with the search tool.

3.Je n’aurais pas d’opinion si mon enfant se lançait dans cet industrie par contre, j’y suis moi-même et je travaille pour que mon enfant n’ait pas à prendre cette route là pour l’argent.

Malgré que je ne recommande à personne de le faire par pur plaisir, ce n’est pas plaisant de risquer sa vie.

 

[Nachoy]

Travailler pour une agence est-il la meilleure voie pour devenir indépendant. Si oui, qu’est-ce que je recherche dans une bonne agence pour me lancer ?

 

[urquell]

Generally speaking, and making allowances for every provider being different and that there is no universal answer, is it the generally (majority) accepted understanding that a session is over when the time allocation is up, or when the SOG(s) is complete?

 

[EagerBeaver]

Generally speaking, and making allowances for every provider being different and that there is no universal answer, is it the generally (majority) accepted understanding that a session is over when the time allocation is up, or when the SOG(s) is complete?

It can't be the latter. The SP has to work OT because you are unable to nut? I don't think so.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Generally speaking, and making allowances for every provider being different and that there is no universal answer, is it the generally (majority) accepted understanding that a session is over when the time allocation is up, or when the SOG(s) is complete?

Clock rules, always!

 

[MichelleMontreal]

Si vous n'aviez pas suivi ce chemin, quelle autre carrière auriez-vous envisagées?

Laisseriez-vous votre enfant choisir la même profession que vous? Quelle serait votre réaction si vous découvriez que votre enfant fait la même chose?

J'ai déjà traversé trop de carrières. J'ai pleuré dans mon bureau et j'ai été physiquement et émotionnellement traumatisée dans d'autres carrières. C'est ici que je suis heureuse en ce moment, et je le serai pour mes enfants, quelle que soit la profession qu'ils choisiront.

 

[Artvandelay_importer]

How to make an SP very comfortable? So the first thing I do if get their coat and give them the money and ask if everything is good and then offer them a drink. Is there any thing else I could do? Appreciate any input. Thanks!

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

How to make an SP very comfortable? So the first thing I do if get their coat and give them the money and ask if everything is good and then offer them a drink. Is there any thing else I could do? Appreciate any input. Thanks!

Very fine gestures by introduction, Art. You seem very wise as to the details you pay attention to. Kudos to you.
Please continue, would love to hear more about how to handle a woman and the rest of the evening. Will be taking notes. Even an old dog can learn new tricks.
Cheers, CJ

 

[Artvandelay_importer]

Very fine gestures by introduction, Art. You seem very wise as to the details you pay attention. Kudos to you.
Please continue, would love to hear more about how to handle a woman and the rest of the evening. Will be taking notes.
Cheers, CJ

LOL, I guess you are being sarcastic. Just wanted to know if I am doing things right haha.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

LOL, I guess you are being sarcastic. Just wanted to know if I am doing things right haha.

Nope... was being 100% sincere.
Would love to hear more on the finesses of your chivalrous steps throughout those evenings/encounters.

 

[DouMan]

Nope... was being 100% sincere.
Would love to hear more on the finesses of your chivalrous steps throughout those evenings/encounters.

May make an interesting topic but is going way out of the basic intent of the thread which is basically asking our generous ladies questions based on the "hobby".

A new thread based on your exchange would be appropriate and probably welcome by a certain audience.

 

[urquell]

It can't be the latter. The SP has to work OT because you are unable to nut? I don't think so.

You're absolutely right, and I didn't frame the question properly. I should have said without exceeding the agreed to time, so in other words if you nut 20 mins into a 60 minute session. I didn't mean to suggest that the agreed to time should be exceeded for any reason beyond mutual consent to do so.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

You're absolutely right, and I didn't frame the question properly. I should have said without exceeding the agreed to time, so in other words if you nut 20 mins into a 60 minute session. I didn't mean to suggest that the agreed to time should be exceeded for any reason beyond mutual consent to do so.

That's how I read it. 60 minutes is 60 minutes! "When a client books a 60-minute appointment, the time together is 60 minutes, including shower time. Personally, whether you ejaculate after 5 minutes or 50, as long as 60 minutes is not up we can certainly stay together and chat!"

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/ask-us-anything-part-3.233219/page-51#post-1664121

 

[urquell]

That's how I read it. 60 minutes is 60 minutes! "When a client books a 60-minute appointment, the time together is 60 minutes, including shower time. Personally, whether you ejaculate after 5 minutes or 50, as long as 60 minutes is not up we can certainly stay together and chat!"

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/ask-us-anything-part-3.233219/page-51#post-1664121

Thanks. This brings up a corollary to your response. Do you screen/observe/mention/regulate how long the client spends in the shower, or what he does there? We all know that many guys don't want to take showers, having already showered (allegedly). What is the minimum standard? Guy grumbles and complains about showering, goes in, splashes water on himself then gets out and dries himself off. Do you press it further? Insist on a level of demonstrable cleanliness? Short of getting in and cleaning him off yourself what do you expect? Does the time he spends in there matter?

 

[DouMan]

Thanks. This brings up a corollary to your response. Do you screen/observe/mention/regulate how long the client spends in the shower, or what he does there? We all know that many guys don't want to take showers, having already showered (allegedly). What is the minimum standard? Guy grumbles and complains about showering, goes in, splashes water on himself then gets out and dries himself off. Do you press it further? Insist on a level of demonstrable cleanliness? Short of getting in and cleaning him off yourself what do you expect? Does the time he spends in there matter?

Based on these true life facts tells us that SPs would be top notch candidates to care for our kindergarten kids in another life.