Ask us anything part 3
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It is satire. But I think the gents would find it funnier than the girls
Clients:
What makes a paid date feel like a regular/unpaid date?
In other words, what things can make you forget that you paid to date that person?
What makes a paid date feel like a regular/unpaid date?
In other words, what things can make you forget that you paid to date that person?
It’s always going feel like a paid date for me
Unless the other person paid for the date or part of the date.
Sorry if that not what you wanted to hear
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I hate to tell you but SB are escorts in denial, they still fuck for money, but if you feel you are getting a better deal with them great that is what it is all about.
Personally I don’t give a shit what somebody calls me especially on an escort review board.
I am very comfortable with who I am, and the ladies I see repeatedly seem to be fine with it.
Of course SBs are escort in denial.
Don’t be sorry to tell me. I know.
Tell the SBs that , but to them it’s different, they want to feel above escorts
That does not happen easily and it happens over time.
It is many things, kindness, respect above all probably trust, sharing things about yourself that are real, a feeling that both are happy to be in each others company,.
Not worrying about the clock and still being able to respect the other persons time.
Respectful communication, everyone likes to have their text messages, emails responded to in a timely manner.
Basically just a genuine kindness towards the other person.
I would say when seeing each other for the sake of seeing each other not just for sex becomes as important.
I would try, but you don't seem great at listening to what others have to say.Feel free to elaborate on whatever you think I am! I would be more than happy to hear it!
This is just it if you have something to say, say it, he did, what! somebody on an escort review board is going to disagree with you.
WTF end of the world how can you show your face in public anymore.
Fradi, being a SB involves different things but I agree with you. A lot of ppl want SBs because they want escort services for cheaper. However I've heard of people having arrangements that are advantageous for both parties.
SB lifestyle is glamorized and idealized and a lot of girls don't know what they're getting into unfortunately.. I don't blame them personally and don't feel threatened by them but I wish certain men would stop seeing SB sites as a way to get escort services for cheap and push boundaries. I knew a guy who was a SD and he was also in complete denial of what he was doing. He thought these girls were his girlfriends.
Not always, a lot of SBs are young and naive and have been told by friends that they will make a lot of money by just going to restaurants with men. A girl who already comes from a wealthy family, works as a model and has a good education, is not going to get the same type of treatment as a girl who's trying to make money on the side because she's in trouble financially and doesn't know what she's getting into. I've heard of young girls from wealthy families sugaring just for fun and for the glamour and meeting rich men and having the money to party all the time and to do whatever they want, but that's really not most girls who have a profile on these websites. I've met girls who told me the arrangements that were offered to them by their SD's and I was shocked by how exploitative it was for them. They just don't know what they're doing.
SD websites are also designed a little bit like they're dating sites. It's misleading and confusing for both parties, in a subtle way. I know nobody is stupid and they know what they are doing there, but what I mean by this is that the way apps and websites are designed still have impact on the brain. It can appear a lot more reassuring for a girl who has never escorted to use a SD website, even if nothing good comes out of it.
When I've taken breaks from escorting I signed up on seeking arrangements because I was wondering if it would be easier for me and honestly it's never been a good idea. I prefer escorting by far and I get a lot more respect and actually get taken on really nice dates. I never met anybody from there, was talked to in very disrespectful ways and was offered really bad arrangements and ''netflix and chill'' types of dates that were poorly compensated.
The (very few) people I know who have a SD and have a good arrangement with them met them in other ways (often through escorting or massage), or they just really got lucky.. Some people actually are in some type of romantic relationship but they decided that there would be an allowance for them to keep seeing each other so that the girl can pay for her studies or live a nice life, even if the dynamic is not 100% transactional..
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I think I will be like the Captain here and call it what it is.
They are not naive but stupid.
Any woman that believes a man will spend thousands of dollars on winning and dinning them and just wants to admire their beauty and to be around them without it including sex simply put is exceptionally stupid it goes far beyond being naive.
They no nothing about men.
I think both of you are making a lot of generalizations that have no applicability in reality. I have been on Seeking Arrangement and Sugar Daddy for over 10 years and met many women on that site (SA). There are all types on there ranging from professional escorts to trannies to regular girls next door who don't know exactly what they want or how to value it. I have met women who are the opposite of what Fradi thinks is on there who wanted very little money (less than escort market rate) for sex. While others did want $1000. The experience is so broad and varied that anyone who makes any kind of generalized declaration about it would be dead wrong. To me it's a big box of chocolates in which all are different inside.
I did once see a lady on there who was very young and inexperienced and after a while she told me if we had a non-intimate date she wanted nothing and if we had an intimate date I could pay her $200 or what I thought she was worth. I was kind of surprised by that offer. I think I did give her $300, for the intimacy.
I did once see a lady on there who was very young and inexperienced and after a while she told me if we had a non-intimate date she wanted nothing and if we had an intimate date I could pay her $200 or what I thought she was worth. I was kind of surprised by that offer. I think I did give her $300, for the intimacy.
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The only difference I see between an escort and a SB is that with an escort you cut out all the pretend bullshit and accept each other for who they are.
You are right though with a SB arrangement negotiations are expected and part of the game.
With an escort it is considered an insult. I much prefer the escort never was much for bullshit or haggling.
What assumptions?
They all want money for being with you, end of assumptions. The details are beside the point.
Remember the old joke about would you have sex with me if I give you a million dollars.
The answer being now that we know what you are we are just haggling over the price.
If you are able to find what you are looking for there then that is great.
Actually, even that assumption is not true. Some women are using SA as a dating website and state that they are looking for marriage or a relationship. Do they ultimately desire marriage to a richer man, yes. But that's not really wanting "money for being with you."
When I started on SA, I was getting many unsolicited messages from women in the Philippines. What they wanted was very different. They wanted to come to the United States. They wanted to make a connection who could make that happen. My profile at that time indicated I was an attorney so I may have unwittingly invited these messages. I think they wanted a sponsor or perhaps a sham marriage, or someone who could put one together so as to make that illegal immigration happen for them. Why do you think Trump got elected? Too many people using this kind of nonsense to get in to the USA.
I did one time respond to one of the unsolicited messages from one of the Philippine women. She was hot and I was curious as to what she would offer. She basically offered to do a porn video for me, live via FaceTime. When I protested that I was an in person kind of arrangement guy, her response, which I will never forget, was that "the internet brings people together and connects them." Or something to that effect. She also promised me I would ejaculate when I saw her porn show live on FaceTime.
I declined.
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The lady from the Philippines probably wanted a free ticket to the US and the bigger coveted prize of US citizenship down the line.
I have nothing against anybody paying for sexual services in what ever form shape or arrangement two consenting adults have.
Money is meant to be spent to make you happy.
I just don’t like the airs and bullshit attached to it.
I wonder do SD feel better about themselves being called that instead of Johns just like SB do instead of being called a prostitute.
I have nothing against anybody paying for sexual services in what ever form shape or arrangement two consenting adults have.
Money is meant to be spent to make you happy.
I just don’t like the airs and bullshit attached to it.
I wonder do SD feel better about themselves being called that instead of Johns just like SB do instead of being called a prostitute.
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