It would be easier for me to answer this if I knew anyone who asked those specific questions (is it an agency thing?). I do not ask, nor do I care. Sometimes I get people offering that same information but they are always 40+ white men.
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No it’s indy that are doing it. Mainly women from Ontario.
No, not necessarily, but it could be. Personally I want to know how old someone is because depending on age the booking will potentially be different. I do think it's sus to ask for ethnicity, however I wonder if maybe some people ask for that information because they want an idea of what the person will look like and who will show up, but I'd rather just have a photo. I don't care what ethnicity someone is and it won't change the booking, but age often does influence certain things. Ideally I prefer when someone tells me a bit about themselves because I know if I will have things in common with the client or not, and what to talk about.
Why would age and ethnicity be equivalent? You mention age but only talk about black or indian after. I discriminate against age as I don't see people younger than 30 years old. As for others, their answer may differ. I also don't ask for ethnicity per se, but for a short physical description to know who I will meet, especially if I have to recognize the client in a lobby for instance.
This is a difficult question as the expectations vary depending on region, but generally speaking internationally across the majority of venues GFE is a more romantic experience (like a girlfriend) and signifies that extended periods of french kissing will be expected and permitted. Some providers don't like to do this and so using "GFE" denotes those who will.
PSE can mean more and different things and is much more provider specific, but most often means that anal is on the menu.
Now, again this is globally vs here in Montreal, and there is a variety of people interpreting these terms in different ways, so that can't be taken as gospel for everyone. As always it's best to be clear in what everyone's expectations are beforehand
GFE: client expects a certain level of sexual intimacy that is typical of a BF/GF relationship. Kissing, cuddling, BJ,DATY,FS and some emotional intimacy, to the extent that's possible with a given escort.
PSE: from my experience reading this board, client has a mental checklist of acronyms that include one or more of the following: CIM, COF, Greek. He may also be under the impression that fucking for 30-60 min straight is absolutely normal (it's not).
I’ve read your page and the services you offer. Other provider would put some of the services in PSE (dato, bls.69, cimsw) or even in the kink category (domination, DT)
So i guess it’s all in the ‘vibe’ of how it is done. You can give a sensual bbbj until cimsw while the guy is comfortably sitting in a couch(GFE) or give the bbbj while on your knees asking the guy to give you cimsw while holding your head (pse) ...
Probably because he read your acronyms and thought about a porn scene he saw and wanted to know if you could recreate it :-(. or maybe he’s just a timewaster ...
For me PSE means availability of CIM, DT, and anal with no surcharge. Rough play, domination etc. are different categories and need to be negotiated separately even if the girl advertises PSE.
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Whatever you offer, you’ll always find people that will be happy with just that there’s no need to change or try to please everyone.
Those that actively seek unannounced services from someone are not only setting themselves up for disappointment but also probably aren’t the clients you want to meet anyways.
Those that actively seek unannounced services from someone are not only setting themselves up for disappointment but also probably aren’t the clients you want to meet anyways.
This is great! To me, PSE is gonna come with some extra services above and beyond GFE, but it's more the mindset and the style of the session.GFE:
"Ohhh, I love to feel you inside me ... kiss me"
PSE:
"Fuck me harder you dirty bastard"
I have induged in a lot of PSE and some didnt come standard with anal, or anal was an extra. So I never assume that PSE means anal will be automatically on offer, and ask about it as well. I even had a PSE that was unspeakably kinky in some ways, but it didnt seem like COF/CIM was a possibility. Still a stellar session.
That's the issue, there is no standard, and the terms can mean different things to different people. Maybe best to specify services you provide and what your restrictions are, rather than generalize with GFE/PSE, as that can lead to varying expectations from client to client.
i agree! that's why i think sometimes these terms can be a bit misleading. i do think that for a lot of clients, gfe involves a certain level of emotional intimacy and a ''softer'' vibe.
Very vague. Not everyone will spend it the same way, the same could be said about clients.
I have accepted usd about 3 times in 2 years. And was because they didn't mention they only had usd, or I would have asked them to make the exchange. And only accepted it because they didn't ask for a conversion rate on the dollar. Any time they did the math for conversion, and ask to pay the direct exchange amount, I refuse to see them.
It is inconvenient for me to need to make the exchange, that inconvenience is charged to the client for not wanting to be inconvenienced himself.
I am generally looking for some level of emotional connection and intimacy. So it would involve some cuddling, soft massaging, caressing, and kissing and french kissing (dlnt like the LFK DFK distinction. French kissing involves tongue action.). Soft kissing everywhere on the body…. There is also BJ, DATY, 69, FS in a number of positions. I like the lady to enjoy herself as much as I do, which is also part of the GFE experience as far as i am concerned.
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