I have yet to repeat, as no meeting that was good enough and that there was a solid connection. Still looking for a energetic, talkative, fun, athletic type. To build the connection, might be useful to have a few text conversations first, and/or receive a introductory video.
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A bit difficult to find someone that would want to chat with you for free before meeting tho
Yes, I understand that it could be a lot considering the number of clients you may have, but could be a nice ROI if it creates many return encounters.
I do it when the client isn’t entitled. I never do it when they ask me to chat for free because I wouldn’t go to a seamstress and ask them to make me a dress for free. If they like me and offer to adjust a dress for me free of charge I’ll be happy though
I don't thinking texting is going to really tell you much in the way of building connection. Better to book a social rate hour and go out for a coffee or something and see if you think there is a spark. No SP should ever send a video of any kind for safety reasons.
When I get to MTL its rare to repeat but last trip I did make a connection with a SP from VOG and am back next week and plan to book 2hrs one alone and a duo for the second to see how it goes. MTL has so many incredible options, Indys(booked 2x) have 3 from Euphoria and 4 from Vog I want to book. Only three nights and a ton of viagra.
Agreed. Most of us have a lower social rate. I've been booked only for social just a handful of times.. one of those times, the gentleman explained that he was looking to go to sex clubs with me, and told me of other fantasies I couldn't really fulfill. It was still a good time, but we decided we weren't a good match. Another time, the client wanted to see me at my incall the next day.
Chatting before a booking doesn't ensure repeat encounters, it just doesn't work that way. However when a client books a longer date or social time to get to know you, there's more of a chance that a connection will form. Like Lena, I've sometimes chatted for a short period of time with a client before a booking, if he wasn't entitled and if I felt that we had interests in common... but often I knew the client was going to book me. This isn't like chatting with people you matched with on an app.
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Have you ever bartered for your time. I have been told by SPs that she exchanged time for a guy adjusting the temp on her shower faucet ( too cold ). An SP bought a desk computer it sat in the box because she did not know how to put it together and set it up. We did a barter.
I have actually done that but with iPhones and iPads, new the sp and I offered and they gladly take a $1400 phone for 2 hrs 600$ booking
I don't remember having bartered before, but lately I've been considering it if I could find a horny plumber / handyman lolll. I wouldn't mind a new phone either. Hahaha
No, I haven't. I would be open to it though, not for things but maybe more for a service that I really really need!
No. In exchange for social time I'd gladly do something like this.
otherwise it would really have to be worth it for me...While I know it is a professional relationship, a sense of connection. If I get the vibe that you have better things to do and can't wait for the appointment to be over I'm moving on. If you act like your having a good time with me
The same reason you repeat with a provider even if you live in the same area, the provider makes you feel like the experience is mutually pleasurable even if she is just an excellent actor?
The problem is commitment not a lot of men are committed to those relationships. Promises often turn out to be just words.
I would be commited to this sort of arrangement.
My wallet however isn't willing to participate!
I'd love to have an arrangement with a client but he would have to prove himself first. One old trick that manipulators in this industry seem to use is telling you they will be a regular client.. it's never true. If someone wants to be your regular, he just will come back. I've had many clients come back 3-5-6-7-10 times even more and they never promised anything. They just booked again.
If someone offered an arrangement that was worth it for me, I'd accept it probably, but I wouldn't give up escorting entirely... I'd probably just see less clients.. but I'd probably be trying to invest in other things eventually if I saw the gentleman was faithful to his promise
I see that a couple of SP may be willing to barter so let’s start a new currency ... Le Bite-Coin. How much bite-coin is a brand new Iphone ?
This is true. I have been seeing the same 2 ladies for over 7 years and I have never said I would be a regular. We are however friends and they know I will be seeing them there is no need to even bring this up. I am very lucky to have both these gorgeous young ladies in my life they are both amazing women.. If someone wants to be your regular, he just will come back. I've had many clients come back 3-5-6-7-10 times even more and they never promised anything. They just booked again.
If someone offered an arrangement that was worth it for me, I'd accept it probably, but I wouldn't give up escorting entirely... I'd probably just see less clients.. but I'd probably be trying to invest in other things eventually if I saw the gentleman was faithful to his promise
As far as SB arrangement. The whole point of seeing an SP is not to have commitments or things that you have to abide by on a weekly or monthly basis or whatever. For me SB arrangements are ridiculous, just a way for both to make believe that one is not a prostitute and the other is not a client and for both to somehow feel better and superior to other SW and clients.
It is enough to be able to enjoy each others company and to know that you will be treated with kindness and respect on both sides.
It works both ways. I once had a girl with whom I made an 'arrangement'. She was happy that she would focus on her school, and only on me. First 2 meetings she cancelled... Fuck it I tought too much time wasted.
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Truth bomb. Not to mention that boundaries are even harder to define than in a client/escort relationship. I would also assume than the risk of emotional entanglement is higher.
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