Ask us anything part 3

[hob12]

I know some people include it in their booking form. When it happens, do you answer honestly?

Or maybe you don’t see indies. Sorry can’t remember.

I do not see many indies, no. But I did see a few and I have given my nickname a couple of times because it was the only screening option I was ok with. Not gonna lie, I'm not a fan, but I understand. Long story short.

If an agency girl asks me if I use merb, I'll say yes. But I won't give them my name on the platform. None ever asked me anyway. Sometimes they're just interested to know how/why you booked them etc etc.

And before you ask, I would respect it if someone asked me to not write about our encounter (never happened, but I would unless it was a total nightmare which honestly never happened to me neither) or to omit certain details (actually happened). My reviews are pretty generic anyway, on purpose. And I don't write about all of them.

 

[Rebaynia]

Do you ever send nude pics to your clients ?

No. The most i would send is a single selfie.
Though I have let some use my phone to take a photo of me, and ask my master if he minds they recieve a copy. Nothing too personal. Things I might post on my socials, or have after the visit. But it is only for those I am willing to. I don't allow the opportunity to just anyone. (They often have tipped well enough that the request already feels compensated for without the expectation of recieving the pic in the first place, as they know they aren't entitled to it.)

How do you feel about receiving nude pics from trusted clients?

I get some men are proud of their dick pics, but if I didn't give you the green light to send it, I don't want to see it, and might result in the end of the booking process. It's just rude, and the equivalent of a trenchcoat flasher when we aren't expecting it. In most women's oppinion.

I like a tasty nude, where his dick is covered so I can see everything else but.

 

[Nachoy]

What type of photos are acceptable from your clients for screening

 

[Alon]

My girlfriend would like to offer GFE. It's something she wants to try.

Any advice?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

What type of photos are acceptable from your clients for screening

We all have different needs and reasons for requesting a photo for screening; each provider will tell you what she needs to feel comfortable.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Basic picture. No face

Why are you quoting me? I, personally, do not agree with the "no face" part.

 

[Alon]

Why are you quoting me? I, personally, do not agree with the "no face" part.

Blurred face

 

[LC18]

Blurred face

LMAO what’s the point then?

 

[Nachoy]

LMAO what’s the point then?

I have no clue either
What do you want for photos?

 

[LookAlike]

When you read reviews, do you start from page one or do you only read the most recents?

If there is more than one page, I jump to the most recents.

 

[Julia Sky]

I have no clue either
What do you want for photos?

A picture of a gift card redeem code lol

 

[Pablo1234]

Why do some SP's play music in the background? I mean don't get me wrong, I understand they all have they're preferences and that's fine, but why? Curious to know all your experiences

 

[LC18]

Clients, does this make you look at women* differently?

SPs, does this make you look at men* differently?

Meaning, are you turned off more easily than before?


*if you’re not straight feel free to answer with a different gender

 

[Nachoy]

How often do you cold call?
Or call up clients you haven’t seen for a while?
How often you try calling your favorite clients before you give up

 

[Johnny test]

Clients, does this make you look at women* differently?

SPs, does this make you look at men* differently?

Meaning, are you turned off more easily than before?


*if you’re not straight feel free to answer with a different gender

Not exactly sure i understand the question, does the fact that we meet sex workers makes a look differently at women? in wich way?

 

[Julia Sky]

How often do you cold call?
Or call up clients you haven’t seen for a while?
How often you try calling your favorite clients before you give up

I never call anyone and very rarely text - only a handful of regulars where we've already established that I could text them anytime. And never to ask for a booking, as that would be tacky imo.

I actually texted one upon waking up today because he was in my dreams and I had to tell him lol.

 

[Fradi]

Why do some SP's play music in the background? I mean don't get me wrong, I understand they all have they're preferences and that's fine, but why? Curious to know all your experiences

Subtle way of keeping time without looking like a time watcher.
Or just simply they like listening to music while having sex, sometimes both.
When NA NA NA NA kicks in time for you to hit the shower and leave.

 

[Fradi]

I actually texted one upon waking up today because he was in my dreams and I had to tell him lol.

My phone must be broken?

 

[DouMan]

Interested in your opinion on the following...

A previously very well-known and very well-reviewed SP breaching the “code of discretion" by:
- Stalking a client’s social media under a false identity.
- Obtaining information about his relationship through his social media.
- Contacting his girlfriend and lying about the timeframe during which he was a client.
- Proceeds to mock the client via texts…knowing that the relationship didn’t survive her interference.

Would the client be justified in “outing” her on a review board such as MERB?

Asking for a friend...

If he has proof of such your "friend" could simply go to the police and have them judge the validity of such a complaint.
Otherwise anyone could start posting anyone's name about anything, be it true or false, for whatever reason.

We often see this between kids at school posting anything and in that example we call that "bullying". Adults are supposed to be more intelligent.

 

[talkinghead]

Interested in your opinion on the following...

A previously very well-known and very well-reviewed SP breaching the “code of discretion" by:
- Stalking a client’s social media under a false identity.
- Obtaining information about his relationship through his social media.
- Contacting his girlfriend and lying about the timeframe during which he was a client.
- Proceeds to mock the client via texts…knowing that the relationship didn’t survive her interference.

Would the client be justified in “outing” her on a review board such as MERB?

Asking for a friend...

Just the thought gives me the willies. There's so much at stake, not only for the client but the SP and indeed the SP community. I agree with @DouMan that it's probably not a good idea to make accusations out here; they would be necessarily anonymous on your "friend's" part and result in an ugly kerfuffle. On the other hand, we're talking about the client's life (job, relationships, family, etc.). I'm curious what "previously" means; is she out of the business? I also wonder how she advertises. In the past, the women on Indy Companion had a kind of back channel way of communicating. Maybe it would be possible to get word to them?? (I have no idea.) It is very strongly in their interest not to have anyone in their "collective" pulling that nonsense. If the SP is entirely independent (and doesn't advertise on MERB, Indy Companions, or Tryst, eg), then I don't see what can be done .... but in my book it's a reason only to go with established SPs or agencies. These days I'm very reluctant to give up my personal information.

::shudders::