Ask us anything part 3

[Rosie Sparkles]

Do you play music or a playlist to set the mood? Candles? Rose petals?

I always put music! I like creating an ambiance for my lovers As for candles and rose petals, I never used them by lack of interest but I would highly appreciate the effort

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I always put music! I like creating an ambiance for my lovers As for candles and rose petals, I never used them by lack of interest but I would highly appreciate the effort

Dream date : arriving at a hotel with a hot tub and nice music, with snacks and champagne and rose petals on the bedsheets

 

[Enjoying life]

Honestly if the SP's you're booking say ''I can't even walk anymore'' that is not a good sign............ Booking a longer session will not solve the problem. We are not sex dolls or machines.. Some of us can handle more than others however, but if this is a pattern, if I was at your place, I would question myself.

I don't think what you're looking for is a GFE session. Maybe look for someone who offers PSE and clarify that you are going to want to have sex for the whole booking. Some SP will accept, some will not. The idea of booking a duo is good too

I had the best GFE session to the max and she told me we have a great connection and she would be available even if she is not scheduled! Some amazing gems out there!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I had the best GFE session to the max and she told me we have a great connection and she would be available even if she is not scheduled! Some amazing gems out there!

Can you explain what is the connection between what you just said and my comment that you're quoting here?

 

[Alucard87]

Ya A gfe session

You sure it wasn't just a line or two to rope you in as a regular? What were the differences between her and all the other GFE experiences I imagine you've had?

 

[Enjoying life]

I had the best GFE session to the max and she told me we have a great connection and she would be available even if she is not scheduled! Some amazing gems out there!

Meaning that I had a really satisfying session with amazing conversations as I have a wide range of interests as my sp mentioned other clients do not and just want to jump right in the action

 

[Enjoying life]

You sure it wasn't just a line or two to rope you in as a regular? What were the differences between her and all the other GFE experiences I imagine you've had?

Well I appreciate hot making out which really makes a difference as others do light or nothing! She was extremely wet where others were not as much! She was also in her 40s which makes a difference! I m an artist and have been in some books so I can see why she told me I am different as I worked hard

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Meaning that I had a really satisfying session with amazing conversations as I have a wide range of interests as my sp mentioned other clients do not and just want to jump right in the action

Oh okay I understand your point now

 

[Enjoying life]

Oh okay I understand your point now

Thank You

 

[LeDodo]

Dream date : arriving at a hotel with a hot tub and nice music, with snacks and champagne and rose petals on the bedsheets

You will need to update your list of date ideas

 

[LeDodo]

For clients who bring wine/alcohol for the session, is there a limit you set to yourself to stay aware and in control?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

You will need to update your list of date ideas

I said ''dream date'', it's just a fantasy and I've had experiences that were pretty close to that one I've had champagne, cheese and chocolate at a fancy hotel followed by a lunch date and a dinner date and a show. Just saying that happens to us sometimes and it's fun, but it's definitely not an obligation. I also like picnics at the park, movie dates, etc,

For clients who bring wine/alcohol for the session, is there a limit you set to yourself to stay aware and in control?

When I have sessions over 2h I suggest a bottle of wine accompanied by snacks, it's happened a few times that it went over that limit but it's very rare. I'm very aware of how in control I am when it comes to alcohol because I've had to adjust how much I drink over the last few years. I think sharing a bottle between 2 people is reasonable. Everyone has different tolerance levels, and I know where my limit is, I'm in touch with my body. I will also not ''party'' because I don't respond to other substances well.

 

[LC18]

For clients who bring wine/alcohol for the session, is there a limit you set to yourself to stay aware and in control?

I don’t drink more than a glass. With family, with friends, at the office, with clients, by myself when I go out

So I normally recommend for people to bring the smallest size otherwise it’s a waste

 

[Jebmtl]

For clients who bring wine/alcohol for the session, is there a limit you set to yourself to stay aware and in control?

I never bring alcohol. I don’t drink alcohol and I don’t want a woman to taste like alcohol. Instead it non alcoholic drink's, flowers, chocolate or something else that she likes. I find that she enjoys even the smallest gestures it doesn’t have to be expensive

 

[Giselle Montreal]

For clients who bring wine/alcohol for the session, is there a limit you set to yourself to stay aware and in control?

A bottle for two is my limit, we won't open another one. Half a bottle is reasonnable. But usually, we don't finish it and I get to have a few small glasses later

 

[slychrono]

For clients who bring wine/alcohol for the session, is there a limit you set to yourself to stay aware and in control?

I've been offered wine before during a visit, but I usually opt for water or juice since I often come on an empty stomach.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I never bring alcohol. I don’t drink alcohol and I don’t want a woman to taste like alcohol. Instead it non alcoholic drink's, flowers, chocolate or something else that she likes. I find that she enjoys even the smallest gestures it doesn’t have to be expensive

There's no need for wine for a 90 minutes or hour long visit honestly. If someone brings a bottle for a short visit or if I have some I might offer a glass but I won't drink more than that. It's a nice gesture but there's no time to enjoy it.

I've appreciated when clients brought a nice wine for a special occasion like this week a regular client brought a bottle for my birthday during a hour long booking but I drank most of it later with friends and there was no excess

I feel like this is a touchy subject personally because we all have a different relationship with alcohol. Personally I like to drink good quality wine at the restaurant or in good company with snacks and water but I am trying to appreciate the moment and nothing excessive

 

[Alucard87]

I'm not a big drinker but certainly can. I've thought of bringing flowers but knowing it's an incall and that there's a chance it's used by more than the girl I'm there for, I don't know how good an idea that is. If she liked it I would do it regardless, but asking would eliminate the surprise.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I'm not a big drinker but certainly can. I've thought of bringing flowers but knowing it's an incall and that there's a chance it's used by more than the girl I'm there for, I don't know how good an idea that is. If she liked it I would do it regardless, but asking would eliminate the surprise.

Just bring flowers if you want to bring flowers. It's a lovely attention, it brightens a space and she might even bring them home after. If she doesn't then others will be happy to enter a space that smells good.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I'm not a big drinker but certainly can. I've thought of bringing flowers but knowing it's an incall and that there's a chance it's used by more than the girl I'm there for, I don't know how good an idea that is. If she liked it I would do it regardless, but asking would eliminate the surprise.

If you brought flowers to a girl's incall she would definitely take them home well I would. And honestly it's a great addition to an incall space, plants and flowers make any place so much warmer