Here another example of what not to do
I believe a lot of civilians and SPs have body dysmorphia. Most are lucky enough to not end up like this but for those of you SPs who are reading my comment I hope you always remember that in civilian life and in the world of clients there are people who will not care if you had modifications or not and care about who you are on the inside. Most SPs get modifications. Usually subtle stuff.Do men really find that look attractive? Someone I know just posted her photos in story calling her lips “goals” and I had to check I was fully awake and not just having a nightmare. I am sorry to this woman but she probably needs one or several visits with a psy
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I don't want to shame women who get surgeries and cosmetic enhancements.. I also think there are people who are not trying to be attractive and are going for an exaggerated look on purpose. But I also agree with something Lena said, if someone has severe body dysmorphia and a doctor is making money off of them by encouraging outrageous procedures that's really unethical of them.I believe a lot of civilians and SPs have body dysmorphia. Most are lucky enough to not end up like this but for those of you SPs who are reading my comment I hope you always remember that in civilian life and in the world of clients there are people who will not care if you had modifications or not and care about who you are on the inside. Most SPs get modifications. Usually subtle stuff.
A person with any level or lack of modifications can be beautiful on the inside.
I agree with you and hope my original comment wasn't upsetting to anyone.I don't want to shame women who get surgeries and cosmetic enhancements.. I also think there are people who are not trying to be attractive and are going for an exaggerated look on purpose. But I also agree with something Lena said, if someone has severe body dysmorphia and a doctor is making money off of them by encouraging outrageous procedures that's really unethical of them.
As for body dysmorphia, I think being a sex worker can either help or exacerbate it. I know it sometimes helps mine because I feel desired and appreciated, but at other times I compare myself to other women a lot, particularly very young women. I know that I'm not perfect and I'm always looking for the next thing to fix because I worry about someone saying something hurtful about my physical appearance. When I was just beginning, a client who booked me for 15 minutes told me ''don't worry, it's okay if you look average, most men aren't looking for super models''.. I was shocked. I never believed anyone who complimented my physical appearance after this. (which answers another question on this thread)
It's kinda hilarious tho because I've had several backhanded comments about my physical appearance, my tattoos, my hair, my style, my body shape etc. In 2023 I've had a guy say I look like I had gained weight lolllllllll I had clients complain I don't look 20 years old or that ''my breasts are as flat as fried eggs'' BUT IRONICALLY nobody has ever mentioned the very obvious skin graft on my left arm.
"I don't want to shame women who get surgeries and cosmetic enhancements.. I also think there are people who are not trying to be attractive and are going for an exaggerated look on purpose. But I also agree with something Lena said, if someone has severe body dysmorphia and a doctor is making money off of them by encouraging outrageous procedures that's really unethical of them.
As for body dysmorphia, I think being a sex worker can either help or exacerbate it. I know it sometimes helps mine because I feel desired and appreciated, but at other times I compare myself to other women a lot, particularly very young women. I know that I'm not perfect and I'm always looking for the next thing to fix because I worry about someone saying something hurtful about my physical appearance. When I was just beginning, a client who booked me for 15 minutes told me ''don't worry, it's okay if you look average, most men aren't looking for super models''.. I was shocked. I never believed anyone who complimented my physical appearance after this. (which answers another question on this thread)
It's kinda hilarious tho because I've had several backhanded comments about my physical appearance, my tattoos, my hair, my style, my body shape etc. In 2023 I've had a guy say I look like I had gained weight lolllllllll I had clients complain I don't look 20 years old or that ''my breasts are as flat as fried eggs'' BUT IRONICALLY nobody has ever mentioned the very obvious skin graft on my left arm.
Yes but you also don't say things like ''your breasts are as flat as fried eggs''... or make subtle complaints about me having short hair and stuff like that"
BUT IRONICALLY nobody has ever mentioned the very obvious skin graft on my left arm.
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I never mentioned it because I didn't want to seem like an asshole. Some providers have other marks and I never mention their grafts or scars because I doubt it's a good thing to mention.
Yeah I hope you know I think those people are awful and I hope they're on a black listYes but you also don't say things like ''your breasts are as flat as fried eggs''... or make subtle complaints about me having short hair and stuff like that
if someone has severe body dysmorphia and a doctor is making money off of them by encouraging outrageous procedures that's really unethical of them.
Yeah, it's dangerous in those cases. I have mixed feelings about it because I think people should have bodily autonomy.. but I definitely think it's unethical for doctors to offer procedures that could harm the patient's body. Some people also don't see themselves clearly.I think a psychological evaluation should be needed in some cases. Wanting to get your nose done because you’ve always hated it is normal but wanting your lips to be so big you can barely speak doesn’t sound healthy in any ways.
I worry about people getting breast implants that are too big and I’m not talking about F-G cups. Those things can rupture and leak in your body, the bigger the breast, the bigger the risk. It must also be incredibly difficult on your skin to stretch that much
Indeed, everyone is normal. No on on earth has a no-pore-face IRL.One provider told me this helped them with their body dysmorphia and to remind them that almost all photos online are edited