It problably be. I decided when I started this that my people should know, and most people I meet when I feel the situation allows it. I couldn't do any different!
My family and friends know what I do. What makes me more nervous is clients recognizing me elsewhere. When I first started I would receive intimidating emails by guys who said they saw me in certain places. It was really creepy. Also someone who tried to match with me on a dating app years ago had tried to book me around that time. It's really uncomfortable. I think the scariest thing that happened in that regard was when a friend's abusive ex boyfriend tried to book me, hiding his identity. For some reason, that type of thing hasn't happened in a long time.
People at your job don't know what you're doing for a living?
Yeah people often notice slackers and wonder what they do when they are supposed to be working lol.
and such a sweety.
I relate to what you're all saying. I think both of you are gorgeous honestly. But one of the reasons why I showed my face to begin with is because I felt like my body wasn't enough..I have seen you... I can't hide what I think, it shows visibly on my face, and as someone who struggles to read peoples faces, even I can tell from the look on my face what I think of you. HOT
We are the most critical of ourselves.
OMG the number of photos that I could have used and enjoyed if I were face-out. The look on my face is the #1 reason I delete almost every photo of myself. I focus so much on how everything else looks, I forget to smile or relax my face, or my eyes look closed, or I realize after I have no makeup on. Often I don't think about makeup, I don't wear it normally.
It makes me self-conscious when I see myself played back on video. I keep seeing all the involuntary facial reactions (grimacing face tick I make when I'm focussed) it kills the mood for me while editing. I tell myself anyone who is going to like my content will just have to accept that's who/how I am.
I didn't like my body at the time. But I do feel self conscious about all the pictures I post and I feel overly exposed
I relate to what you're all saying. I think both of you are gorgeous honestly. But one of the reasons why I showed my face to begin with is because I felt like my body wasn't enough..
I decided to be face out personally because I didn't feel like having to put up with constant requests of ''showing my real face'' or having people describe what my face looks like in reviews. What you see is what you get. One thing that surprised me tho.. is that a lot of clients mention that they think I am prettier in person and that ''I should smile more'', so no matter what, you will be different in person. In the past, sex workers didn't have to be models and influencers lol .. it wasn't really part of their job. A friend told me that some people would advertise using caricatures of themselves sometimes. Most of the ads just included text descriptions
There would be an add in the Journal de Montreal. You would call the booker and they would say: "Oui, Natasha, une belle rousse de 24 ans, des beaux gros seins naturels, tu seras pas deçu!" It was simply classified ads (lines of text) at the back of the newspaper. Backpages! Tada!
You are defiantly pretty Julia and apart from that you are an amazingly kind and nice person.
You're probably wrong. I think a lot of escorts look at other profiles and kinda copy what seems to work.. Maybe some ask for advice, I don't know. I just know how I wrote mine.. I was very spontaneous but it was a lot of trial and error. I think a specific type of wording works better than others, and that's why a lot of them are similar. Otherwise I think maybe there are marketing trends. On my social media I started this debate about the use of words like ''high end'' and ''luxury''. Compared to a few years ago, most were against using these terms.. for ethical reasons but also aesthetic ones. They seem disingenuous. I try to avoid anything that seems disingenuous in my branding personally but it's very hard, after a while you start to understand what type of fantasy ''sells'' and what appeals to the type of clients you want to get
