Ask us anything part 3

[Rebaynia]

Do yall think 18/19 is too young for a girl to start doing this ?

A few very popular SPs (some on merb) started at that age and seem to like it. But ive heard others say its too young.

Personally as someone in his early 30s id feel uncomfortable booking anyone under 20/21.

Also, how on Earth is a young, fresh-faced 18/19 year old advertising on Leo list not scared shitless at the prospect of meeting strange unknown men? it baffles me because its so ballsy...when I was in college I fixed broken phones and sold them on Craigslist and got robbed at gunpoint my 3rd time

Not a positive answer....

I was 18 when I first started, with the past I had, I felt it an acceptable age, at least I was concidered an adult. I had had enough life expierience to deal with grown men by that point already, unfortunately.

But I got into it because I was hyper-sexual, and got tired of the dating game at 18, got fed up of being played, and figured if guys were going to offer a relationship, but then treat me like a 1 night stand, I might as well get paid for it, so called up an angency in the classifieds to get started.

I remember one of my childhood friends came around one day back then and told me it looked like I was dead in my eyes. I kind of was. It's when I realized I needed love, not just lust in my life. So I left it behind to try and build a family life.

I see my kids now. 2 of which are adults themselves, and it's too young.

 

[mtlspacial]

[Everyone] Why do you like sex?

Regular sex offers significant health benefits for men, including improved cardiovascular health, lower blood pressure, reduced stress, boosted immunity, and better sleep. It acts as moderate exercise, burning approximately 4-5 calories per minute. Frequent ejaculation (21+ times/month) is also linked to a lower risk of prostate cancer.

That's why I do it.

 

[Vardhan945]

I remember one of my childhood friends came around one day back then and told me it looked like I was dead in my eyes. I kind of was. It's when I realized I needed love, not just lust in my life. So I left it behind to try and build a family life.

I see my kids now. 2 of which are adults themselves, and it's too young.

Damn sorry to hear that.
I'm curious to hear from others (based on LC's response I think she can be included in this category) who started at that age and don't regret it.
(Also tbh trying to make myself feel less bad about seeing a 20 year old who didn't seem cut out for this field)

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Damn sorry to hear that.
I'm curious to hear from others (based on LC's response I think she can be included in this category) who started at that age and don't regret it.
(Also tbh trying to make myself feel less bad about seeing a 20 year old who didn't seem cut out for this field)

I don't have any answers for you but I don't think anyone is ''cut out'' for this field, or not cut out for it. I think even if someone doesn't regret starting at 18, that doesn't mean they had good experiences at the time. It takes a while to find your way around this industry, no matter what.. it takes a certain level of emotional intelligence, maturity and street smarts to protect yourself.

 

[LC18]

Damn sorry to hear that.
I'm curious to hear from others (based on LC's response I think she can be included in this category) who started at that age and don't regret it.
(Also tbh trying to make myself feel less bad about seeing a 20 year old who didn't seem cut out for this field)

Where did I say that I don’t regret it?

 

[Vardhan945]

Where did I say that I don’t regret it?

Saying you did it at 17 which wasnt that much different from 18 came off to me like you dont think its too young..meaning you dont regret it. that was my takeaway

 

[twenty4seven]

[Clients]

Do you mind if the SP is on her period when you guys meet?

Not unless they mind. If they're fine with it and are still gonna be able to enjoy themselves then I'm game. Sometimes means a couple more bathroom breaks over the course of a session or whatever but it's never been an issue. In fact, I've had it twice where she's like right-into-it and they were kinda feral and horny af, it was pretty hot.

 

[Oscar234567]

[Everyone] Why do you like sex?

Hmm i will give a genuine answer. Yes to cum feels nice but you can cum by just masturbating you dont need a woman to do that. What i like about sex the most is feeling connected, especially seeing that weak feeling that a woman have when shes about to come and the conversations had after and the cuddling/intimate moments. I guess im different than most guys, yes sex feels good but my experience with massage parlours and sps were ok you can have sex with me rent my time and im gone, to me thats not real sex but thats why theres transactional sex and sex that you have with your partner. So many guys on here talk about whats on the menu and having good service and i get it you paid alot of money for the girl but in my opinion i just feel bad buying someones time especially for sexual favors, and especially if shes just not enjoying it and love it and just waiting for me to cum. Like guys whats the point if the girls not enjoying it (moaning, shaking, even screaming with pleasure for example), it feels like your raping someone but its just consensual. I dont want to have sex with this person but i posted an ad and i need clients. If you can give her the money without her having to offer sexual favours just give companionship obviously she will value that more. Am i wrong?

 

[LC18]

Saying you did it at 17 which wasnt that much different from 18 came off to me like you dont think its too young..meaning you dont regret it. that was my takeaway

You have greatly misunderstood my post.

I was saying that I see no difference between a 17 and a 18 year old, they’re both too young and too close to high school. No real life experience, didn’t even try to have a conventional job or anything

Yes I regret starting this young

 

[mtlspacial]

You have greatly misunderstood my post.

I was saying that I see no difference between a 17 and a 18 year old, they’re both too young and too close to high school. No real life experience, didn’t even try to have a conventional job or anything

Yes I regret starting this young

Hi Lena, I don't know if you've answered this somewhere else already. Also, you don't have to answer if you don't want to share.

But I wanted to ask, what made you start?

 

[LC18]

But I wanted to ask, what made you start?

Money

 

[mtlspacial]

Money

LOL... I never would have guessed that in a million years.

 

[LC18]

LOL... I never would have guessed that in a million years.

There’s no funny or romanticized story. I wanted money, I saw that other girls had sugar daddies, found one

 

[mtlspacial]

There’s no funny or romanticized story. I wanted money, I saw that other girls had sugar daddies, found one

Correct me if my thinking is wrong, but I always had the perspective that being a beautiful woman can be a curse, in the sense that most men only want you for your sexual value to them. Same as rich men that women only date for their money (while some genuinely would prefer to be non transactional relationship).

I was having drinks with a cousin of mine years ago. She was really beautiful. She told me she couldn't take it anymore because men only wanted to fuck her.

I don't blame anyone for choosing to take advantage of what they have for money. I really don't. But, I feel some people miss out on genuine relationships.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Correct me if my thinking is wrong, but I always had the perspective that being a beautiful woman can be a curse, in the sense that most men only want you for your sexual value to them. Same as rich men that women only date for their money (while some genuinely would prefer to be non transactional relationship).

I was having drinks with a cousin of mine years ago. She was really beautiful. She told me she couldn't take it anymore because men only wanted to fuck her.

I don't blame anyone for choosing to take advantage of what they have for money. I really don't. But, I feel some people miss out on genuine relationships.

We're not missing out on genuine relationships because we are getting paid for a service or an experience we are offering, and being an escort requires a lot more than beauty.

I'm not dating rich men or trying to find men to give me money in my personal life. Being an escort is a job. It's not your whole life.
I hope people understand that there is a difference between what I do for work and how

I approach relationships in my personal life.
I'm not going to find a relationship by posting escort ads on Merb lol this isn't where I want to find my person, and if anyone is mad about that they should reconsider why they're hiring escorts in the first place

 

[Fradi]

Correct me if my thinking is wrong, but I always had the perspective that being a beautiful woman can be a curse, in the sense that most men only want you for your sexual value to them. Same as rich men that women only date for their money (while some genuinely would prefer to be non transactional relationship).

I was having drinks with a cousin of mine years ago. She was really beautiful. She told me she couldn't take it anymore because men only wanted to fuck her.

I don't blame anyone for choosing to take advantage of what they have for money. I really don't. But, I feel some people miss out on genuine relationships.

Not all women think that way even if it may be true.
My wife was totally gorgeous and turned heads all the time but she never thought of herself that way,
She certainly didn’t marry me for my money as I didn’t have any.

We built a life together and a decent life style which unfortunately she didn’t even have a full year to enjoy after retiring.
Not all men only want a gorgeous woman for one thing and believe it or not most gorgeous women have the same dreams and hope as the rest and actually when things fall apart a man can get tired of a gorgeous woman just as easily.

 

[madmonkey82]

[Clients]

Do you mind if the SP is on her period when you guys meet?

I have never encountered that. But given my fetishes for fluids I would like to some day.

 

[Julia Sky]

Damn sorry to hear that.
I'm curious to hear from others (based on LC's response I think she can be included in this category) who started at that age and don't regret it.
(Also tbh trying to make myself feel less bad about seeing a 20 year old who didn't seem cut out for this field)

I don't regret starting at 18 because it allowed me to gain a lot of independence and experience quickly. But I absolutely regret SAYING that I was 18. The clientele for teens is often predatory, I experienced a lot of fucked up shit my first 2 years as an escort, and far too many clients were too obvious about secretly hoping I was actually a minor posing as an 18 year old.

 

[mtlspacial]

We're not missing out on genuine relationships because we are getting paid for a service or an experience we are offering, and being an escort requires a lot more than beauty.

I'm not dating rich men or trying to find men to give me money in my personal life. Being an escort is a job. It's not your whole life.
I hope people understand that there is a difference between what I do for work and how

I approach relationships in my personal life.
I'm not going to find a relationship by posting escort ads on Merb lol this isn't where I want to find my person, and if anyone is mad about that they should reconsider why they're hiring escorts in the first place

Hi Luna

I said some people miss out. It didn't mean all do. I apologized if I didn't word it properly.

What you say is 100% accurate. Merb is the last place to go for a relationship. LOL.

But, to work on what you said, some girls do only date rich men, and will never had any other type of relationship. That was kinda my point. Hopefully it makes sense.

Cheers

 

[mtlspacial]

Not all women think that way even if it may be true.
My wife was totally gorgeous and turned heads all the time but she never thought of herself that way,
She certainly didn’t marry me for my money as I didn’t have any.

We built a life together and a decent life style which unfortunately she didn’t even have a full year to enjoy after retiring.
Not all men only want a gorgeous woman for one thing and believe it or not most gorgeous women have the same dreams and hope as the rest and actually when things fall apart a man can get tired of a gorgeous woman just as easily.

Hi Fradi,

I didn't want this to come out as a generalization, but I guess I failed here. Maybe I'm discussing this on the wrong board LOL.

I had the same experience as well. I got to date some very beautiful women in my life. Never been rich. Beauty sure was exciting at the the beginning, but you need friendship, connection, intimacy and goals to make it last. I don't know who came up with the quote show me a beautiful girl and I'll show you a man who's tired of being with her. That's kind of what you said.

Frankly, I will like gorgeous just as much as the next man, but brains and confidence is way more attractive.