Ask us anything part 3

[Lunaseraphim]

Hi Luna

I said some people miss out. It didn't mean all do. I apologized if I didn't word it properly.

What you say is 100% accurate. Merb is the last place to go for a relationship. LOL.

But, to work on what you said, some girls do only date rich men, and will never had any other type of relationship. That was kinda my point. Hopefully it makes sense.

Cheers

Yes, some women only date rich men, but how many women have you met who have told you that, in your personal life? I mostly see that on TV. Maybe we are just part of different social classes and meet different people.. but from my perspective rich men are not that common. It's also a cliche that a beautiful woman can just get whatever she wants. I think I'm not bad looking, and I don't get any free passes in life.

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

Correct me if my thinking is wrong, but I always had the perspective that being a beautiful woman can be a curse, in the sense that most men only want you for your sexual value to them.

I have a feeling that these beautiful women are not being approached by men much (in real life, not online) given the state of modern men and of the modern world. Speaking for Millenials and Gen-Z.

 

[Julia Sky]

I just cant wrap my head around an 18 year old not being scared about meeting strange men and having the balls(pardon the expression) to do it, especially as an independant.

Perhaps Mtl is just a lot safer than where im from.

I'm more scared of homelessness than I am of any man lol. But also I've always been the careless type when it comes to meeting people, I've always had the mentality that if something happens I'll deal with it when it happens.

I'm also somewhat insane and hope that whoever really wants to actually harm me is brave and strong. Lmaooo

 

[mtlspacial]

I have a feeling that these beautiful women are not being approached by men much (in real life, not online) given the state of modern men and of the modern world. Speaking for Millenials and Gen-Z.

Good chance, it's always hard to approach a woman. It's probably harder for a woman to get approached of she's out of the league of most men.

But sometimes our view is so tainted by social media. You see these beautiful women saying quote I want a man in finance, 6'5, blond eyes, blue eyes unquote on tik tok. Some guys don't want the trouble.

I went out with a girl out of my league once. I loved her.Lots of common interests, we met at university. I had her hired where I was working as she needed a job. But it was others men's behaviors that I didn't enjoy when I dated her. Other men had no problem proposing to her even though they knew she was dating me. Some manager wanted to introduce their sons to her. I'm not the jealous type, but I was feeling they didn't respect our relationship as a couple. On top of that, some of them were friends.

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

But it was others men's behaviors that I didn't enjoy when I dated her. Other men had no problem proposing to her even though they knew she was dating me. Some manager wanted to introduce their sons to her. I'm not the jealous type, but I was feeling they didn't respect our relationship as a couple. On top of that, some of them were friends.

Bingo. For men, generally speaking, it's not advantageous to partner with a women too high above your own "mate value" (i.e. "out of your league"), exactly for the reasons that your experience reveals.

 

[LC18]

[Partnered people]

Why do you cheat?

 

[mtlspacial]

That's

[Partnered people]

Why do you cheat?

Hi Lena, that's a very good question.

I have been with my partner for close to 20 years. Gradually she complete lost interest in sex and told me multiple times I could see someone else. I won't pressure her into sex if she lost the interest in it. But you can be certain if she decides to be active again, I won't want to cheat.

Now, why I go to escorts? I'm not going to entertain a relationship with a side chick unless I meet someone who will 100% accept that's the only relationship I could give her.

 

[LC18]

I'm not going to entertain a relationship with a side chick unless I meet someone who will 100% accept that's the only relationship I could give her.

A lot easier that’s for sure

 

[gordon87]

What name do you ladies want to be called:escorts,providers,working girls,etc.?

 

[Sean007]

[Partnered people]

Why do you cheat?

Similar for me. I’ve been with my partner close to 25 years and there is no sex in our relationship for at least 10 years. I used to be very intense in porn to fulfill my needs but at some point I wanted intimate human contact. So went to massage parlor and then a masseuse told me about Indy companion. So I started seeing companions from Indy companion as well. I’m still with my wife and I love her but I see professionals for intimacy!! And I would not see a non professional for fear of complications….

 

[Enjoying life]

What name do you ladies want to be called:escorts,providers,working girls,etc.?

It’s way better and more comfortable with a regular SP than too chase and waste your time! I don’t have to drive anywhere!

 

[Enjoying life]

Similar for me. I’ve been with my partner close to 25 years and there is no sex in our relationship for at least 10 years. I used to be very intense in porn to fulfill my needs but at some point I wanted intimate human contact. So went to massage parlor and then a masseuse told me about Indy companion. So I started seeing companions from Indy companion as well. I’m still with my wife and I love her but I see professionals for intimacy!! And I would not see a non professional for fear of complications….

It’s just better sex with a sp period!

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

It’s just better sex with a sp period!

I used to think like that, but I changed my mind after a few years!

 

[Enjoying life]

I used to think like that, but I changed my mind after a few years!

Well if you are into kink it’s certainly better

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

Well if you are into kink it’s certainly better

I'm more into vanilla

 

[Lunaseraphim]

[Partnered people]

Why do you cheat?

I'm not currently partnered but I've never cheated in my entire life. I'd rather work through problems or break up. I'm not a perfect individual and I don't always have the best conflict resolution skills but I try my best to maintain positive and healthy relationships with people I'm close to.

But I understand that for people of a different generation who have children and a long & complicated history with their partner, it's not that simple..

Did you ever have a client who had a prostatectomy?

Yes I have, more than once.

 

[rightime1]

[Everyone] Why do you like sex?

thats such a simple yet complex question....

 

[Nachoy]

[Clients]

Do you mind if the SP is on her period when you guys meet?

I had period sex with non SP and it was messy. Had to cover the bedding with towels.
I prefer not to
Doesn’t the hotel cleaning staff get mad at you if you tried ?

 

[Nachoy]

I've been receiving requests from clients I've never even met who were asking me for free social dates under the guise of ''doing me a favor'', whether it's driving me somewhere, showing me around in a different city or taking me out to a nice restaurant ... Why would I hang out with someone I've never met?

How dare these clients try to be kind to and offer such favors.
You never even met them
The world is a crazy place.
Imagine if I had sex with a girl I never meet !

 

[LeDodo]

I had period sex with non SP and it was messy. Had to cover the bedding with towels.
I prefer not to
Doesn’t the hotel cleaning staff get mad at you if you tried ?

Mad at someone who they have no idea who it is and left the hotel?
Also period happens outside of the SW industry just saying ...