my view is that when it comes to catching STI, no one should blame anyone. We are all engaging in these activities of our own free will.
Sex with multiple partners is NOT risk free. We can choose various ways to decrease our chance of exposure but never eliminate the chances.
I dont begrudge people who have a different risk perspective than myself. We all have to do what is comfortable. For some people
that will mean abstinence, others covered services only, others will use Prep and PEP. others will use any or all of the above.
Take care of yourself.
Tor