BBM (big beautiful men) anyone?

[2tuff2quit]

Just my 2 cents worth but I find it difficult finding (BBW) women attractive.I'm not saying this to be mean in any way but 5foot2 and 175 lbs is a LOT of women.
If it was the other way around would small women find (BBM) attractive like 5 foot 5 250lbs? Just saying
Today you can't call someone (blind) you have to say ''non voyant''
Can't call a girl FAT you must say ''not slim''.I find this a little hypocritical not you?

 

[Halloween Mike]

Dude its all a matter of tastes..

I mean, im what you can call fat... not sure if you where at one of the GT but you may have saw me, if you didn't, well i ain't small. Im not like those huge dude on tv tough, and im still very mobile, can do sports and all, but well you get the picture. And personally any girls over 155 would be too much for me... maybe its because im used too much of hot escorts... but i would had trouble getting hard with a girl that is too heavy... even tough if im not in a position to be that selective.

But some dudes, even small ones, i see them with bigger girls... some guys like these type of girls... and over the year "BBW" escorts seem to still get clients... so i guess if the business work well then some guys like this... Not like those girls escorts for 20 bucks, they charge the same as the hot small girls... so some guy DO prefer that.

Overall tough i seem to see more guys of regular size with heavy girls... and rarely the other way around(exept if the girl is a mom that have trouble loosing her birth weight) One of my friend that is a girl is really a sweet girl, very friendly, nice sexy voice, in the mic on xbox live you would think she is some sexy chick, but in fact she is SUPER HEAVY, like in "i look small close to her" and still her boyfriend of the moment is not that big... he ain't slim or muscular but normal i would say, not ugly either... so i guess he love her because she is a good person. Me i totally like her as a friend,but i couldn't be with her in bed... i know that...

I don't want to sound mean either... but what can i say...it wouldn't get up... lol

I supose overall girls are more selective, in general they know scoring guys is easy, when us guys are doing anything for the girls... and they know it and in the end it play out.

But if escorts BBW still have clients... it means some guys are into this... as they charge the same as any regular slim escorts more or less...

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Mike sweetie you are not fat! You are costaud,it has its appeal ...but me too I am sexist that way, I like my guys to have meat on their bones but my girls has to be skinny...BBW is a total turn off for me...even a redhead one loll

 

[gan]

There are guys who really do find BBW attractive. But not a lot of guys.

But a slim woman will almost always be attractive to most guys unless she is ridiculously thin. I know of no guy that is more attracted to a fat girl than a slim girl. Most of the guys you see who are in relationships with fat girls are guys that decided to make a compromise. If you give him the option of turning his girlfriend into a slim girl, most often he will be glad!

For men, it is a little different. A man can be attractive even if he is fat. Men are judged more by their personality and status in society. Women are judged more by their physique. Cold hard truth of nature.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Mike sweetie you are not fat! You are costaud,it has its appeal ...but me too I am sexist that way, I like my guys to have meat on their bones but my girls has to be skinny...BBW is a total turn off for me...even a redhead one loll

Lol thanks for the compliment, but i know i have to loose weight. Im thinking about starting a new program soon, both diet and sport. This combined with the new job coming out, should help a lot. Problem is when you get too much free time, you eat more, you drink more... but when your occupy a lot, you don't think about it.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

If there was a demand for BFOM ( Big, Fat, Old Men ) here I could make a couple of bucks during my summer time off.
I could advertise: BBDCIMWG ( BareBack Daty Cum in Mouth with Gargle ). I know, it's the kush talkin again.

 

[Rudolph]

I am so busy sometimes that I eat one meal a day and usually too late.

Your body will also absorb all the bad stuff it would typically throw away. It's as anxious for something good as a merbite returning to Montreal after a long trip

 

[wasisname]

I like a wide range. Everything from the large to the borderline anerexic to even the muscular. If you have a pretty face and a decent body regardless of shape and a vagina I will probably want to have the coitus with you.

I suspect a lot of the appeal of the fatties is that fat often equals big ol tities and a big slappable ass which some dudes like. Myself I am a face dude. But again with the wide range. If male lardatiude meant bigger dig I'd figure us fat dudes would be a lot more popular.

One thing that grinds my gears is how when I make a fat comment someone will derp on about how I am not fat. Lemmie see. My BMI says morbidly obese. My hip waist ratio says morbidly obese. The dexa scan body fat percentage says morbidly obese. My blood work indicates a problem. So STFU and stop blowing smoke up my ass. If I can bring it up as a joke or a truthful aside it means I can deal. Ditto for those who when a fat guy makes a fat joke and they get all derpy with the self esteem comments. I am not saying being a fatty is a good thing, it is not a healthy lifestyle option. However if you are open enough about it to crack jokes about it, maybe it isn't a self esteem problem. By my reconing those people who hide from their faults and refuse to crack jokes about it or even acknoledge the 300 pound elephant in the room are the ones with the problem. However that is just a thing with me, I value being honest with oneself. Sadly it seems most chicks confuse self denial with confidence but that is a whole other kettle of fish. Hmmm fish.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I am so busy sometimes that I eat one meal a day and usually too late. Considering the effort it takes to massage for an hour and the low amount of food I eat - I wonder why I am not super skinny.

But you are not fat either lol. I am not looking for slim or super muscular, i know i will never be that. I am just aiming for one day be back at what i once was for 2 years, IN SHAPE. I was able to train for multiple hours without problem, i was climing mounts, i was in healthy shape even tough i still had some fat on me. I know i could get this back with proper effort in less than 6 months... i just need a good kicker... the one i had back then was a woman... a friend wich i hoped would be more, and it turned out desastrous sadly... Everything happened at the same time, i got injured to the leg during training, i was out for multiple months, i realized i would never get her and i got weight back... Getting back to my mom's place didn't help either. When i am alone in appartement(or with roomates), i tend to not buy the shitty stuff... i eat better...

That why eventually i would like to move far from home, work more, and have a gym close. I am not getting younger and i want to fight in amateur MMA before its too late.

 

[Rudolph]

I am not looking for slim or super muscular, i know i will never be that. I am just aiming for one day be back at what i once was for 2 years, IN SHAPE.

Hey man, round is a shape!

 

[Halloween Mike]

You can be a bouncer

I would like to... always wanted to work in security departement... maybe i will, we will see.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Then - do it Hard to imagine you doing it because I see you sweet as a teddy bear but if you want to I am positive you could find jobs here for that :smile:

SHUUUUT ... you will kill all my reputation as a big bad mean son of a b... I try so hard to dress like a biker ... your not helping me there lol

Lol no but seriously yes i am a good guy, im gentle with the girls (hehe :amen and friendly to my buddies... but when its time for business... thats a different thing. I like to fight in ring... I did kickboxing for a while, i am pretty good for stand up, my ground need works, but i think im a solid fighter, i could do security job and my goal is to eventually go for Garda...

 

[Lily from Montreal]

It's all about proportion and in the case of girls, curves...and there is a big, pun intended ,difference between big,fat and obese...as long as one moves easily and is not hinder by the mass I do not see a obese person...but you see someone having a hard time walking and basically moving ,that's another story ...I have this thing for football player ...they are big (!) but they move well...

 

[sweetwater]

Hey man, round is a shape!

I resemble that remark! :lol:
Sweetwater