Many SP have partners, don't they, and they don't fuck with clients the same way they do with their lovers?
Anyway, I imagine.
Anyway, I imagine.
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I am not sure you can compare SP to a traditional relationship.
SP consider it as a job which it is, separate from their private life.
How much it interferes with their private life only they and their partner know, it cannot be easy to manage.
Personally I could never be able to manage an open relationship or my wife/partner screwing with someone else and for the same reason me cheating on her.
Perhaps I am just too old fashioned and look at being in love that way.
I realize not everyone is like that.
SP consider it as a job which it is, separate from their private life.
How much it interferes with their private life only they and their partner know, it cannot be easy to manage.
Personally I could never be able to manage an open relationship or my wife/partner screwing with someone else and for the same reason me cheating on her.
Perhaps I am just too old fashioned and look at being in love that way.
I realize not everyone is like that.
That is why I always get involved in open relationships. This whole thing you are mine is not my cup of tea. I am polyamorous. I am upfront with the girl that I want to have sex with other girls and she is free to see other men also. It makes the sexy much more interesting this way and there is no burden or stress of cheating. However not many women are open to open relationships that I know of.
If you own a Domino's franchise and eat pizza at a local shop it's not cheating. That's business. But, if your married and you stick your johnson in another woman or have said johnson blown by another woman it's cheating.
You are right not too many women are willing to have a relationship like this and personally I would never be open to something like this.
There are many things I will share, the woman I am in love with is not one of them.
Being friends or close to an SP is fine but being their boyfriend, I wouldn’t be able to handle that, but at least I am honest enough to admit it.
A wedding ring does attract some females, in the distant past working in small towns getting laid was easy, all you need is a sense of humor and good weed.
There are a lot of sexless marriages. What do you do if you love your spouse and are happy otherwise but you have to accept not having any sexual life, EVER. Some men have told me their wife straight up said sex was done. Is it fair to expect your spouse to have no sex at all because you are not interested? Some women in these situations pretty much know that their husband is getting it elsewhere but turn a blind eye if it's not an affair. But some women seriously expect their husband to go without. That's cruel.
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Wow, I really don't know what to make of this kind of situation. Sounds really harsh but it's hard to judge because every couple's situation is different. However, most women I've known of all ages also have a need for intimacy. Maybe they can control urges better than men especially as they age, and so don't need it as frequently. But i would think that they all need it at least once in awhile. So i'm thinking those that have told their spouses they are done are either masturbating or getting it elsewhere maybe ?
Come on! Ok do this test: tell your wife or girlfriend that you see sex prividers and explain to her that you are not cheating. And wait for her answer. Having sex without love is also cheating for most if the people. .
Me when I was in a relationship, if I had done this test, I can very well imagine her answer.
This is clearly not a test to be taken.
I don't think you should ever say that to a partner because she will never trust you again.
Tell her that you are going to see your friends, and in her head she thinks to herself what kind of friends?
This is clearly not a test to be taken.
I don't think you should ever say that to a partner because she will never trust you again.
Tell her that you are going to see your friends, and in her head she thinks to herself what kind of friends?
You both agreed to it, its cheating sadly. Monogamy is ridiculous but we agreed to it. Otherwise it would be hard to find someone.
I think we as men need to raise the stock market value of COCK! and decrease the value of Pussy!
lets start saying "No I'm polyamorous, I'm not looking for monogamy, NOT interested" to the point women start accepting it. No More Fucking for you Ladies!
yeah.... its not gonna happen. We suck, we want it more than they want it. sigh..... pussy is just too juicy and will always be the commodity. .
Someone needs a to make an app for polyamorous people... oh wait... its called Tinder. tough life.
Its even worse than polygamy, because we don't like sharing so women would have to accept sharing a husband/bf while remaining monogamous.
Or some how we have an overpopulation of women... oh that would be awesome.
I think we as men need to raise the stock market value of COCK! and decrease the value of Pussy!
lets start saying "No I'm polyamorous, I'm not looking for monogamy, NOT interested" to the point women start accepting it. No More Fucking for you Ladies!
yeah....
its not gonna happen. We suck, we want it more than they want it. sigh..... pussy is just too juicy and will always be the commodity. .Someone needs a to make an app for polyamorous people... oh wait... its called Tinder. tough life.
Its even worse than polygamy, because we don't like sharing so women would have to accept sharing a husband/bf while remaining monogamous.
Or some how we have an overpopulation of women... oh that would be awesome.
While reading your post Chowzilla, a thought comes to my mind "can we love 2 women at the same time, equally"
Several will answer me "yes one for the fuck and the other for everything else, (for a family life)"
No that's not the point of my question, I'm talking about loving the 2 women the most comparable possible, 2 women who would make you happy in the same way, at all levels.
Several will answer me "yes one for the fuck and the other for everything else, (for a family life)"
No that's not the point of my question, I'm talking about loving the 2 women the most comparable possible, 2 women who would make you happy in the same way, at all levels.
The best answer i could think of would be
The closest case to this would be kids. If you have 2 or 3, would you love them equally? Most probably yes, but differently. Some you would spoil more than others becasue they need to be. I think it is possible to love more thna one woman, but unless they are exact copies, their needs will be different, and so will be your treatment and dealings with them
Good luck with that treating and pleasing and living with two women at the same time.
Charlie Sheen couldn’t cope with that and he had tiger blood.
It didn’t work out even though the women had the same objective of fleecing him but probably squabbled over who should get more. They really were angels though even looked the part.
Cheating is cheating period, you can put whatever spin you want on it to make you feel better.
Some won’t others couldn’t care less.
Charlie Sheen couldn’t cope with that and he had tiger blood.
It didn’t work out even though the women had the same objective of fleecing him but probably squabbled over who should get more. They really were angels though even looked the part.
Cheating is cheating period, you can put whatever spin you want on it to make you feel better.
Some won’t others couldn’t care less.
This is a very interesting debate...
Who are we either ways to judge one another?
Paying for sex, going out and looking to mingle, going on the other side of the fence, flirting, sexting... looking somewhere else.
I believe relationships in this world we are in aren't made to last no more. People are scared of commitment.
We are in an era where it's to easy to get something new. We buy the new iPhone and we're all so excited, a year later, we are fed up even though it still works just fine. We want the newest model.
Before, we used to fix things, now we just replace them once they are crooked or they have a little damage.
We must not forget we are all human beings after all. Nobody's perfect. We can't ask no one to be perfect or expect perfection when we are not. The first few months are lustful and exciting, but true love takes time to build. Trust needs to build too. When a little something comes up, we run away, we are all so scared to pass in front of something better, when in fact we can have someone great just in front of us.
This world we are in is so hard, selfcentered. Relationships have no more value and people always think of themselves. We're so scared to commit, cause we may have been hurt and now people act like assholes to one another. Where is the warmth? Where is the deep? Where's the tenderness? Nobody will say they do not want love. We are all the same after all, we all dream of love and to be loved. But love takes time, love takes commitment, love is not easy. But love is after all the most beautiful thing. And what is this world without love? Lonely and meaningless. Some people would kill for love. It's when you saw love, when you experienced love, that you know it is the most beautiful and wonderful feeling. You want to feel complete and home by the side of someone. We all want to lay in bed next to someone and feel comfortable. We all want someone who we can trust and have a shoulder, an ear to turn to. Love is exciting, incredible... Love is wonderful... All those nights in the bars, where people go out, bring someone home, have meaningless sex, and still wake up alone. I have always wanted to be someone's Sunday morning rather than someone's Saturday night... Breakfast in bed and making love to this person that is our whole word means so much more.
I've seen true love. We are all looking for a purpose to be alive, that our life will have meant something. I saw a man stay with his wife until the end. She was sick for more than a decade and he stayed. Love is patient, love is tender. Love doesn't judge, and love can do miracles. She passed away, into his arms. And what my dad told me was the most beautiful thing I've heard from a man's mouth since I'm on Earth. As she was leaving and asking me to let her go, she stayed, cause I could not let my world go. When she closed her eyes for her forever sleep, it was just like my last dance with her. Today, 8 years since she passed away, when he says my mother's name, his eyes still sparkle. I really hope everyone gets the chance to live a love like this, that's when you know your life did have a meaning... We all dream to leave in love, to live with love... To be loved and not forgotten. Love is afterall a purpose.
❤
Who are we either ways to judge one another?
Paying for sex, going out and looking to mingle, going on the other side of the fence, flirting, sexting... looking somewhere else.
I believe relationships in this world we are in aren't made to last no more. People are scared of commitment.
We are in an era where it's to easy to get something new. We buy the new iPhone and we're all so excited, a year later, we are fed up even though it still works just fine. We want the newest model.
Before, we used to fix things, now we just replace them once they are crooked or they have a little damage.
We must not forget we are all human beings after all. Nobody's perfect. We can't ask no one to be perfect or expect perfection when we are not. The first few months are lustful and exciting, but true love takes time to build. Trust needs to build too. When a little something comes up, we run away, we are all so scared to pass in front of something better, when in fact we can have someone great just in front of us.
This world we are in is so hard, selfcentered. Relationships have no more value and people always think of themselves. We're so scared to commit, cause we may have been hurt and now people act like assholes to one another. Where is the warmth? Where is the deep? Where's the tenderness? Nobody will say they do not want love. We are all the same after all, we all dream of love and to be loved. But love takes time, love takes commitment, love is not easy. But love is after all the most beautiful thing. And what is this world without love? Lonely and meaningless. Some people would kill for love. It's when you saw love, when you experienced love, that you know it is the most beautiful and wonderful feeling. You want to feel complete and home by the side of someone. We all want to lay in bed next to someone and feel comfortable. We all want someone who we can trust and have a shoulder, an ear to turn to. Love is exciting, incredible... Love is wonderful... All those nights in the bars, where people go out, bring someone home, have meaningless sex, and still wake up alone. I have always wanted to be someone's Sunday morning rather than someone's Saturday night... Breakfast in bed and making love to this person that is our whole word means so much more.
I've seen true love. We are all looking for a purpose to be alive, that our life will have meant something. I saw a man stay with his wife until the end. She was sick for more than a decade and he stayed. Love is patient, love is tender. Love doesn't judge, and love can do miracles. She passed away, into his arms. And what my dad told me was the most beautiful thing I've heard from a man's mouth since I'm on Earth. As she was leaving and asking me to let her go, she stayed, cause I could not let my world go. When she closed her eyes for her forever sleep, it was just like my last dance with her. Today, 8 years since she passed away, when he says my mother's name, his eyes still sparkle. I really hope everyone gets the chance to live a love like this, that's when you know your life did have a meaning... We all dream to leave in love, to live with love... To be loved and not forgotten. Love is afterall a purpose.
❤
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Valerie,
Your post actually brought tears to my eyes as what you described with your dad is exactly what happened to me.
I held the hand of the woman of my dreams the mother of my children while she took her last breath and passed away from cancer.
That will always be the worst day of my life and the day I met her will always be the best.
To all those who say you cannot love one person and live a life without cheating you are wrong, maybe you can’t.
It only proves that we are all different. We all have our own reasons.
Your post actually brought tears to my eyes as what you described with your dad is exactly what happened to me.
I held the hand of the woman of my dreams the mother of my children while she took her last breath and passed away from cancer.
That will always be the worst day of my life and the day I met her will always be the best.
To all those who say you cannot love one person and live a life without cheating you are wrong, maybe you can’t.
It only proves that we are all different. We all have our own reasons.
Fradi,
I've always thought there are some people who are still incredible out there. You are one of them.
Seeing my dad love my mom was a blessing to me. It showed me what life was all about.
Life is nothing when it's lived in all this material, money and superficiality. People are still sad and lonely.
Being by his side while he was mourning, I've seen so much sensitivity in the eyes of a great man.
Love makes us grow, love makes us change. What you have lived with your wife is a blessing few will never have the chance to experience.
I'm here made of love, of a great love story, and I'm here giving all of myself to men so no matter how or what they go through,
I hope they'll find a bit of happiness by my side. Oh, do I want to be in love and experience love and give all of myself? I do. I would. I want.
Seeing love so pure, so beautiful, so deep, that changes a lifetime, that is even more beautiful than romantic movies...
I dream of that.
Maybe am I too much of a hopeless romantic or too idealistic... but I'm an artist... made of love... I'm made to be different...
And my purpose is to write, my purpose is to leave this world with a touch love, where I will have touched hearts and souls...
Where I might have done a little difference...For someone, somewhere... I hope more people would be like me and do everything to just put a bit more tenderness into this world...
And Fradi, no matter you'll be, she loved you, she'll be by your side. Because this love you had is forever and always. And trust me, she is there, and she knows you're here still loving her, making her memory last. She's not all gone... cause she lives through you, through the love you have. ❤
I've always thought there are some people who are still incredible out there. You are one of them.
Seeing my dad love my mom was a blessing to me. It showed me what life was all about.
Life is nothing when it's lived in all this material, money and superficiality. People are still sad and lonely.
Being by his side while he was mourning, I've seen so much sensitivity in the eyes of a great man.
Love makes us grow, love makes us change. What you have lived with your wife is a blessing few will never have the chance to experience.
I'm here made of love, of a great love story, and I'm here giving all of myself to men so no matter how or what they go through,
I hope they'll find a bit of happiness by my side. Oh, do I want to be in love and experience love and give all of myself? I do. I would. I want.
Seeing love so pure, so beautiful, so deep, that changes a lifetime, that is even more beautiful than romantic movies...
I dream of that.
Maybe am I too much of a hopeless romantic or too idealistic... but I'm an artist... made of love... I'm made to be different...
And my purpose is to write, my purpose is to leave this world with a touch love, where I will have touched hearts and souls...
Where I might have done a little difference...For someone, somewhere... I hope more people would be like me and do everything to just put a bit more tenderness into this world...
And Fradi, no matter you'll be, she loved you, she'll be by your side. Because this love you had is forever and always. And trust me, she is there, and she knows you're here still loving her, making her memory last. She's not all gone... cause she lives through you, through the love you have. ❤
I agree honesty is always the best policy.
Nothing like finding out your partner is so trustworthy, it will work wonders for her self esteem.
