- either she says ok and it's officially not cheating, the agreement between you has been updated to allow it, congratulations you won the lottery!
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Lottery yes, if she agrees to allow it and not exercise her own right to see other people. Otherwise its just an open relationship
I understand what others are saying in terms of whether it is cheating or not because it is more of a male biological need than an emotional investment. However at the end of the day... your partner is going to see it as a betrayal of trust. Kissing can be cheating, flirting can be cheating, sexting can be cheating, which in a way I kind of agree with because I wouldn't want my girl to do that to me. That is in terms of fairness on both parties. Other than that, I think men have a more justifiable reason to go out and mingle, doesn't mean I think we should be allowed. (well in an ideal world, yes, but im not the ruler of the world).
Like Iron Man said, if I was the ruler, I would reinstate
Prima Nocta:
Everyone is in different circumstances, and I have seen men in situations, where hobbying does save them.
But if you ask me, do I want my girl to see other men? I would say no. Would I sacrifice my right to see other women so that she doesn't see other men, Yes. This is where I think the debate falls off.
no judgement on my part. Society on fairness has become something else.