This is a very interesting debate...
Who are we either ways to judge one another?
Paying for sex, going out and looking to mingle, going on the other side of the fence, flirting, sexting... looking somewhere else.
I believe relationships in this world we are in aren't made to last no more. People are scared of commitment.
We are in an era where it's to easy to get something new. We buy the new iPhone and we're all so excited, a year later, we are fed up even though it still works just fine. We want the newest model.
Before, we used to fix things, now we just replace them once they are crooked or they have a little damage.
We must not forget we are all human beings after all. Nobody's perfect. We can't ask no one to be perfect or expect perfection when we are not. The first few months are lustful and exciting, but true love takes time to build. Trust needs to build too. When a little something comes up, we run away, we are all so scared to pass in front of something better, when in fact we can have someone great just in front of us.
This world we are in is so hard, selfcentered. Relationships have no more value and people always think of themselves. We're so scared to commit, cause we may have been hurt and now people act like assholes to one another. Where is the warmth? Where is the deep? Where's the tenderness? Nobody will say they do not want love. We are all the same after all, we all dream of love and to be loved. But love takes time, love takes commitment, love is not easy. But love is after all the most beautiful thing. And what is this world without love? Lonely and meaningless. Some people would kill for love. It's when you saw love, when you experienced love, that you know it is the most beautiful and wonderful feeling. You want to feel complete and home by the side of someone. We all want to lay in bed next to someone and feel comfortable. We all want someone who we can trust and have a shoulder, an ear to turn to. Love is exciting, incredible... Love is wonderful... All those nights in the bars, where people go out, bring someone home, have meaningless sex, and still wake up alone. I have always wanted to be someone's Sunday morning rather than someone's Saturday night... Breakfast in bed and making love to this person that is our whole word means so much more.
I've seen true love. We are all looking for a purpose to be alive, that our life will have meant something. I saw a man stay with his wife until the end. She was sick for more than a decade and he stayed. Love is patient, love is tender. Love doesn't judge, and love can do miracles. She passed away, into his arms. And what my dad told me was the most beautiful thing I've heard from a man's mouth since I'm on Earth.
As she was leaving and asking me to let her go, she stayed, cause I could not let my world go. When she closed her eyes for her forever sleep, it was just like my last dance with her. Today, 8 years since she passed away, when he says my mother's name, his eyes still sparkle. I really hope everyone gets the chance to live a love like this, that's when you know your life did have a meaning... We all dream to leave in love, to live with love... To be loved and not forgotten. Love is afterall a purpose.
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