Many SP have partners, don't they, and they don't fuck with clients the same way they do with their lovers?
Anyway, I imagine.
Anyway, I imagine.
That is why I always get involved in open relationships. This whole thing you are mine is not my cup of tea. I am polyamorous. I am upfront with the girl that I want to have sex with other girls and she is free to see other men also. It makes the sexy much more interesting this way and there is no burden or stress of cheating. However not many women are open to open relationships that I know of.
Did you notice more interested parties while you were attached Saul?
Wow, I really don't know what to make of this kind of situation. Sounds really harsh but it's hard to judge because every couple's situation is different. However, most women I've known of all ages also have a need for intimacy. Maybe they can control urges better than men especially as they age, and so don't need it as frequently. But i would think that they all need it at least once in awhile. So i'm thinking those that have told their spouses they are done are either masturbating or getting it elsewhere maybe ?
There are a lot of sexless marriages. What do you do if you love your spouse and are happy otherwise but you have to accept not having any sexual life, EVER. Some men have told me their wife straight up said sex was done. Is it fair to expect your spouse to have no sex at all because you are not interested? Some women in these situations pretty much know that their husband is getting it elsewhere but turn a blind eye if it's not an affair. But some women seriously expect their husband to go without. That's cruel.
Come on! Ok do this test: tell your wife or girlfriend that you see sex prividers and explain to her that you are not cheating. And wait for her answer. Having sex without love is also cheating for most if the people. .I believe cheating only applies if you feel love towards the girl. Like, if you do things as a lover would do, you know what I'm talking about... LOVE. When you're in LOVE, when your wife/GF becomes less important in your life.
But if you don,t feel any attraction whatsoever and only uses the masseuse as a professional service, same as any regular providers, dentist, physio, doc etc. then you're not cheating.
Sometimes you feel the physical need to release yourself, and once done, you come home loving your wife/GF as much, on even more, you should be OK with it.
The best answer i could think of would beWhile reading your post Chowzilla, a thought comes to my mind "can we love 2 women at the same time, equally"
Several will answer me "yes one for the fuck and the other for everything else, (for a family life)"
No that's not the point of my question, I'm talking about loving the 2 women the most comparable possible, 2 women who would make you happy in the same way, at all levels.
The closest case to this would be kids. If you have 2 or 3, would you love them equally? Most probably yes, but differently. Some you would spoil more than others becasue they need to be. I think it is possible to love more thna one woman, but unless they are exact copies, their needs will be different, and so will be your treatment and dealings with themWhile reading your post Chowzilla, a thought comes to my mind "can we love 2 women at the same time, equally"
Several will answer me "yes one for the fuck and the other for everything else, (for a family life)"
No that's not the point of my question, I'm talking about loving the 2 women the most comparable possible, 2 women who would make you happy in the same way, at all levels.
I agree honesty is always the best policy.Me when I was in a relationship, if I had done this test, I can very well imagine her answer.
This is clearly not a test to be taken.
I don't think you should ever say that to a partner because she will never trust you again.
Tell her that you are going to see your friends, and in her head she thinks to herself what kind of friends?