Don't fall in love with your regular SP
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I’ve heard a line on the show “Power” co-directed by 50 Cent.
It’s easy to fall in love with someone that you only see 1 hour a day. »
And that line was said to the mistress of a married men with 3 children who could only see him in a hotel during her lunch breaks.
You males are not in love with theses escorts what you are in love with it’s the idea that of her/them that you made up in your minds about them. Unless you’re a beyond redemption weak simp mangina go overseas: spending 1 week on vacation with most of these women will open your eyes on how much yall can’t stand each other when you’re stuck 24/5 with one another [just like it happens with real couples btw].
What will you guys do when the girl retires and finds a male who commits to her? What is your plan after that huh? Be a man and start thinking with the proper organ instead of using your cock & your heart to make decision for you smh.
No it’s not hard to compartmentalize because the boundaries have been broken.
You males just have to remind yourself that these women are still going to have sex with other clients who pay them even if they are no longer charging you. This mentality will keep you 10 toes down about what is going on.
Unless you are a complete cuck “not talking about you specifically Mr Enveloppes” knowing that a girl just havd sex with another man before coming to see you and will have sex with a 2nd, 3rd one after spending time with you for free will prevent you from catching feelings. My 3 cents.
Where were all these comments before? The last 4 or 5 you did not bad . Not baad at all
Words of wisdom! And I can say this about myself: I'm a lot of fun to play with for an hour or 2, but I'm no prize to live with. Hobbying is perfect for me.
Wow brutal I cannot agree more. That waking up process is painful, we guys tend to forget that we are in this forum be use we pay for sex, not for a romantic idea. The reality is that most of these beautiful ladies would not give us the time of day, it’s just the idea that “we are special”(tm).
I totally agree with you, I’m facing the same issues dating. It’s sometimes just embarrassing the amount bullcrap thet adults my age are carrying with day to day. I would expect women with more sensibility and life experience, but I’m facing quite open an encyclopedia of mental trauma and an incredible sense of entitlement that makes so complicated to have a normal conversation.
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There’s no free sex mate, you always pay one way or another. Sometimes is better cut your loses and just let it go, I speak from my own experience. Never is free.
Gee wheez how you have matured.
it was not long ago that you came on here as a virgin I believe seeking advice for your first encounter and look at you now, a regular Dear Abby.
Let me give you a different version.
Yes SP do this for a living and it is about money and without that they wouldn’t give you the time of day.
Now that we have established that fact, there is another side to SP.
They are women like all other women with the same kind of feelings, dreams and there are some that over time you can actually form a friendship with
they do care for you in their own way and do prefer to see you more than most others.
Simply if you treat them with kindness and respect they wil” return that 10 fold, why because that is how women are whether SP or civilian.
You do not have to be an ATM and they do not have to be just a sex object for you, they are human just like you are. There are many lines in between.
It is always entirely up to you how good a service you will have with an SP, you usually get back what you give and contrary to what you believe it is not just about money.
Truth be told I would not give them the time of the day either outside of crazy monkey sex. I ain’t holding hands in public with no prostitute nor envision any romantic prospect with any of them because of their career give a fuck about how dope their personality might be or how bliss the feeling of their vaginas & oral skills might make me feel. I respect them as human beings but it’s strickly business on my end as well.
Congratulations young fella, hope you heal soon cause therapy be expensive as much as pussy is if not more.
Yeh I feel you brotha can’t say the same about me tho I’m fun to be around with around the clock. I just require cooperation and peace of mind as a tradeoff from these women.
Hahah theres alot worse than that. Recently someone complimented the color of a a womans butthole. Talk about weird/creepy vibes. And theres alot more and to your point wtf does that do to help ? Still wondering
Anything to help my gender homei. I’m not on here as much I mostly come here to know which agency escorts see black men & what the reviews says about them.
I was prostitute virgin yes I’ve been with few civilians before taking the plunge in this hobby. Got ED with most of them that is why I decided to book my first escort to regain confidence.
Agree to disagree on the rest of your paragraph mate. If you want to be friends with them do you by all means, I’ll deal with them the way this is supposed to be dealt with “transactionally”. As far as treating them with respect this was already something I do with any other human beings that is treating me the same regardless if it’s women or men.
I pay for sex that I enjoy even if I NEVER DATY/DATO/LFK/DKF/DIGITS them I still gonna get my dick sucked to satisfaction, still gonna do the positions that I want to do etc. Your (10 fold) argument is valid for civilians but I disagree that it is valid for escorts, they will do the most for the tricks who spend the most of them otherwise you’re just a number to them, another customer that they will boost their ego, give good sex sessions and tell them what they want to hear to guarantee repeated encounters ($$$).
Sure they rather have sex with the ones who are more kind, more in shape & more good looking but the priority remains the money you spend when you’re with them.
It was only financially free when we were teenagers with 0 economic power, after that it’s always some kind of expenses we as men have to pay.
Spot on mate.
I saw a comment on here that said a girl (forgot her name) won’t allow titty sucking anymore because a few weirdos were sucking on them as if they wanted milk to come out smh. These are the kind of clients who are fucking up the game for the rest of the paying customers I am pretty sure they are the same dudes writing reviews on females bootyhole as well.
Lack of using common sense as well. Even the escorts themselves tell the clients (tricks) that it would be a one sided love affair.
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