Its not love , its attraction, sexual attraction, and infatuation most of the time. Yeah I guess I am the lone wolf of the pack and don't get attached to anyone but this is what you get when you been screwed so many times with relationship and the myth called love.
I am 52 now and been single for 11 years, I last went on a date over 8 years ago, she was obese and not very pretty and she insulted me. So I decided that my dating days were over.
Now yes I can relate because at 28 I sort of fell for a high end escort who looked like Gabrielle Destroismaison she was so hot, she approached me at Sherlock on St Catherine street that was in 1999. I knew straight off the bat that something was wrong when she told me she was a juridical secretary, she confined in me the week after that she worked for fantasme xxx and she did escort twice per week, then share stories about a few of her clients, yeah younger I worked in a theater and I knew one of the bosses there. I knew this would be trouble when I got into her new apartment in Hotel de Ville downtown Montreal and she greeted me with a glass of white wine and 2 eustasy pills, I refused and she got mad. We were on and off for about 6 months and yes I went into depression, lost weight, went nuts until she told me that she had her fun with me and it was over now.
The thing is escort is a fantasy world, when I see my SP I do things with her that I never did with my ex girlfriends, I respect her, treat her like a girlfriend, we kiss, we cuddle, I made sure that she cums a few times too and as fun even if I pay her we both enjoy our time together.
But for me this falling in love dating, I just a myth a feeling like eating, and any other feelings we feel. I am so disconnected that 3 weeks ago I went to get a tooth repaired at the dentist and the dental hygienist ask me out for drinks, she was 47 but really a beautiful women, but I did not want to get involve with someone after enjoy my freedom so much.
So for me its easy, I am going to get excited, horny but after that its over by see you next time. I just don't fall in love anymore no matter what the SP looks like and I am a far cry of looking like I did in 2000.
I am 52 now and been single for 11 years, I last went on a date over 8 years ago, she was obese and not very pretty and she insulted me. So I decided that my dating days were over.
Now yes I can relate because at 28 I sort of fell for a high end escort who looked like Gabrielle Destroismaison she was so hot, she approached me at Sherlock on St Catherine street that was in 1999. I knew straight off the bat that something was wrong when she told me she was a juridical secretary, she confined in me the week after that she worked for fantasme xxx and she did escort twice per week, then share stories about a few of her clients, yeah younger I worked in a theater and I knew one of the bosses there. I knew this would be trouble when I got into her new apartment in Hotel de Ville downtown Montreal and she greeted me with a glass of white wine and 2 eustasy pills, I refused and she got mad. We were on and off for about 6 months and yes I went into depression, lost weight, went nuts until she told me that she had her fun with me and it was over now.
The thing is escort is a fantasy world, when I see my SP I do things with her that I never did with my ex girlfriends, I respect her, treat her like a girlfriend, we kiss, we cuddle, I made sure that she cums a few times too and as fun even if I pay her we both enjoy our time together.
But for me this falling in love dating, I just a myth a feeling like eating, and any other feelings we feel. I am so disconnected that 3 weeks ago I went to get a tooth repaired at the dentist and the dental hygienist ask me out for drinks, she was 47 but really a beautiful women, but I did not want to get involve with someone after enjoy my freedom so much.
So for me its easy, I am going to get excited, horny but after that its over by see you next time. I just don't fall in love anymore no matter what the SP looks like and I am a far cry of looking like I did in 2000.