Don't fall in love with your regular SP

[Frozen]

There are a lot of words that are defined and published in a dictionary that are obsolete/outdated and that usage today is morally and culturally is frowned upon.

When folks use those words, it should hardly be described/qualify as 'virtue signaling'.

Deep breath my friend.

Cheers,
Fredd

 

[MostHatedForNoReason9]

There are a lot of words that are defined and published in a dictionary that are obsolete/outdated and that usage today is morally and culturally is frowned upon.

When folks use those words, it should hardly be described/qualify as 'virtue signaling'.

Deep breath my friend.

Cheers,
Fredd

Thank the good Lord that (prostitute) is not one of them “outdated” words. I’ll keep on using it thank you very much! That deep breath really helped me after having to deal with them damn replies. Have a nice one young fella.

 

[Julia Sky]

I agree with you on the term “whore” but let’s agree to disagree on the term “prostitute” because it is crystal clear that we are not about to change each other’s opinion on the term.

I don't care what your opinion is, considering those are facts. You saw an escort for the first time this month and I've been a sex worker for close to a decade. Take several seats and exit left, lol. You're disrespectful to both women and other clients, I don't know why you're even on this board. Of course you have performance anxiety and a hard time getting it up if the skills don't match the ego. Bonne chance et bonne journée.

mod: on this note, time to move on from the discussion on terminology and back on topic

 

[AirBo]

I don't fall in love with SPs (anymore) but I fall in love with SPs' asses which, in my case, is just as bad

Great asses are the financial death of me hahaha

 

[Batista Mason]

I am not sure what to think about this. I met a SP and it was our first meeting, at the end before I left, she gave me her personal phone number and her real name. She said if I need someone to talk to, she is available. I did told her about my childhood and personal problems but I didn't expect this. I told her I appreciate she trust me but to be careful who she gives her phone number and real name, especially after just meeting a client for the first time. She told me she trust her instincts and she is confident I am a good person.

I haven't seen her available for booking since so far. I am thinking on just seeing her via booking sessions for now. I hope I didn't offend her since I haven't texted her yet.

I remember back in 2017, I saw a SP I haven't seen for many years because she had drug addictions but she got rehab. She still remembered me and immediately gave me her phone number. She said she would like to go to a restaurant with me. I am happy she rehab but due to her troubled past, I was worried and I think she mentioned introducing her kid to me which was too was much for me. I never texted her, I did try to see her again via booking but the agency she worked at closed. She did later return as an independent but I was scared she was angry at me so I hesitated to book. She eventually disappeared again and she hasn't returned since. I hope she didn't return because she doesn't need this job anymore and not because she has fallen into drugs again.

 

[Glyscore]

I am not sure what to think about this. I met a SP and it was our first meeting, at the end before I left, she gave me her personal phone number and her real name. She said if I need someone to talk to, she is available. I did told her about my childhood and personal problems but I didn't expect this. I told her I appreciate she trust me but to be careful who she gives her phone number and real name, especially after just meeting a client for the first time. She told me she trust her instincts and she is confident I am a good person.

I haven't seen her available for booking since so far. I am thinking on just seeing her via booking sessions for now. I hope I didn't offend her since I haven't texted her yet.

I remember back in 2017, I saw a SP I haven't seen for many years because she had drug addictions but she got rehab. She still remembered me and immediately gave me her phone number. She said she would like to go to a restaurant with me. I am happy she rehab but due to her troubled past, I was worried and I think she mentioned introducing her kid to me which was too was much for me. I never texted her, I did try to see her again via booking but the agency she worked at closed. She did later return as an independent but I was scared she was angry at me so I hesitated to book. She eventually disappeared again and she hasn't returned since. I hope she didn't return because she doesn't need this job anymore and not because she has fallen into drugs again.

IMO, SPs that strictly consider this work field as buisness and only buisness are the most reasonable and well balanced individual. They have a strong friend and familly circle and shit.

You did a good thing to keep your distance while carring at the same time, cause the moment you said she had an addiction issue, means that she didn't have a healthy relationship with the job.

The moment I realise an SP uses hard drugs or that she got a pimp, it's a No for me.

 

[Rookie0022]

It can be very difficult to separate emotions and sex, especially when you see a provider often. I have not fallen in love with my ATF but I have developped feelings for her. From time to time, I have bought her small gifts or left a nice tip. I understand that this is a business and we will not fall passionately in love and spend forever together. At the end of the day, I am having a great time with my ATF and enjoy giving her a little something more.

 

[Sylar]

My rollercoaster ride continues! After a rocky start, had an amazing 4 day stay with my ATF. Suddenly today she disappears nowhere to be found right before I have to go back home

Seriously contemplating moving to Montreal for good

Maybe I should just go to therapy

Listen, it's really none of my business and I haven't been following all your posts around this SP, but I think the universe is telling you to back off for your own good.

 

[AirBo]

My rollercoaster ride continues! After a rocky start, had an amazing 4 day stay with my ATF. Suddenly today she disappears nowhere to be found right before I have to go back home

Seriously contemplating moving to Montreal for good

Maybe I should just go to therapy

Next time you're in town, do you want to meet and talk? I'm serious. Do you have anyone to talk about this besides sharing your hardship on the board?

Let's go have a drink. Book me instead of booking her.

 

[AirBo]

Honestly, I have friends and family, but I keep this hobby a secret and this board (and another board) is the only place to talk about the hobby! I'm just surprised I haven't seen too many related threads about this topic.

R*ddit used to be a good place to talk about these things, too bad the sub got banned

No worry... I remember you were the one who replied to my very first post 9 months ago. This gives you a special place in my heart lol

Take care, bud!

 

[envelopes]

No worry... I remember you were the one who replied to my very first post 9 months ago. This gives you a special place in my heart lol

Take care, bud!

How things have changed!

 

[Batista Mason]

Just curious, did you do anything aside from talking during your session?

The talking is after the first service, I rarely managed to do round 2. Normally, the first 30 minutes is for the service and then the rest of the session we chat. It is not always about my personal life/problems I talk about, depending on the girls, if there something she likes that I am also interested, we talk about that.

 

[Richardhart]

This is a general rule in life and not specific to sp's or any specific job or area of life.
Dont fall in love with your lawyer, with your cashier, with your accountant, with your vet..
Why not?
What should be said is don't fall in love with anyone if it is not reciprocated.
i have never heard of a sp manipulating a client to fall in love for monetary gain, but i have heard that many times for strippers.
For sp's its the opposite actually, i know many people who have dated sp's, became good friends or having become casually dating.
OF course yes, you cannot let the fact that you are intimate cause you to develop emotions beyond that intimacy unless its mutual, but today the same can be said for any girl regardless of where you meet them because the majority of intimate relations always happen faster than any emotions can be developed, so this is by no means exclusive to sp's.

Imo the type of guy that would fall head over heels for a sp in a situation where its one sided and he is juste hopelessly in love, that type of person will fall in love with anyone in his life regardless of where it is, and develop that one sided attachement

 

[minutemenX]

About the title: Don't fall in love with your regular SP

It remains of the suggestion: do drugs carefully and do not get addicted.

 

[Bluesky1]

My rollercoaster ride continues! After a rocky start, had an amazing 4 day stay with my ATF. Suddenly today she disappears nowhere to be found right before I have to go back home

Seriously contemplating moving to Montreal for good

Maybe I should just go to therapy

Try a meeting of S.L.A.A.

 

[Bluesky1]

Haha I tried it 2-3 years ago when I was trying to quit this hobby. Didn't really help

Have you done it? Has it helped you?

I might go next week

 

[transatlantic]

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You males are not in love with theses escorts what you are in love with it’s the idea that of her/them that you made up in your minds about them. Unless you’re a beyond redemption weak simp mangina go overseas: spending 1 week on vacation with most of these women will open your eyes on how much yall can’t stand each other when you’re stuck 24/5 with one another [just like it happens with real couples btw].

What will you guys do when the girl retires and finds a male who commits to her? What is your plan after that huh? Be a man and start thinking with the proper organ instead of using your cock & your heart to make decision for you smh.

Truer words have never been spoken..written.

The most talented GFE providers have a knack for bending your preception of reality. At NO TIME should you let yourself believe she is into you even if she gave you her real name and number. It is all in your head and you have to work yourself out of this mental maze you've built. She may enjoy your company but she enjoys money more.

 

[Glyscore]

Truer words have never been spoken..written.

The most talented GFE providers have a knack for bending your preception of reality. At NO TIME should you let yourself believe she is into you even if she gave you her real name and number. It is all in your head and you have to work yourself out of this mental maze you've built. She may enjoy your company but she enjoys money more.

The end too..."She enjoys money more". If she wants money from you to have the ability to fuck her and spend time with her...

 

[TheJames101]

My rollercoaster ride continues! After a rocky start, had an amazing 4 day stay with my ATF. Suddenly today she disappears nowhere to be found right before I have to go back home

Seriously contemplating moving to Montreal for good

Maybe I should just go to therapy

Yes to that last option. Seriously, given what you've posted, it sounds like you're in for a lot of drama (beyond what's already happened), and you might benefit from a break from this hobby. You're completely obsessed with it.

 

[Kenshiro2029]

Truer words have never been spoken..written.

The most talented GFE providers have a knack for bending your preception of reality. At NO TIME should you let yourself believe she is into you even if she gave you her real name and number. It is all in your head and you have to work yourself out of this mental maze you've built. She may enjoy your company but she enjoys money more.

All this is just fantasy guys, it’s like Disney world