@EagerBeaver I'll move on at some point, don't worry. If I were really vindictive, I would have gotten lawyers to get my money back. I do have a paper trail. A nice merbite advised me privately to not go this route. It's not worth the headache. I agreed with him. This is like being raped for us men. Look at the people who posted their stories after me. I don't think they got over it, even after years. It's like being raped. You can't be un-raped.
“This is like being raped for us men” ....seems to be a VERY Strong Conclusion.
A lot of Words you may have chosen, BUT not this Word....
***DAM,REALLY***