For the guys that are a bit overweight

[Funkyner]

Hey gents,
I'm turning 30 years old and got a bit overweight lately (220lbs, should be 180). Just wanted to go ahead with an SP for my birthday, but I feel that I will not get that great of a service because she will mentally judge me.
How do you guys deal with that kind of problem and do you still go ahead with hot fit SPs?
Thanks!

 

[Smooth_Operator]

Bring some wine and chocolates, talk to her for the first 10 minutes to establish rapport, treat her well, and you will have a great time !

 

[Doc Holliday]

I know how you feel. The best thing to do in order to have a great birthday is to start getting in shape a.s.a.p. and quit the carbs. Join a fitness centre or buy a threadmill and some weights. Quit the suds and mostly drink water. Not only will you lose weight, but you'll feel much better and your sexual performance will greatly improve.

Good luck!

 

[zeddig]

Just let your intended date know that you are a bit overweight. If this is no issue for her then you have nothing to worry about. Usually the concerns are more about attitude , respect , courtesy, personal hygene and health, than about weight, height etc.

 

[IamNY]

Hey gents,
I'm turning 30 years old and got a bit overweight lately (220lbs, should be 180). Just wanted to go ahead with an SP for my birthday, but I feel that I will not get that great of a service because she will mentally judge me.
How do you guys deal with that kind of problem and do you still go ahead with hot fit SPs?
Thanks!

It's hard for any person to not judge another person or stereo type, no matter how hard you try not to IMHO. As far as an SP goes, if there is a connection the time spent with her should be great. And you never know, she may enjoy the company of an overweight man. Dealing with the problem is mostly going to be on your end. If its not a problem in your mind then it's not your problem. If an SP doesn't want to bang a guy for money just because he is carrying some extra pounds it's her problem.

 

[benz]

Just bring your wallet

 

[BookerL]

If an SP doesn't want to bang a guy for money just because he is carrying some extra pounds it's her problem.

Search for a lazy SP ,she might appreciate to work less for her money !:lol:

Seriously ,most ladies that are escorting understands that they will not find the Prince Charming,overweight guys are a ton in this business

You can be confident that some will accept the way you are


Cheers



Booker

 

[yikezz]

Seriously ,most ladies that are escorting understands that they will not find the Prince Charming,overweight guys are a ton in this business
You can be confident that some will accept the way you are

Exactly. Search for a well-reviewed woman and don't worry about it. The escorts with the best reputations aren't rude or disrespectful to their clients.

 

[SylvainP]

Je pesais près de 245 lbs, avec des joues d'écureuils, quand j'ai recommencé à fréquenter le milieu des TDS. Certaines masseuses et escortes m'embrassaient. J'ai l'impression que les masseuses et les escortes jugent moins l'apparence physique des hommes que les autres femmes. J'ai eu plus de tendresse et d'affection de la part des TDS que des non TDS. Je sais qu'elles ne sont pas en amour avec moi, mais ça me fait du bien.

 

[Doc Holliday]

What i've sometimes did in the past...especially if i've had to meet a 'date' in the lobby, is tell her or the booker "tell her to look for the fat balding guy in the blue golf shirt and shorts sitting by the elevators and holding a cellphone." When the girl would show up and i'd tell her i was her date, they'd often look somewhat relieved since i was a lot smaller than they had imagined....plus i have a lot of hair.

 

[Lily-Rose]

Une escorte n'est pas là pour juger mais pour donner de l'affection, de la tendresse, de l'attention, du plaisir...

Être sans jugement envers l'autre requiert une grande maturité de cœur et d'esprit. Si une escorte te juge alors elle ne te mérite tout simplement pas.

 

[AmberRose]

As others have mentioned, if you visit an SP who enjoys her job and the company spent with the gentlemen she meets, then you shouldn't have any issues.

And really, 220 does not sound that overweight to me! Men usually carry their weight differently... there's been a few times where someone has warned me they were overweight, and when they showed up they were a perfectly normal weight, society just taught them to be insecure about their looks, but there really isn't any need!

Honestly, as long as you make sure you clean yourself properly and your hygiene is top notch, and you are polite and respectful and have a friendly attitude, then you should have no issues at all!

Best of luck, and happy early birthday!

 

[Numerati]

Hey gents,
I'm turning 30 years old and got a bit overweight lately (220lbs, should be 180). Just wanted to go ahead with an SP for my birthday, but I feel that I will not get that great of a service because she will mentally judge me.
How do you guys deal with that kind of problem and do you still go ahead with hot fit SPs?
Thanks!

If you are respectable, shower, brush your teeth and shave your balls your weight (220lbs) would not be an issue. Major plus if you book her for two hours to just talk you will automatically be propelled as her #1 favorite.

For one there is none of that awkward does she or does she not superficial nonsense that permeates "regular" dating. This is pay to play. If you are able to build chemistry with her plus that nice little envelope. That will trump over whatever weight issue you think you may have. If that really concerns you then hit up a boot camp class at your gym for two or three months and all of this will be forgotten.

Have a great time!

 

[hungry101]

I know how you feel. The best thing to do in order to have a great birthday is to start getting in shape a.s.a.p. and quit the carbs. Join a fitness centre or buy a threadmill and some weights. Quit the suds and mostly drink water. Not only will you lose weight, but you'll feel much better and your sexual performance will greatly improve.

Good luck!

This is correct but if you don't make your goal don't fet about it. Just bring plenty of cash. Girls love a man who is funny, clean, charming, generous, and with plenty of cash on hand.

 

[tiannas]

Really 220 is nothing. Don't even worry about it. A few extra pounds is so common and not even a factor. Personally if I like someone I don't even care about their body shape/size. Some of my best sessions have been with gentlemen who are far from model material. The brain is a powerful erogenous zone and if you can turn me on mentally, then it's game on.

Weight becomes a factor when it starts to get in the way - when it is hard to perform certain acts, when the gentleman has difficulty washing properly, etc. In those cases I believe that the client should disclose his obesity to the provider ahead of time to ensure that both parties will be comfortable.

 

[Doc Holliday]

Really 220 is nothing.

It depends. If he's 6'2, it's nothing. But if he's 5'6, it's something.

 

[tiannas]

It depends. If he's 6'2, it's nothing. But if he's 5'6, it's something.

True. But he did say he was supposed to be 180. So I assumed he's at least 5'10". Body frame plays a part too.

 

[rollingstone]

I have been battling obesity for a very long time (been winning lately, lost 50kg in the past year), and I can tell you that its never been an issue for me in 9 years of doing this. I will say the more weight you lose the more fun it is all round.

When I am meeting an indy I mention it in our pre-date e-mails just to avoid surprises. With agencies that is not really an option. I got great service from well-reviewed providers, and from a few UTR ones. On a few occasions I have been offered time off the clock as well. Of course I had bad experiences, but they were few and far in between and it was far from clear that it was my weight that was the issue.

Finally, there is no substitute for good hygiene and being a gentleman. That's was most providers really care about.

 

[Merlot]

Hello Funkyner

Hey gents,
I'm turning 30 years old and got a bit overweight lately (220lbs, should be 180). Just wanted to go ahead with an SP for my birthday, but I feel that I will not get that great of a service because she will mentally judge me.

Thanks!

I don't think 40 lbs extra is something that will prevent you from enjoying many escorts having met many board members who have enjoyed themselves a lot but don't happen to be athletes. I've seen guys who have been hobbying successfully for years and are bigger. What you need to focus on is the attitude of your chosen lady. I'm slim so I know that being slim is NOT what really helps you enjoy a meeting in most cases where it might not work out. Some ladies just don't measure up regarding quality no matter what you look like or are built like. Check for attitude and service quality. That is what matters...unless you want to flash around plenty of cash...the almost fail safe cure all.

Do the workouts and/or diet things for yourself.

Good luck,

Merlot

 

[smuler]

lost 50kg in the past year

That's quite an accomplishment

Best Regards

Smuler