Giving an SP a second chance ?
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Her being physically attractive isn't a good enough reason, as the supply of DDG SPs in Montreal is plenty.
I did once because she was highly touted on the boards and my first experience was "meh". I could tell she was tired or not feeling well. The 2nd time was like different person and was 10x better. So it happens. Can't always provide same service all the time. Only thing, I would have preferred she cancel if she's not 100% up for it. I guess it could have been short notice. Sometimes I wonder about other encounters.
About 12 years ago there was this very good looking SP that became very popular, at least her reviews were good. She was in her early 20s. long straight blond hair slim body and somewhat large breast. When I went to see her I had a terrible experience. She rushed me and she did not into what she was doing. Her reviews continued to be good and I thought I would give her a second try. She recognized me to be a second visit client, but the service was even worse the second time around. She had just finished her St. Hubert BBQ dinner when I arrived and the packaging was left on the coffee table along with the wrappings of previous meals. She did not care that people thought she was a slob. It was because she was attractive that she thought that there will be plenty more clients coming around and she did not care if she burned a few bridges.
Two years ago I saw an ad with an attractive girl on it, so I called for an appointment. Not realizing that I had seen her before. When I arrived it was the same girl, but not the slim 23 year old. She was a fat version of herself 10 years ago, with the same straight long blond hair but 35 lbs. more weight and fat face. I think in the mirror each morning she did not notice the gradual change. I reached for my wallet to give her the donation, but reached for the wrong pocket on purpose. I gasped and said ohh, no! Then I said, it is OK. I bought ST. Hubert BBQ at the drive through and must have left my wallet in the car. I made a quick exitto retrieve my wallet, but in reality it was a get away.
Two years ago I saw an ad with an attractive girl on it, so I called for an appointment. Not realizing that I had seen her before. When I arrived it was the same girl, but not the slim 23 year old. She was a fat version of herself 10 years ago, with the same straight long blond hair but 35 lbs. more weight and fat face. I think in the mirror each morning she did not notice the gradual change. I reached for my wallet to give her the donation, but reached for the wrong pocket on purpose. I gasped and said ohh, no! Then I said, it is OK. I bought ST. Hubert BBQ at the drive through and must have left my wallet in the car. I made a quick exitto retrieve my wallet, but in reality it was a get away.
The ole "forgot the wallet in the car trick", works like a charm every time. Oddly enough , I always found that first appointment to be amazing. With a second appointment things go downhill, big change in attitude on girls part. My rule now is never repeat with anyone, no matter how attractive she looks or how good the experience is. Its true, there are plenty of ddg girls around and no need to see the same girl more than one time.
Nope! Never again will I make that mistake! :nono: I once gave a DDG SP (who was known to be very YMMV) a second chance because there was just something about her that made me quite curious to see her again and it turned out to be the absolute WORST session that I ever had! This DDG Ice Princess left my hotel room so cold that I swore I could see my own breath! 
I sure learned my lesson after that one! The talent pool in MTL is way to large to be subjected to that kind of treatment!
I sure learned my lesson after that one! The talent pool in MTL is way to large to be subjected to that kind of treatment!Plenty of SPs to go around. I had a plain SP once and it was the best GFE I ever had. She may have been a part timer and not a hardened long term SP. She offered everything and asked me if I wanted DFK, O, V, A. If you saw her in the street you would say she is average looking.
I gave a popular sp a second chance once (2-3 years later) and she turned into one of my favorite all-time sps. I ended up seeing her over 12-15 times.
She may have been disappointing because she wasn't feeling her best that day, who knows? What did other reviews say about the lady? If she sounded like fun all across the board then maybe you just didn't meet her on a good day...
Don't be a sucker and give them a second chance!
If she was not really her best she should learn to suck it up and provide a good service regardless. It's still better than working at McDonalds!
If you do give her a second chance then I got a bad of magic beans I want to sell you....
If she was not really her best she should learn to suck it up and provide a good service regardless. It's still better than working at McDonalds!
If you do give her a second chance then I got a bad of magic beans I want to sell you....
With all the talent out there in Montreal there would have to be a compelling reason to repeat with an SP that didn't perform. I mean there would have to be a compelling set of circumstances. I repeat with girls that blow me away (figuratively). With a TDL as long as my right arm just why in the hell would i or any one of you ever consider repeating with a "bad lay?"
I once gave an SP in Dallas a 2nd chance. She didn't show up and she said she had a car accident. I think that the truth was she didn't consider how long a drive it was from Dallas to Ft Worth. Dallas is not like Montreal. You can't recover from a set back like this. She apologized and we set a date for the next night and I drove over to her in Dallas. It turned out to be an hour drive so that is why she made up the accident story. I mentioned her car accident the day before and she looked at me like "what are you talking about?" And she said something like "Oh yeah, its OK." We did have a great session. This wouldn't be the last time I would hear this excuse.
If I had actually met her and I was not happy??? Nope! No 2nd chance.
I once gave an SP in Dallas a 2nd chance. She didn't show up and she said she had a car accident. I think that the truth was she didn't consider how long a drive it was from Dallas to Ft Worth. Dallas is not like Montreal. You can't recover from a set back like this. She apologized and we set a date for the next night and I drove over to her in Dallas. It turned out to be an hour drive so that is why she made up the accident story. I mentioned her car accident the day before and she looked at me like "what are you talking about?" And she said something like "Oh yeah, its OK." We did have a great session. This wouldn't be the last time I would hear this excuse.
If I had actually met her and I was not happy??? Nope! No 2nd chance.
You have to ask why the first time was not a good experience. I would say that the odds of getting a good second experience after a bad one is 1 in 5 at best. So pays your money and takes your chances.
I've done this at least one time and it worked out well for me. Had a so so time with a really attractive SP. Complained to the agency and when she came back for a second time it was quite the energetic experience!
I have repeated with a couple SPs who are super attractive but don't give great service, in hopes that it would get better. It happened a few times, but mostly not. Some are obviously "no repeats", like the ones who are big headed or think they are the shit.
the other girls who I know are doing their best but they are just missing some experience. I tend to give a second chance.
I can think of a 2 girls who are extremely attractive girls who were just nervous and weren't comfortable with themselves. Now after some coaching, she gives one of the best BBBJs and rides like Jesse Jane.
There is a well known indy that I had been dying to see. I made a big deal about it, booking ahead of time, exchanging a lot of emails to make the session awesome, she was very eager to play along. The night finally came and it wasn't close to what I imaged, she didn't wear makeup, she didn't talk too much because she was tired (which she only told me only after), She wore the wrong lingerie, She was just in auto-pilot. Her reputation is top notch and I believe I should give her a second chance, but then again, i shouldn't be in this position. She should have cancelled on me and guaranteed me another spot.
I guess it comes down to, there is a bigger risk to giving a second chance, but the question is are you willing to deal with the loss if the 2nd time isn't better. My budget doesn't allow me to make mistakes lol.
the other girls who I know are doing their best but they are just missing some experience. I tend to give a second chance.
I can think of a 2 girls who are extremely attractive girls who were just nervous and weren't comfortable with themselves. Now after some coaching, she gives one of the best BBBJs and rides like Jesse Jane.
There is a well known indy that I had been dying to see. I made a big deal about it, booking ahead of time, exchanging a lot of emails to make the session awesome, she was very eager to play along. The night finally came and it wasn't close to what I imaged, she didn't wear makeup, she didn't talk too much because she was tired (which she only told me only after), She wore the wrong lingerie, She was just in auto-pilot. Her reputation is top notch and I believe I should give her a second chance, but then again, i shouldn't be in this position. She should have cancelled on me and guaranteed me another spot.
I guess it comes down to, there is a bigger risk to giving a second chance, but the question is are you willing to deal with the loss if the 2nd time isn't better. My budget doesn't allow me to make mistakes lol.
I have given escorts a second chance after being mediocre in her service. I don't do that often. Maybe if she explains there was an issue. That would be acceptable. Then again maybe because some are so beautiful I had to see if the first time was an off meeting or she is so hot I'm satisfied with her anyway. I did see one such lady 4 times, maybe 5. Her face and her figure were too much for me to give up on only because she wasn't GFE. Yes, sometimes the superficial still works despite what else is lacking. Not often but sometimes.
Most of the time I'll pass right by an escort who was not into the meeting. I understand that not being into it just happens for the escort sometimes. However, we are paying and I rarely take the risk of another dissatisfying meeting. As someone said, there are too many options in Montreal to waste time and expenses.
Most of the time I'll pass right by an escort who was not into the meeting. I understand that not being into it just happens for the escort sometimes. However, we are paying and I rarely take the risk of another dissatisfying meeting. As someone said, there are too many options in Montreal to waste time and expenses.
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