Julia, I mean no offense, but the term "sexual assault" carries significant weight. Genuine sexual assault survivors never consent to exchanging sex for money, but regrettably, they were not afforded the choice to trade sex for financial compensation. [...]
As a man of courtesy, I hold in high regard both women and those who offer services. [...] However, it is regrettable that according to the law, the action cannot be categorized as sexual assault or rape.
Boi, I mean no offense but I'm not an idiot. I've been sexually assaulted more than once, including with the use of violence, including as a toddler, including as a sex worker... I know what sexual assault is. I know it carries significant weight. And you're not going to gaslight victims into thinking they aren't victims. Full stop. You sound so guilty right now.
Sex workers who this happens to ARE genuine victims. The condition for consent happens to be money whereas for someone else it might be wearing protection, or not cheating, or being a certain age, or showing real test results, etc. Condition not met = sexual assault, no matter if the condition is payment or something else.
At this point just say you hate sex workers and think they should accept sexual violence because they chose to do this job. Such a gross thinking. Yes, we agreed to sex for money. So we should be getting money, otherwise consent is null. Void. Do some soul searching.
You've been disagreeing with us about our own experience this whole thread and now you wanna turn around and pretend like you agree and only the law doesn't - I see right through the gaslight and backpedaling. Try again (just kidding, dont). If you did agree with us you wouldn't try so hard to say we aren't "genuine victims".
"As a man of courtesy, I hold in high regard both women and those who offer services."
This reeks of good man energy. If you have to self-proclaim you're a man of courtesy I have doubts that you actually are. People who like and respect women "and those who offer services" (which happens to be overwhelmingly women as well) don't gaslight them about their own experiences and feelings and things they've been through, and they certainly don't ask them to shut up about those things.
Oh, and back to the subject of law... Hundreds of thousand of children get legally married to an adult in the states every year. For someone like you who bases their moral compass on the law, this says a lot. I wouldn't let a kid or a woman near you, at this point.
I may sound like a savage cunt in this reply (thanks, I know) but at least I'll never sound like a predator in disguise (not at all referring to you, just kidding, I am)