Maybe a little off topic, but the best site for a commited relationship is E-Harmany.com. I tested it and I had to remove my profile as I was swamped and over welmed by woman, many very attractive. This site has a compatability profile asking over 20 questions before matching you up and the system was great and the best that I ever seen. I went there to prove to someone that it does not work and ended up realizing there are still a few good ones out there. But right now I would I would say that I am about 1-1.5yrs from being ready for a commited relationship since I'n taking french courses full time and not at a job right now.