Got back from trip in Colombia few days ago. Was with a sp and i cant stop thinking about her. Didnt do anything about it like telling her how i feel and stuff but she wont get outta my mind. Wtf do i do to get rid of this feeling??
I fell in love with sp in Colombia. How f.cked am i?
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Get back into your routine, get back to your regular life and you'll slowly stop thinking about her. It's a fling, it's a fun feeling for sure, but it's not love and doesn't stand the test of time.
Ahhh you fell in the trap. Tough to handle.
Deal with your mind and leave the heart aside.
You know what she does for a living right? So she has probably seen many other guys already and not thinking of you.
Reason yourself. Do things, sport etc. Get busy and soon see other SPs. With time you will be fine.
It’s part of the fantasy to make you feel like that. We’ve all had that feeling, where we feel like it’s so special, we’re in heaven, etc (even if for a short amount of time).
I’m sure you both had a good time, but now it’s time to move on. Back to reality.
She’s seeing other guys and probably not thinking about you anymore. Like others have said, get busy with life, hobbies, friends, etc.
It will pass!!
I’m sure you both had a good time, but now it’s time to move on. Back to reality.
She’s seeing other guys and probably not thinking about you anymore. Like others have said, get busy with life, hobbies, friends, etc.
It will pass!!
Those Colombian latinas have a special love powder puts a curse on you, they seem so loving and passionate and attentive until they are not then watch out. I still talk to one I was with in 2019 she still asks for money and sends me videos , oh papasito
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Been there
Can I ask how the provider feels during those "special" encounters?
I noticed that some providers have the ability to quickly create a connection and chemistry with (almost) everyone, making the encounters memorable.
Do they have a switch that can be turned on/off at any time?
Do they have to have genuine feelings in order to create that impression?
Find the difference is anytime I have been there it’s. 4 hr booking so a lot more time to connect
Buy her a plane ticket to come here and see how it goes. Worst case is you have sex several times and it doesn't work out. A plane ticket is less than seeing an SP 2-3 times here.
But he would still have to pay her rates for the time she spends here with him, not just the plane ticket. His feelings are very much one sided (and it can't be love - love doesn't happen instantaneously, as Giselle pointed out it's a fling more than anything).
Booking an escort for days/weeks at a time isn't cheap, even if the hourly rate is lower
I know two guys that Did that with a Cuban and the other with a colombian it was a disaster they ruined them and left after
I appreciate that but I was referring to bring her here as a potential girlfriend and eventually wife not as a business transaction.
Actually, a lot of latin girls will come up for nothing just for the chance to travel and have a vacation, if they like the guy. Many of them are looking for husbands too. It's not anything at all like dealing with SPs here. The guy is expected to entertain the girl and cover all expenses but beyond anything he might want to give her when she leaves there's no obligation to pay hourly/daily/weekly rates. The mindset just isn't the same. Of course, he can't just treat her as a fucktoy either. It's supposed to be an amicable get together. I have vacationed with a number of girls on this basis. If he really wanted to give it a whirl and see how a visit would be there's not a lot of financial downside beyond airfare and casual expenses, if the girl was not a shark and worth getting to know anyway. The biggest obstacle is usually obtaining a visa and having to disclose a lot of personal information (on both sides). If these things are stumbling blocks then meeting in the middle in a visa-free country is a good option. Colombians can travel visa-free all over SA, to Mexico, some of the islands and to a number of European countries. Not Canada though.
Many of us have been there and tried different things.
At the end of the day, she is a professional whose job is to please men and make them come back for more.
Run for the hills.
At the end of the day, she is a professional whose job is to please men and make them come back for more.
Run for the hills.
It's basically their job. The gems succeed.
I see a few like Fiona very regularly because they succeed in making me want to come back for more but potential girlfriend or wife, no.
It’s like an all-inclusive, but the other way!!
Get a plane ticket and go back to Colombia and spend some time to bring your temperature down. lol
If not see Maya Saatchi (Colombian) and she will help you to heal your wound.
Agree, but what is it that makes them good at their job?
I think we all agree that just being physically attractive is not enough.
Same with mechanical encounters without any connection or chemistry.
I think a provider has to love sex, enjoy meeting new people, be curious and a have a passion for life, among many other things.
But I would like the girls’ opinions on that.
Btw do u know how long she’s here for?
I thought she left. It doesn’t say in her ad.
Last Thursday she contacted me through DM, that time she was here. Now I do not have any info if she left or here.
