I don't find it alarmist to react to something that could have happened to me just as easily. I did not post in order to cause panic, but rather to remind us all that this can happen and She plans to post a third message with advice on additional safety precautions, which is exactly what I believe the ultimate goal was in sharing her story.
Do the replies to her story suggest any panic or excessive reactions? Not in the least. They show compassion. Compassion. A concept that is seemingly unknown by some, judging by the tone of some of the comments made. I'm truly disappointed in some of what has been written.
Although I respectfully disagree with you, I'm offended and also disappointed by your apparent need to make this into a debate or an argument or to dispute facts that are neither here nor there.
While I understand that the Montreal market is mostly outcalls, this is simply not the case in most other cities. There are many, many of us who find ourselves in this situation. The fact that these 2 incidents took place at a private residence does not guarantee that this could not happen in a hotel room! I challenge you to prove beyond doubt that it will never happen.
Because it could. Private condos are no different than hotel rooms. Many ladies here might not offer incall in their residence here, they DO have guests visit them in their hotel room all the time when touring!
Pepper spray is great, but not very effective if in your purse or drawer while you stand with a gun to your head!
And finally logistics aside, I don't believe it's bad to remind ourselves of the dangers and risks, so we are aware. I don't think it is alarmist in the least.
There are girls new to the business who may not follow safety procedures as strict as they should, there are girls who have been in this business for a long time, but perhaps have let a few safety precautions slide with time and lack of bad experiences, or there may be any one of us who knows all of this, maybe always makes sure to follow strict safety procedure.......except for that one exception where we let it slip thinking no harm can happen.
It's really great that you can guarantee that it would not happen under different circumstances.. But please don't take offense if I don't take your word for it,
because if you are ever proved wrong --- I will be the one standing with a gun to my head, not you. But I'm sure you'll be ready for a debate and some advice on what floor the hotel room should have been on for your guarantees to be apply.
These posts just remind us that it can, it could, in house on a boat, in a hotel room.. Hearing of what could happen certainly serves to remind us that it isn't worth risking, even if just one time because we're in a hurry, because we think we'll be fine. Take it for what it's worth, but please show a little respect, empathy and sensitivity, and perhaps keep the 'This is a surprise to her ... and is raped and beaten within an inch of her life?' comment as inner dialogue, as I for one, think this kind of attitude on your part serves absolutely no purpose in this thread or of any help to any SP reading. It's simply not necessary.
I don't think that's alarmist... and by the way, I thought hobbyiest might be sympathetic to the risks we take and to the terrible story Nadia decided to share, but really and truly --- the post was primarly for SP's to reflect on and perhaps re-evaluate their own personal safety guideline.
Sorry your sky's falling this morning. Mine still exactly where it's always been.