is it just me?

[Bat Crusader]

Is it just me or do most SP's dont answer text messages?

Most providers have very limited adds

When I send a 1st text message I will usually say where i found an add, then I go on to ask prices and location for incall (intersection) (because Montreal in big...)

I would say 3/4 texts I send never get a response, and the few I get will be hours later without answering what I asked for.

On one occasion lately, when she finally sent me an answer, I returned a text asking when she is usually available.

She then went to tell me she only does buisness with serious people.

Guess what! i asked for info 8 hours ago & by the time you answered I was having diner with family...

 

[jalimon]

You may find some answer here:
https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?174898-texting-etiquette

Cheers,

 

[2fast2slow]

i know exactely what you mean and it drives me crazy too. but i have leaned to understand why it happens... it is part of the game with independants

what drives me more crazy is when they post location as 'montreal'. Id say only about 5-10% are more specific

 

[Bat Crusader]

Thanks to both of you! Nice to know I am not alone...

I live in the Repentigny area, Montreal is big, I am looking for east-end providers.

I usually text because I would like to meet in the next few hours, multiple hour delayed answers dont work for me either

I Understand when I send a text on an add that is a few days old ( she might not be working at the time) but when I see a 1-2 hour old add & get no answer, I black list them.

 

[theyellowman]

I give 24h delay max. If they don't answer, i go the next one....!

Like any other business ..! if you are not able to response quickly your client, you will loose the clients and will be soon out of business . The independents are not for everyone, they must know how to manage their schedules and so on. Otherwise, they are better to work for the agency.
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[What's My Name]

I contact them and also contact a few others and see who answers first. And if some get back to me a few hours or days later the text I sent is probably deleted. I live in the east end and I am by public transport, and at times they SP is just giving me the area she is in, example: I am in Cote-des-neiges. I ask for the 2 major streets, some start telling me that she can not give that info to respect her privacy. I reply back that I don't want the exact address or street but at least the two major streets. And most of the times they give me parallel streets.

 

[henri007]

Honestly, indies are now out of my booking consideration. More expensive, longer time to book, higher rate of cancellation. Sometimes booking is funny: she proposed 2pm, I asked whether she could make at 1pm, then she said no; and then I said "ok then I would take 2pm as she proposed", at which she said she would not be available until 4pm... all textings were within 10 minutes. Not suitable for busy people like me.

 

[2fast2slow]

most of the independant ads on the usual sites are not serious providers...look for the ones that post regularly, give multiple changing pictures, give a decent description, etc...once you weed out the fake picts, crappy picts, old ladys, overweight girls, ugly girls, no description, post once in a while, dont answer texts... you are left with very little...

 

[Halloween Mike]

The indies side of business is a bit hard to gauge at time. The thing is most of the good ones get tons of text by days and so much are time wasters, so sometimes the're defense mechanisim kick in and they don't really let the chance to the client who was actually serious but needed a bit more info.

I had great meeting with indies when everything would go well but i also had "no replies" at times when trying to contact them.

Agencies are usually easier to deal with because thats the booker's job, while the escorts are seeing clients. Escorts that work during the day and receive text may just ignore them because there day is fully book already and they just don't have the time to reply at that moment. Then they may respond or not in the evening depending if they feel its "worthy" of a reply (if it look serious or if they feel its not "too late")

I guess you need to have a little more patience with indies, also some of them ask to book 24h in advance, its probably specifically to avoid having clients contact them and expect and answer in the next hour or 2.

 

[Julia Sky]

I Understand when I send a text on an add that is a few days old ( she might not be working at the time) but when I see a 1-2 hour old add & get no answer, I black list them.

Do you also blacklist a girl who replies to her texts during an appointment ? Because if the answer is yes maybe its time to choose you cant do both... I said it in the past and will say it again I dont understand guys who are mad/annoyed/irritated when an indy doesnt reply right away. We cant reply when we are working or (god forbids) doing grocery or something. Be glad youre not talking to a booker instead... no? If you cant stand the idea that an indy cant always reply right away then dont book indies its really that simple... A one hour old ad is old enough to be booked when you reach her... You cant blame her.. She didnt post her ad and then wait for YOU specifically... lol


To put it very simply : instead of thinking only about your dicks you should think about every other guys dick too... Dont throw an internal tantrum if a girl doesnt reply right away its not always about you, shes most likely busy sucking a bro's dick... (trash way to say it? Absolutely ! Im shameless and had a point to make haha)

 

[hungry101]

Julia is correct. I prefer that a SP's nose is not in her phone during my time.

I remember I was in doggie with an SP in Rio and she was sending texts while I was fucking her. It was so egregious I couldn't get mad and I started laughing.

 

[jalimon]

I remember I was in doggie with an SP in Rio and she was sending texts while I was fucking her. It was so egregious I couldn't get mad and I started laughing.

Hey I once had the same! But the girl was not texting. She reached out to her purse while in doggy and started to polish her nails!! Good thing I do not care about my male ego haha

Cheers,

 

[Julia Sky]

Jalimon this is hilarious loooool next time I do doggy maybe I should reach for my tweezers and mirror and do my eyebrows ? hahaha

 

[Halloween Mike]

Dunno how you guys can cop with that and be fine lol, personally i had once an SP that seemed bored and was chewing her gum while looking around in Cowgirl and it really was a mood killer. I know im not a stud, i know she ain't there to have an orgasm, but illusion is part of the fantasy, its like movies on TVs, if its well acted and well shot, the illusion work, if not it look ridiculous and take you out of the fictional story you are watching.

 

[charmer_]

Be glad youre not talking to a booker instead... no?

Whatever works. If a booker gets the job done and replies promptly, I'm all for it. *But* the SP should also disclose that she has someone that takes her appointments in her ad.

 

[Halloween Mike]

As charmer says, i don't mind talking to a dude for a booking (or a lady friend) as long as i know who it is. And the Booker/SP are on the same page (aka not promising services not delivered)