... sex can be just a starting point in a relationship. My SB and I will hit the two year mark next week and our relationship has gone way beyond that...
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Rumples, glad to know that your relationship continues to go well. I could imagine having such a relationship but it would require more cash than I can afford to spend and it would have to be a special woman, probably someone older than my current SB. I did kind of experience such a relationship, but only for a few days and in a foreign land. I described it here. So I understand what you're talking about.
I agree that it's not always all about sex. Even with an escort, an encounter is not always all about sex. The nice thing about an arrangement is that there is an assumption by both people that, if things work out, you will see each other on a regular basis and get to know each other as real people and not just impersonal sex objects.
Of course, a guy can develop that kind of relationship with an escort too but it is less likely to happen than with a sugar relationship. And some sugar relationships can last only one encounter, just like many meetings with an escort. In sum, I think there is a wide range of possible arrangements that can occur and that's a good thing.
...this several types of "arrangments" set boundaries that helps to protect our privacy...keeping us away from dramas, insecurity, expectations, arguments, and heavy/negative stuffs that can drag us down in a personal relatioship leaded by feelings...
Thanks for sharing your perspective. So if I understand correctly, you are saying that you have had "arrangements" outside of your work as an escort. Did you meet guys on Seeking Arrangement or just in the course of daily life?