Most Beautiful SPs that do not mind being with older guys

[Regular Guy]

But the more that I hobby, the more I realize that passion is the secret sauce of GFE encounters. There's another thread where I have been detailing my ATFs (all time favorites), and now that I think about it, passionate encounters are what really makes a favorite SP into an ATF.

Just a little dark humour here (hyperbole): Saw a movie trailer some time ago where detectives were on the trail of a serial killer targeting escorts. Upon finding the trunk of a car full of bodies one was inspired to exclaim, "I've never seen so many dead escorts in my life!" Whereupon the other (played by Tom Posten) gazed wistfully to heaven and replied, "Lord knows I have!" (Sorry girls - just meant in fun - couldn't resist!)

Actually there are many very special girls who are pure gold and I like the idea of chercherfemmes ATF thread. These girls should be honoured. They deserve it. Trouble is when they are discovered just try to get time with one! Well you girls are prized highly. And the agency owners who keep the quality up and everyone on their toes also. And the indys like Athana and Maria. models of the hobby.

 

[YouVantOption]

Thank You!

I think you are mistaking fantasy for reality. I reality, a 18 to 24 year old attractive woman, might not consider dating a man with a 20 year age difference........ especially if he looked his age, but the reality is this is not just any woman we are talking about, but a young SP......

Right. The girl is getting paid. She is there because she is getting paid. After she gets paid, she leaves, or fucks you and leaves after an hour, or however much time you paid for.

Then she goes and fucks another old guy, fat guy, ugly guy, or a fat-old-ugly guy and probably another one after that. She did that yesterday, she will do that tomorrow. She gets paid for all her work. That's why they call it work.

She is hot, and can have her choice of guys. You think she doesn't 'mind' old guys? Of course she does. Remember being young? How many old women did you want to fuck when you were 18? I mean, before they invented MILFs, and even then.

If the girl isn't getting paid, she spends the night, and fucks you a bunch of times, and probably calls you sometime later. You have breakfast together. That kind of thing.

See how that works?

 

[Love big tits]

It is funny, because the two people that I saw in my life that had the kind of love you only see in the movies had a 25 years difference.

She was the young one and is still alive. To this day she is still in love with him at 83 years of age. She was 18 he was 43. He died at 86

But that was in the old days right?

We all want the trophy girlfriend or wife but in the end love and kinship is what makes the difference and under some circumstances it can happen at any age difference.

As for SP treat them like you care and anything can happen. Be different (in a nice way) from most of the guys they see and they will appreciate and reward you for it, no matter what your age.

 

[John Legend]

I am in my mid to late 40's and I have never had a problem with a SP. Sure, you cant get the hot young girls in the clubs anymore, but I do OK. Its a matter of how you talk and your confidence level.

 

[shijak]

it's a good thing most of them haven't seen the beginning of the movie Private Benjamin

Most SP's weren't even born when that movie came out...

 

[z/m(Ret)]

A certain SP, now retired, of Korean descent and sporting pigtails used to appreciate "older" clients over younger ones, the latter she would refer to as "minutemen".

 

[Lion Heart]

Good wines go better with age...

hahaha....Those 50 i knew, and appreciated, can make love to a woman much better and much longer than younger....C'mon....why do you think i prefer them???

Hummm...I wonder who you have in mind...

Skill and control do improve with milleage. Being 50 myself, I don't know - and don't care - how I compare to younger dudes. Speaking from my own perspective, I sure can go the distance much better than when I was 30. It just take a little longer to recharge the batteries.

I may be wrong, but I don't feel the age difference comes in the way very often, either for the hobbyist or the SP, if both have the right attitude about it and if the chemistry is good.

Lion Heart

 

[happygolucky]

The 'ideal' men they've met before becoming SPs have gotten them pregnant and then abandoned them for the next hot piece of ass.

Now I don't know how most clients treat these SPs, but I don't think the SPs care as much about looks and age compared with how they are treated by their clients.

I think that pretty much sums it up! Well said!

 

[CaféLatte]

I may be wrong, but I don't feel the age difference comes in the way very often, either for the hobbyist or the SP, if both have the right attitude about it and if the chemistry is good.
Lion Heart

Well said too. I like to think this is all that matters.

 

[Regular Guy]

Create the atmosphere!

You are implying SPs have no self respect...the color of money make them blind...right? Hmmm...has somebody/lady pissed you off lately?
In your mind, is there such a creature as a 38-50 nice / mature / well mannered gentleman?

Bang on Max! But there is another issue as well. The attitude you bring with you to the encounter will determine what kind of experience you are going to have. If you make it all about cash then you can bet the rent money that's the kind of experience she is going to deliver.

My take on it: Be positive, make a fuss over her, bring a rose, try to create an atmosphere of sensuality. It may not always work the way you think it ought to for a variety of reasons. But your goal should always be to have her say, " Where did the time go? What a pleasant way to make a living. He was all right!" Am I dreaming in technicolour? No! I understand the realities. IT IS ALL ABOUT THINKING POSITIVE! But hey, you guys who prefer the 200 watt light bulb to the glow of candlelight, well we all have our own style.

 

[CaféLatte]

My take on it: Be positive, make a fuss over her, bring a rose, try to create an atmosphere of sensuality. It may not always work the way you think it ought to for a variety of reasons. But your goal should always be to have her say, " Where did the time go? What a pleasant way to make a living. He was all right!" Am I dreaming in technicolour? No! I understand the realities. IT IS ALL ABOUT THINKING POSITIVE! But hey, you guys who prefer the 200 watt light bulb to the glow of candlelight, well we all have our own style.

Regular Guy, you're my hero!!

 

[YouVantOption]

You are implying SPs have no self respect...

You are correct, I was implying that, although unintentionally. So I'll come out and say it, so there is no doubt.

Or are you debating that the extraordinary high number of instances of historical family abuse & sexual abuse, rampant drug & alcohol abuse and so on among sex workers are a recipe for good self-image?

the color of money make them blind...right? Hmmm...has somebody/lady pissed you off lately?

People piss me off all the time. No-one has pissed me off for me to say this though.

 

[YouVantOption]

I have heard many sp's say they prefer older guys - that being defined as being in their 40's and 50's and maybe even beyond.

were you that age when she said it? If so, I'd suggest maybe replace the word 'prefer' with 'tolerate for enough money'.

 

[YouVantOption]

Tally up

If I'm wrong, where are all the others, apart from Maria, proclaiming their profound preference for older guys?

 

[montreal_monk01]

If I'm wrong, where are all the others, apart from Maria, proclaiming their profound preference for older guys?

YouVantOption,
No worry for that my friend. There's no need for such preference when you're a good escort.
A good escort works without preference. No need to hide behind boundaries when you're good at what you do!
Most of them are smart and very professional sps who would never indulge in the controversial risk of publicly flashing the lights
on this or that preference (Like any human being they surely have their inner preference...but why would you publicize
it when you're in business?? Not smart...). As an escort, it's sometimes better to keep a low profile on preferences unless you do not mind having a very very selective clientele (having a selective clientele might look interesting on a short run...as long as that selective clientele is around...but in a long term, it may turn against you). Have you noticed that the top-notch escorts who have a membership on this board (Tamara,Indy/Kiki/Vicky of XXXtase, Maria Divina,Kim of Devilish) have always refrained to dive into any statements that would divide their clientele? There's a smart reason for that.

 

[Regular Guy]

Have you noticed that the top-notch escorts who have a membership on this board (Tamara,Indy/Kiki/Vicky of XXXtase, Maria Divina,Kim of Devilish) have always refrained to dive into any statements that would divide their clientele? There's a smart reason for that.

Well MM that is a fair statement and you might be right on with that. But I think I have a question they would not be afraid to answer:

Which would you prefer: (a) The young guy who acts like a jerk and who believes and treats you like you are damaged goods? or (b) the older gentleman who is a class act and treats you well.

Well girls they called it plain. If you choose either of (a) or (b) you will alienate part of your clientele. If you keep quiet you are accepting of all {and that means (a) and (b) above included.} If you do have self worth and feel you are entitled to respect, and that it will definitely influence your attitude now might be a good time to make a case. Personally I and many others here have no stake in this. But your answers may influence how far many guys will go to make an encounter a pleasant one.

 

[z/m(Ret)]

Seriously...

If I'm wrong, where are all the others, apart from Maria, proclaiming their profound preference for older guys?

If I'm wrong, where are all the SP's proclaiming their profound preference for younger guys? Anyway old, young, if the dude shows up with unwashed feet and looking like he's been shot in the face, what difference doest it make? And who gives a toss, really, as long as they're treated right and paid?

 

[Justforfun]

Different types of rendez-vous for different types of people

If I may put in my 2 cents,

Different people seeks different types of encounters, Hobbyist and lady companions alike.

As I see it, the most prevalent types are (correct me if I'm mistaken);

1- Hobbyists that seeks for the quick ''Sex Fix''
2- Hobbyists that seeks to share pleasurable moments with a lady companion.

Without pretending understanding the wants, motivations and psyche of the first group I can attest to the second group to which I'm part of.

To share companionship with a nice and intelligent women is not only pleasurable but gratifying at the same time. Intimacy for me, starts with the atmosphere created that both brings to the encounter, nice surroundings, interesting vibe and conversation that will lead naturally to the more intimate part of of the rendez-vous.

Call me what you wish, but sex starts ''entre les 2 oreilles''
French expression for Sex starts with the meeting of minds

I believe its important for this group, or me, that the lady companion enjoys herself has much as I, hopefully. I guess I see it has a symbiosis between 2 persons.

With that said, it would be safe to assume that different lady companion seeks the same from one of these 2 groups.

Have a great Christmas Holiday.

 

[Regular Guy]

Well Maria and CafeLatte it is great to hear your take on it. Do you feel that most sp's would agree with you?

In any event this has been a great discussion for me and I would guess very helpful to many of the older guys. Some maybe were lurking and now are ready to try a special experience with a charming sp. Merry Christmas to all!

 

[voyageur]

Please don't.. I adore you!!! You're perfect!! Don't feel old....

Et bien, je suis toujours pret a me laisser consoler....

Merci, belle Maria