I totally agree, But like I said, it is not my say. Me I don't care what you are, I'm myself a disable person. But also in my case especially I can understand if an SP is not comfortable disable person and I totally get it.
No Black men
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I already got answer from euphoria that particular girl she don’t see black guy,
One sp who is well know in the industry told me that I was her first black client (She was in her 10 years as an escort) and that the booker forgot to tell her , usually she avoided them because she is scared of their big D lol.
After our meeting she was pleased and i think she was open to see black guys.
We are not all equipped like in those damn movies!!!
I had been asked by bookers if I am black or not for specific girls
Thanks for your answer. I'm wondering if you can elaborate by "not your typical indy?"
Good evening: May I quote you? You said: "Even if an escort has had bad experience with White customers she cannot afford to blacklist White customers" If everyone is to understand your words correctly, it seems to imply that the SW is not in a position to create policies that apply to specific customers. The main OP question is about exclusion of one specific demographic. Is it fair to say the other specific demographic is hands off?
CLOUD 500 said: "sex workers can blacklist Black clients because the majority of clients are White. Even if an escort has had bad experience with White customers she cannot afford to blacklist White customers..." The entitlement you refer to, what happens to it in the context of what CLOUD 500 is expressing?
Mes amis: We can accept it or reject it. As soon as someone says one iota about race, that in and of itself is racist. There are issues in this industry which are more serious. Screening in order to protect our beloved providers based on the problems they face is beneficial to clients and providers alike. Blacklist bad clients is more effective than listing BLACK= bad clients. No?
Touché! When life and death is on the line, and the phrase "No Black Men" is posted widely instead of something that might actually raise awareness, I proposed evidence that there is some pressure on that SW causing it. For the benefit of the clients, would you please share reasons if any that an ad might ignore the REAL dangers to the SW? Someone's life or freedom may depend on it.
For me there's is 2 type of indy, the first one is your typical indy where they post on merb, indycompanion, tryst etc. These indy's has a certain reputation, they are safe, they do regular test, they are not scam, has certain values, they do it not only for the money etc. The second category is those on leolist, annonce intime etc where you can't be sure if it's a scam or not, you need to do more research, their thinking is not the same, some has pimp. Of course there is exception on both side.
Thank you for your informative answer. It helps me understand.
Is it fair to say that you can't be sure if it's not a scam. And those specific SPs could have pimps?
I don't think anything can be assumed. SPs have many different requirements that aren't even listed in their ads. It likely takes talking/messaging them and seeing how they respond. If they have a preference in their ad, then it just shows a preference. It doesn't necessarily mean there is some underlying hidden agenda behind why it is there. We all have different means for protecting ourselves, and trying to look for the kinds of expieriences we are comfortable with.
I wrote that because the majority of customers are white. If an escort decides to exclude white customers she essentially looses over 80% of potential customers. I might be wrong but each time I got to any stripclub majority of customers are white so I suspect it might have the same demographic for escort customers.
I have yet to see or hear of that. I never seen it posted on any escort ad either.
It does exist and there are post clearly stating no men over 55. I have seen on A123. Not common but yes.
Others don't write it but will do a screening afterward and will not book you.
Anyway it is easy to figure out a young lady not being at ease with men older than their father.
Other don't want to meet obese. It is a very intimate job. Those women have their own limits and it is their absolute right to accept or not going on with someone.
I get that for girls having their limits, just saying that I never seen it, I will pay closer attention to that detail when looking at ads. I will take your word for it.
A lot of good points have been made here. Most specifically I'd like to acknowledge that an SP has full rights to determine with whom she provides service for, and also that any individual accepted or rejected on the basis of whether or not they are a "black gent" is an example of explicit racism.
That being said, a message from one human to another, it hurts being treated differently. To be ~denied service~ for any reason is not a great feeling, whether justified or otherwise. I personally find it is rather hard to imagine a justifiable reason as to why an entire group of people get this judgment passed on them.
To any black gents reading this, keep your heads up. We've come a long way but there is a long way yet to go.
That being said, a message from one human to another, it hurts being treated differently. To be ~denied service~ for any reason is not a great feeling, whether justified or otherwise. I personally find it is rather hard to imagine a justifiable reason as to why an entire group of people get this judgment passed on them.
To any black gents reading this, keep your heads up. We've come a long way but there is a long way yet to go.
Those escorts looked at the local crime statistics and realized they could significantly reduce their risk of getting physically harmed without much impact to their bottom line.
Was just in Vancouver and faced a lot of escorts who only see asian clients.
It sucked, but what is the cure? Forcing them to sleep with people they don’t want to?
All I can do is treat everyone I encounter with class (90% of those will be asians in Richmond) and hope to turn this systemic racism around one person at a time.
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