Hi merb people,
For the experienced guys here, what do you do if let’s say you booked 1H or 45min or HH and you didn’t lasted more than 10min ?
Do you juste leave ? Or what you tell the lady ?
Happy NY everyone !
I’m not sure which category you think you fall into, and if that s what bothering you but do you consider yourself as a premature ejaculator? or do you just not last very long? Do you know the causes? Have you ever considered consulting a professional (like a sexologist)? They can give you exercises focused on breathing or strengthening your pelvic floor muscles for exemple, use it during your meeting, and take breaks, i would advise you to work on that with sps and at home to last longer.
There are also medications, like pills or sprays, but I wouldn’t necessarily recommend them.
As for your encounters, maybe you already do this, but try seeing high-quality escorts, not cheap ones. Perhaps even consider some regular. You can talk to her about it—if she’s a good person, she’ll understand, and that could help you. DFK/DATY/massages, pauses, finger play, can help build up pleasure gradually; take your time, enjoy giving as much as receiving, and try to relax. Use all the time you have to find out what you like there s plenty of things to do, but don t leave after 10’ if you paid for more.