Question for people who've paid for service

[LonelyMan123]

I have recently started seeing a few workers for the first time and surprisingly, I've had multiple occasions had women say I'm gentle/nice and asking me if I'm married.

Is this suppose to be some kind of compliment? I find it really odd that I've gotten the same remark multiple times and I have no idea what it means.

 

[Like_It_Hot]

Don't get involved too personally with an SP. You are just exposing yourself to manipulation or worse, blackmailing. Just pretend you are single those times... I never gave my true occupation, neither my full name. If you have a Facebook account, don't give clues how to find you. You are the client, she his a provider. It's about having a good time and you pay for it so it not friendship. Do you pay your friend when you spare time with them? In short, those remarks mean nothing. It is small talk but if you are not careful you can get in trouble. If you see an SP regularly, you may become more familiar but never forget it is a transactional relationship. Good luck! Take care!

 

[kabukicho]

some of the agencies already know our name, and some of these same agencies arm the girls with your name ahead of the meeting. point is, they may be asking while already knowing, and seeing what you come up with (or not) for minor amusement. imho most dont ask the past 2 years.

 

[Fr. McKenzie]

Be careful that you are not being stroked to keep you coming back.

 

[TheJames101]

Be careful that you are not being stroked to keep you coming back.

I only come back if I'm stroked.

 

[Numerati]

I have recently started seeing a few workers for the first time and surprisingly, I've had multiple occasions had women say I'm gentle/nice and asking me if I'm married.

Is this suppose to be some kind of compliment? I find it really odd that I've gotten the same remark multiple times and I have no idea what it means.

Take it as a compliment and she sees you as a possible long term prospect. Plus she does not see you as some asshole who will make things complicated. If you like to continue to see her then cool. If you are a one and done deal kind of guy that is cool too. You get to bust a nut or two with her and she earned her $$$$$. It is all good.

 

[AlmostMidaged]

I have recently started seeing a few workers for the first time and surprisingly, I've had multiple occasions had women say I'm gentle/nice and asking me if I'm married.

Is this suppose to be some kind of compliment? I find it really odd that I've gotten the same remark multiple times and I have no idea what it means.

Gentle: It means you’re gentle and treat them more like sexual equals than sexual objects to give you pleasure.

Nice: It means you talk more than a lot of clients, while not asking intrusive or dumb question.

You Married: It means you put off an air of untiring husband, but also one who is neglected by his spouse.


Asking whether you’re married or not could be small talk/ ego stroking / curiousity/ etc. It has no set meaning unless asked immediately following the compliment. If the latter was done, I imagine it is a compliment, but also a demarcation confirmation assuring no closeness is possible. I.e. You’re married so you’re ineligible and won’t try to date them.

 

[kabukicho]

LM123, the easiest thing you could have done is ask back "Why do you ask?"

 

[just some guy]

I have recently started seeing a few workers for the first time and surprisingly, I've had multiple occasions had women say I'm gentle/nice and asking me if I'm married.

Is this suppose to be some kind of compliment? I find it really odd that I've gotten the same remark multiple times and I have no idea what it means.

What it means is you are definitely doing something wrong. Gentle/Nice = Easy money

 

[Bonclay20]

I have recently started seeing a few workers for the first time and surprisingly, I've had multiple occasions had women say I'm gentle/nice and asking me if I'm married.

Is this suppose to be some kind of compliment? I find it really odd that I've gotten the same remark multiple times and I have no idea what it means.

Nice/gentle is a compliment. I’m not sure I’d take the married part as a compliment lol.

 

[kabukicho]

What it means is you are definitely doing something wrong. Gentle/Nice = Easy money

woah, why is he necessarily doing something wrong? flip it... that means he should be... mean and authoritative or something to the girl? to make it harder money?

 

[kabukicho]

Nice/gentle is a compliment. I’m not sure I’d take the married part as a compliment lol.

who knows, they might be asking to wonder why isn't he married, or they have an idea of his marital status and want to validate if their suspicion is correct or not.

 

[LonelyMan123]

Gentle: It means you’re gentle and treat them more like sexual equals than sexual objects to give you pleasure.

Nice: It means you talk more than a lot of clients, while not asking intrusive or dumb question.

You Married: It means you put off an air of untiring husband, but also one who is neglected by his spouse.


Asking whether you’re married or not could be small talk/ ego stroking / curiousity/ etc. It has no set meaning unless asked immediately following the compliment. If the latter was done, I imagine it is a compliment, but also a demarcation confirmation assuring no closeness is possible. I.e. You’re married so you’re ineligible and won’t try to date them.

I hope that your opinions are correct because those are my intentions! Most of the time they mention this "after".

LM123, the easiest thing you could have done is ask back "Why do you ask?"

Yeah... I'm new to this, though it seems kinda rude and I tend to have a very caring personality (not negotiating, giving them proper massages, respecting timelines and in general letting them enjoy themselves without the expectation that they need to climax or any of that nonsense)

 

[Stockton]

What it means is you are definitely doing something wrong. Gentle/Nice = Easy money

This is crap if he had a good time. You're not only getting your money's worth when you make the girls too sore/tired for the next client.

 

[just some guy]

I hope that your opinions are correct because those are my intentions! Most of the time they mention this "after".


Yeah... I'm new to this, though it seems kinda rude and I tend to have a very caring personality (not negotiating, giving them proper massages, respecting timelines and in general letting them enjoy themselves without the expectation that they need to climax or any of that nonsense)

massages , no sex, YOU PAY, Like I said Easy Money. I you had a "Caring Personality" you wouldn't be paying some ones Daughter to be your whore for an hour . True seasoned hobbyists that I respect are the ones that know the hobbyist/escort relationship.

 

[just some guy]

This is crap if he had a good time. You're not only getting your money's worth when you make the girls too sore/tired for the next client.

The reply I made to Lonelyman , I guess also applies to you.

 

[Fradi]

I dont know why people have to always look for something negative and that the girl has a bad motive behind it.
She is paying you a compliment and trying to make your experience with her pleasant. Is it part of the act, maybe, probably, but isn’t it what you are paying for, a fantasy.
Just accept it and say thank you. You don’t need to think too much into it just be thankful she is thoughtful and kind.

 

[Gazoo64]

You don’t need to think too much into it just be thankful she is thoughtful and kind.

Exactly!! I totally agree. Some people need to overthink everything!
A couple of times I’ve gotten some compliments as well. I didn’t overthink it and I’m not paranoid.

Maybe they were just making small talk, or it’s a genuine compliment, or they’re trying to get repeat business, etc.
Just be grateful that the lady is kind and providing a nice experience, who cares why they said it!