Some person amaze me ... text you will never expect
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I agree. It must come from a deep seated anger. Also feelings of inadequacy to insult someone behind the cover of the internet. The types of people that wouldn’t dare say something like that to someone’s face.
Sorry you girls have to deal with that.
that anger is really difficult for me to deal with, because i feel like it's not my fault, you know? but in those moments it's like i become the main target of that person's malice and anger (other SPs too) and i'm not sure what i did to deserve this
a lot of people think that's an invitation to be an asshole and a lot of other people think that because i'm sweet i should never defend myself. i can't be sweet if someone is acting disrespectful
Whenever I receive texts messages like these I think about the man on here that I said I didn’t have to make everything “about race” all the time
This thread should be required reading for anyone who wants to complain about SPs' rates.
Sorry this happens to you. I only interracted with you on MERB, but from what I saw, you are a smart beautiful woman. Don't let those people drag you down, their aren't worthy of your time.
I was actually on the subway when I received it and I had a hard time trying to hide my laughter. It’s so random and why did he message me just to tell me that
But also thanks for saying I’m skinny ❤️
Let's not juge.
A lot of lonely people outside. Everybody is fighting a battle that nobody knows nothing about.
A lot of lonely people outside. Everybody is fighting a battle that nobody knows nothing about.
How does he know you have a brother?
I guess someone watches too much family affair category on porn hub
...? I don't understand..
We are all lonely and fighting battles that nobody knows nothing about. It's not an excuse to abuse people. This isn't about you, unless you are harassing women, saying racist things to them, pressuring them to do certain things etc.
People like this are cruel and sadistic, they are not ''lonely''. I understand that not receiving the friendship, love and tenderness we need and feeling ostracized can create feelings of anger, but taking them out on other people is unacceptable.
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I totally agree. Completely unacceptable. There are many times to not pass judgement... the person asking for change at the metro station, the person walking down the street shouting nonsense, the person having a pee behind the dumpster in the alley... This is not one of those. Harassing, intimidating, threatening others is never acceptable regardless of what that person is going through. Full stop.
Exactly. People who have the time, energy and money to see a bunch of sex workers and gossip about them online have the means to use other coping methods for their negative emotions.
If someone can't respect boundaries and holds so much anger and resentment they should not be seeing sex workers at all. They should reconnect with nature, find spirituality, get real hobbies, learn new skills, exercise, maybe get therapy..
But hold on, I should feel bad for the man randomly insulting me on a beautiful Saturday morning? I should be empathic and say: poor dude he probably had a rough day I’ll be his punching bag ❤️
What’s next? I should give him the N word pass to make his day better?
I will judge because that’s completely ridiculous. It didn’t make me cry or hurt my feelings because unfortunately with this job I’m used to receiving spiteful messages
I’ve shared it because I think a few of you truly don’t know what it’s like to handle our phone and why so many girls retire without any warning
What’s next? I should give him the N word pass to make his day better?
I will judge because that’s completely ridiculous. It didn’t make me cry or hurt my feelings because unfortunately with this job I’m used to receiving spiteful messages
I’ve shared it because I think a few of you truly don’t know what it’s like to handle our phone and why so many girls retire without any warning
This thread definitely makes me think and get more awareness about many situations SPs have to deal with.
Recently one SP shared with me a story about a client that was refusing to take a shower as he already took one, killing completely the connection and turning off the mood in the rest of the encounter.
I think from a human perspective, we cannot expect good chemistry with a SP if we don't put at least some effort from our side to create a win-win situation.
Now I cannot imagine how anxiety, frustrations and disrespect and insults can lead to a positive outcome while texting a SP.
Remember that first impressions are important and even though we make businesses there's still a human factor involved between customer-SP.
Let's make love, not war.
Recently one SP shared with me a story about a client that was refusing to take a shower as he already took one, killing completely the connection and turning off the mood in the rest of the encounter.
I think from a human perspective, we cannot expect good chemistry with a SP if we don't put at least some effort from our side to create a win-win situation.
Now I cannot imagine how anxiety, frustrations and disrespect and insults can lead to a positive outcome while texting a SP.
Remember that first impressions are important and even though we make businesses there's still a human factor involved between customer-SP.
Let's make love, not war.
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