Some person amaze me ... text you will never expect

[DenisZim]

...? I don't understand..

We are all lonely and fighting battles that nobody knows nothing about. It's not an excuse to abuse people. This isn't about you, unless you are harassing women, saying racist things to them, pressuring them to do certain things etc.

People like this are cruel and sadistic, they are not ''lonely''. I understand that not receiving the friendship, love and tenderness we need and feeling ostracized can create feelings of anger, but taking them out on other people is unacceptable.

Hello Luna,
Recently I mentioned that I am not from here. This unique life experience allows me to divide important from unimportant things. Based on what I saw in the past and what I see now, trust me here in North America nobody should complain for nothing.
It's really up to you would you allow this to abuse you. When it's absolutely clear that it's not on your level to answer such a person and to accept his behavior as an insult, you just simply allow him to abuse you. Life is too short to allow yourself to be disappointed by people who simply couldn't be anyone else.

 

[LC18]

It's really up to you would you allow this to abuse you. When it's absolutely clear that it's not on your level to answer such a person and to accept his behavior as an insult, you just simply allow him to abuse you. Life is too short to allow yourself to be disappointed by people who simply couldn't be anyone else.

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Edit: let me just put this person on ignore and carry on with my day.

Stay hydrated folks it’s gonna be hot

 

[DenisZim]

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Edit: let me just put this person on ignore and carry on with my day.

Stay hydrated folks it’s gonna be hot

Your life, your decisions. However, life's too short to invest time into should you ignore or answer him. As a man, I can tell you that the greatest punishment for a man is silence.

 

[EagerBeaver]

As a man, I can tell you that the greatest punishment for a man is silence.

100%- any response to messages like that dignify them - never feed the trolls just like you don't feed bears, otherwise they will be back for more

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Hello Luna,
Recently I mentioned that I am not from here. This unique life experience allows me to divide important from unimportant things. Based on what I saw in the past and what I see now, trust me here in North America nobody should complain for nothing.
It's really up to you would you allow this to abuse you. When it's absolutely clear that it's not on your level to answer such a person and to accept his behavior as an insult, you just simply allow him to abuse you. Life is too short to allow yourself to be disappointed by people who simply couldn't be anyone else.

I understand where you're coming from, we are lucky in North America and privileged, but I don't think your experience is an excuse to be dismissive of people telling you they are getting harassed and degraded and insulted. Would you say the same thing if one of us was physically attacked? "Don't let him his punch in the face abuse you". Also are you telling clients not to complain on the endless threads about LL scams and complaints about SP's being 2 pounds heavier and one year older than her photos in person, or when someone is throwing a fit because a SP was sick and had to cancel?

100%- any response to messages like that dignify them - never feed the trolls just like you don't feed bears, otherwise they will be back for more

That however is the truth. That's why posting about it here doesn't get us any sympathy.

What is being shared here is the tip of the iceberg only. I was a victim of domestic violence & other things I won't mention before, we are not just complaining for nothing. From personal experience and the experiences of many people around me, violence escalates. It starts with small things like boundary pushing, harassment, then insults, etc. A lot of clients (and men outside this industry) who have committed serious violent crimes started with small things. One client who physically assaulted a colleague (literally punched her in the face) pushed boundaries with me when I saw him in person prior to this, and said messed up things about my physical appearance. He did the same and insulted other providers until he snapped and hit a provider. What's next? We're just trying to warn you and make you see something.

 

[DenisZim]

I understand where you're coming from, we are lucky in North America and privileged, but I don't think your experience is an excuse to be dismissive of people telling you they are getting harassed and degraded and insulted. Would you say the same thing if one of us was physically attacked? "Don't let him his punch in the face abuse you"


That however is the truth. That's why posting about it here doesn't get us any sympathy.

What is being shared here is the tip of the iceberg only. I was a victim of domestic violence & other things I won't mention before and it really breaks my heart to see someone tell me that if someone is verbally, physically or sexually abusive it's my choice to let it affect me or not. I'm probably going to delete my comment here but I kinda hope someone will remember to be careful. We are not spoiled princesses complaining for no reason. But honestly I don't really have any reason to believe anyone cares really.

Hello Luna,
When I was young I was sexually abused by a man for a long time. These days I have the opportunity to choose whether to live in happiness or with the burden of the past. Everything in this life is a matter of choice.

 

[LC18]

Do what’s good for you always. No one should tell you how to feel about your own life experience especially unsolicited

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Do what’s good for you always. No one should tell you how to feel about your own life experience especially unsolicited

I deleted my last comment because that sums it up pretty well.

My heart hurts for anyone who's experienced any type of violence, and it should never happen. I am sorry for anyone who's experienced anything like this, and I would never tell someone how to feel about it.

 

[DenisZim]

Life is what happens while we are thinking about it. I wish you don't have time to be sad. Only the opinion of your loved ones is important, everyone else is just temporary in your life.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Life is what happens while we are thinking about it. I wish you don't have time to be sad. Only the opinion of your loved ones is important, everyone else is just temporary in your life.

I don't ''have time to be sad'', and I am not sad. Thank you for your advice
Have a nice day.

 

[Jordd]

Let's not juge.
A lot of lonely people outside. Everybody is fighting a battle that nobody knows nothing about.

Not an excuse!

 

[DenisZim]

Not an excuse!

But also not an event that could potentially destroy your internal world.

 

[EagerBeaver]

But also not an event that could potentially destroy your internal world.

This is a very judgmental comment. None of us know that. This woman who was involved in rescuing foxes committed suicide due to online bullying. It turns out she was on the autism spectrum and hypersensitive to criticism.

YouTube star Mikayla Raines dies by suicide at 29; husband blames online abuse

Raines created a successful YouTube channel dedicated to her advocacy efforts rescuing foxes from fur farms.

www.nbcnews.com

If her husband read your comment he would likely want to punch you in the face.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

This is a very judgmental comment. None of us know that. This woman who was involved in rescuing foxes committed suicide due to online bullying. It turns out she was on the autism spectrum and hypersensitive to criticism.

YouTube star Mikayla Raines dies by suicide at 29; husband blames online abuse

Raines created a successful YouTube channel dedicated to her advocacy efforts rescuing foxes from fur farms.

www.nbcnews.com

If her husband read your comment he would likely want to punch you in the face.

Thank you. I just don't know what to respond to someone being so dismissive of our feelings and experiences, and I'm not saying that because I want to villainize anyone. Nobody here knows our childhood history, what we went through in life, what could trigger really bad memories or affect us deeply. What we're showing you here is nothing compare to what we don't show or don't talk about.

 

[DenisZim]

This is a very judgmental comment. None of us know that. This woman who was involved in rescuing foxes committed suicide due to online bullying. It turns out she was on the autism spectrum and hypersensitive to criticism.

YouTube star Mikayla Raines dies by suicide at 29; husband blames online abuse

Raines created a successful YouTube channel dedicated to her advocacy efforts rescuing foxes from fur farms.

www.nbcnews.com

If her husband read your comment he would likely want to punch you in the face.

There is something very special here in North America. People are trying to create problemens from nothing.
I am still young (40+) but I was part of the army and I saw how people are dying. A real, real problem.
Please - nobody outside your friendly circle can hurt you. Nobody.

 

[DouMan]

There is something very special here in North America. People are trying to create problemens from nothing.
I am still young (40+) but I was part of the army and I saw how people are dying. A real, real problem.
Please - nobody outside your friendly circle can hurt you. Nobody.

So we are all sensitive weaklings in NA and those of us that consult psychologists, psychiatrists etc have no backbone or life experiences?

Please my friend, think before you write such things. You don't have to go to war to see hardship and despair. With a little empathy we can see it almost anywhere.

A smile will not stop bullets but it may just give the person you just crossed the boost to go through their day.

And with all respect, for your country, thank you for your service.

 

[Enjoying life]

I agree. It must come from a deep seated anger. Also feelings of inadequacy to insult someone behind the cover of the internet. The types of people that wouldn’t dare say something like that to someone’s face.

Sorry you girls have to deal with that.

Lol

 

[UncleBuck]

Let's not juge.
A lot of lonely people outside. Everybody is fighting a battle that nobody knows nothing about.

A common rule that therapists tell their clients:
It’s not up to other people to put up with your inner struggles, insecurities or anxieties, nor are these an excuse for the things you say or do to others.

That said, can we get back to rightfully judging and reacting to horrible texts we wouldn’t expect, coming from people who expect SPs to put up with their shit?

 

[Halloween Mike]

This is a very judgmental comment. None of us know that. This woman who was involved in rescuing foxes committed suicide due to online bullying. It turns out she was on the autism spectrum and hypersensitive to criticism.

YouTube star Mikayla Raines dies by suicide at 29; husband blames online abuse

Raines created a successful YouTube channel dedicated to her advocacy efforts rescuing foxes from fur farms.

www.nbcnews.com

If her husband read your comment he would likely want to punch you in the face.

I forgot about this thread then read again one of the messages Shantie got and i laugh hard...its insane this dude thought it could work.

But the Fox rescus girl i read her story and im so sad about it. I didn't knew her at all, never saw her content but someome taking care of animals has to be a nice person. Its unfair...

I been bullied all my childhood. I developped a shell (and a particular set of skills...) and now nobody could pierce it. But i know its not the case for everyone so everytimes i read these stories i feel sad for them.

Some humans just prey on the weaks. They look for that. They are like cancer...