Some person amaze me ... text you will never expect
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I forgot about this thread then read again one of the messages Shantie got and i laugh hard...its insane this dude thought it could work.This is a very judgmental comment. None of us know that. This woman who was involved in rescuing foxes committed suicide due to online bullying. It turns out she was on the autism spectrum and hypersensitive to criticism.
If her husband read your comment he would likely want to punch you in the face.
YouTube star Mikayla Raines dies by suicide at 29; husband blames online abuse
Raines created a successful YouTube channel dedicated to her advocacy efforts rescuing foxes from fur farms.www.nbcnews.com
But the Fox rescus girl i read her story and im so sad about it. I didn't knew her at all, never saw her content but someome taking care of animals has to be a nice person. Its unfair...
I been bullied all my childhood. I developped a shell (and a particular set of skills...) and now nobody could pierce it. But i know its not the case for everyone so everytimes i read these stories i feel sad for them.
Some humans just prey on the weaks. They look for that. They are like cancer...
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Hello guys,
When I was a kid, everyday we played outside and nobody had anxiety disorders. Welcome to the new world in North America where kids start to have such medical problems at 12. Recently I mentioned that during years I was raped by a man when I was young, but it was my decision to be focused on the happines insted to stay sticked to the past.
I will repeat one more last time - only family, love and friends can hurt.
I am saying this with all my respect.
When I was a kid, everyday we played outside and nobody had anxiety disorders. Welcome to the new world in North America where kids start to have such medical problems at 12. Recently I mentioned that during years I was raped by a man when I was young, but it was my decision to be focused on the happines insted to stay sticked to the past.
I will repeat one more last time - only family, love and friends can hurt.
I am saying this with all my respect.
It's not because people didn't talk about it that it didn't exist.
I was not born in the 2000. My comment stands. It stands for everything in life, as time moves forward, it’s normal to become more aware of things we once ignored or didn’t notice in previous eras.
You can agree with the ideas of Buddhism in theory, staying detached from strangers’ comments (credit to you for that), but putting it into practice isn’t always easy and everyone has their own journey with that. Telling people how to think won’t get you far.
It doesn't matter to when you are refering to.
Yes people go threw struggles and termoil. But you are gatekeeping. And telling people who are struggling to shut up and smile because someone else is struggling too, doesn't negate the personal struggle they are going threw themselves.
It is beyond just choosing to be happy or not. For many it becomes a complete chemical imbalance in the brain that causes the emotions to be where they are rather than thinking of it as a situational life thing, for most it is a chemical thing in the brain that you can't just will away.
Good for you you got over it. But it also seems you have the most toxic view as to how, and your expieriences seem to have robbed you of any ability to have empathy for others. Seems to me you aren't over it. You just shut it away to use it as a weapon to attack others. (Lack of empathy is just as much a result of what you say you went threw as someone struggling to come to terms with it.)
I would like to add that, ideally, nobody should be able to hurt us. Indeed, our reaction is our own decision, so if a friend is mad at us and throwing plates at us and insulting us, we should remain calm, say we love them and that we forgive them and that we'll be there if they need us always.
This is an ultimate goal. Will everyone of us reach it in our lifetime? Most likely not, but we can work on it. Wisdom is the capacity to let people do their own journey, and be there if they need us.
I am surviving successfully the past 15 years here. Everyday I am fighting with people surrounded with comfort. What I am doing here is equal tomorrow you to take one bag and to go settle your new life in Iran. Do you think that you can handle so much pressure?
I never wrote to people to shut up. The only thing that I wrote was to be careful what and who you can allow to hurt you. Your life your decisions so you can continue to take this personally. Right now reading all these comments I could say that most of you just need validation.
I am saying this with all my respect. It seems that you can not understand my point of view, so I will keep silent.
I never wrote to people to shut up. The only thing that I wrote was to be careful what and who you can allow to hurt you. Your life your decisions so you can continue to take this personally. Right now reading all these comments I could say that most of you just need validation.
I am saying this with all my respect. It seems that you can not understand my point of view, so I will keep silent.
I promise I am doing this for the last time.
He is absolutely nobody. He has zero control over your happiness and emotions. He is just one frustrated lonely man.
He is absolutely nobody. He has zero control over your happiness and emotions. He is just one frustrated lonely man.
He obviously doesn't understand what already booked, and busy is.
Sometimes just giving them a moment to show their true colors is all it takes to avoid a potential problem.
100% agree with you. In french we say the garbage take itself out …He obviously doesn't understand what already booked, and busy is.
Sometimes just giving them a moment to show their true colors is all it takes to avoid a potential problem.
I read this story yesterday, from the sports world:
Source: Fan who taunted Ketel Marte banned from all ballparks
A 22-year-old fan has been banned indefinitely from all MLB ballparks after yelling something about Arizona Diamondbacks second baseman Ketel Marte's late mother during Tuesday night's game against the Chicago White Sox, according to a source.
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This is the perfect exemple of a "facepalm moment" from a client point of view. The dude goes from normal to nasty in a few seconds... I can't understand peoples like him. You told him you were fully booked. What else he expected? Its not like he offered 2500$/4h (wich may had made some SPs change their plan...). In any case these disgusting reactions are so uncalled for and in a case like this i see no problem exposing the client...
I have no idea. Unfortunately for him, I speak four languages (including Spanish) and flamed his ass in all of them.
I translated the spanish part and i was gonna put it for others who were curious but when i saw the result... yikes... no im not posting that. Thats horrible !! What is this guy problem? Now lets say his intro was not great (hey... like cmon, you got nothing better like a proper Hi or such?) but whatever. He asked a question (so far its fine), you answered perfectly, so at that point his answer sould had been "I understand, thanks for the reply, have a good day".
Can someone explain to me why some "clients" (i don't think i should even use that term in this case) go full 180 and start being vulgar, orally violent, and such when they get an answer that is negative? That make no sense to me...
When you were a kid nobody was getting diagnosed. There, fixed it for you. Anxiety existed already I promise you. Maybe some of your peers had it even, they just didn't tell you.
I'm sorry for what happened to you. I genuinely am. But it's not a reason to invalidate everyone else's feelings as a result of any given situation. You came back to this thread after the conversation was over to essentially tell someone to shut up (not directly but this is pretty much the energy your comment had). Not to mention people posting in this thread aren't necessarily sad or angry, we are just showing a part of this business that clients don't often get to see. Some of the crazy texts we get. That's all. You're reading too much into it.
You clearly haven't healed, please take it up with a therapist instead of expecting everyone else to bottle up and fake smile their way through life like you do. Your outlook isn't healthy. You don't heal by pretending to be healed.
