The importance of kissing...

[UncleBob]

I agree with the statement No DFK (Sensual LFK is fine with me) = Not GFE.
A GF that is not Kissing her BF is not a GF, it's a wife

Anyway, many girls interpret the GFE as they want to. Because they still want to use GFE in their ads to get calls.
But actually, even if some couples don't kiss, I don't believe it's the norm except maybe after some time together (WIFE),
And I always assumed that Montreal merb community among other regions too, adopted the definition of GFE according to the infamous RED BOOK of sex work acronyms (RBGFE).
http://sex-in-nevada.net/smforum/index.php?topic=3250.0

For me GFE Standard involves as a minimum DFK, BBBJ, DATY and a certain level of into it factor...

But since that GFE is still often mentionned but interpreted at the will of the poster, especially on ad's site, I always ask if GFE is offered and mention (DFK, BBBJ, DATY)...
For merb advertisers, I would expect not to have to confirm what is included in the GFE service advertised...

Even if a Not completly GFE is offered, does not mean it cannot be fun.
I repeated quite a few time with a girl that was giving a lot of DFK, but CBJ only. I had no problem with that...
But many girls advertise GFE without providing it just because they don't get as much calls otherwise...
Even if they are still providing an excellent service...

 

[jalimon]

A GF that is not Kissing her BF is not a GF, it's a wife

Haha good one. We should introduce WE. The wife experience. You get it all on the first few meet then if you stop repeating it will cost you half your house

Cheers,

 

[Fradi]

Sorry to disappoint but even the most gorgeous and best service provided by any escort will never compare to a wife that you are totally in love with.
Not all wives are gold diggers and monsters lol.

 

[The Nature Boy]

I had no idea this was such a source of passionate debate.

i think it’s a lot more than the importance of kissing that’s being debated. @ least that’s my take on what I read

 

[Valcazar]

i think it’s a lot more than the importance of kissing that’s being debated. @ least that’s my take on what I read

That's fair, although i think using kissing as a proxy measure is weird.

 

[Foodie]

A summary on the importance of kissing: the kissing scale

[FONT=&amp]​[/FONT][FONT=&amp]As the initiator of this thread, I am compelled to offer a summary of the interesting interventions on the subject. If anything is now clear, it is that kissing is no simple matter. It is not a “Yes” or “No” subject. The definition of kissing itself is subject of debate. At the risk of generalizability and in good humor, I would like to suggest the “kissing scale” (you can call it the Foodie scale if you want) in an effort to categorize your kissing status. The scale allows for a multitude of layers where your kissing status can fit. [/FONT]
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[FONT=&amp]On the extreme left of the kissing scale you have the “not kissing whatsoever” persons. Those that do not care about and do not want to kiss. Using the primary colors, the extreme leftists belong to the blue party (blue for cold lips). [/FONT]
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[FONT=&amp]On the extreme right of the kissing scale you have the passionate kissers, the “Kissing is everything” persons. To them, kissing on the mouth is more important than genital sex. They will not see someone that does not kiss. The extreme rightists belong to the red party (you guessed it, red for hot lips).[/FONT]
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[FONT=&amp]In the center of the kissing scale you have the ethical kissers, the “I keep kissing for my personal life” persons. They reserve their best kissing for the special person(s) in their lives. The centrists belong to the green party (green ethical lips).[/FONT]
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[FONT=&amp]So, akin to politics, you can slide on that scale and determine you own party, your own color. Form the interventions in the thread my impression is that the majority would be center-right, like myself. Those are persons that enjoy kissing and believe it is an important part of intimacy, in or out of personal life relationships.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&amp]During your lifetime and across generations your allegiance from one party to another will of course change. Actually, you can go from one en of the scale to the other during a single encounter![/FONT]
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[FONT=&amp]Bizous,[/FONT]
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[FONT=&amp]Foodie.[/FONT]

 

[Bbw hunter]

Interesting debate you started here, Foodie. Now let us never speak of this again lol.

 

[oursonqc]

When I call an escort, I ask two questions: do you DFK and do you allow DATY?

If I got one no, there is no chance to give her a chance to make money with me.

 

[Foodie]

I definitely adore lips.

May they be located north or south, be small or large, I just have to press my lips against them and venture for a taste.

The tread was about kissing, but did not specify which lips or any particular body part for that matter!

 

[GP48touching]

I am a big fan of DFK too. Makes the experience that more sensual. And I appreciate all the comments in this thread. But let's get to some real info...and I realize this is YMMV....but who have you experienced as great DFKers?

 

[Fradi]

GPa48,

Gabrielle Garnier without a doubt, she takes this to an art form, I have not met anyone yet that compares.
Julia Sky, Maria Divina and Katrinagirl are also high on that list.

 

[Joe.t]

Best DFK

 

[cloudsurf]

I am a big fan of DFK too. Makes the experience that more sensual. And I appreciate all the comments in this thread. But let's get to some real info...and I realize this is YMMV....but who have you experienced as great DFKers?

There are many....but in my opinion Alyssa Minx is the most enthusiastic kisser of the year.

 

[Likwid]

When I first started this hobby I sought out SPs that didn’t kiss and only offered CBJ......but the 4th SP I saw; she was some turbo blonde and she started a BBBJ and I never went back to CBJ lol. Saw other women that initiated DFK and CIM, and it really adds to the sensuality of the experience. There are many SPs in the industry now, so you can filter based on services offered

 

[C.B. Brown]

I can understand from a sp point of view not wanting to kiss every client.
Me personally kissing is one of the biggest turn ons.
As you get older you find you need more stimulation
to get a good erection and kissing over a bbbj actually does that quicker .
unless i an in a 69.
Funny as well i have found a pussy slide cowgirl reverse
more stimulating than actual intercource at times mind you condoms kill sensation ..
It seems to change from time to time and person to person.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

I am a big fan of DFK too. Makes the experience that more sensual. And I appreciate all the comments in this thread. But let's get to some real info...and I realize this is YMMV....but who have you experienced as great DFKers?

Lea Abrams, even though it's been years since I've seen her ( can't afford her anymore! lol), she remains the undisputed owner of the DFK crown, (she can also wear lots of other crowns Ahahaha!).

 

[Joe.t]

^^^^^^
9 of the most absolutely insanely awesome memorable PSE/GFE fucks of my life, there was never a let down with this awesome sex machine, an incredible lady and a down to earth sweetheart!!, I wish that I could relive those dates!!

 

[CLOUD 500]

When I call an escort, I ask two questions: do you DFK and do you allow DATY?

That is the first question I ask also. The rest I am flexible with but DFK is a must for me. No DFK = No money from me.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

It used to be mandatory for me also but in the past years I've realised it could be perceive as being quite rude trying
to push for it. Also there is nothing more awkward than seeing a girl turns her head away when initiating it. And I can clearly see why some girls find it too "intimate" to perform with their clients. So now, my approach is pretty much like what Jalimon described, no initiating at all, I dont even discuss about it, if it happens it will be more natural and better. If it doesnt, well I'm still there for a good fuck, I dont really have needs for fake romantism.

 

[sene5hos]

Today it is well known that, kisses can boost our immunity by exposing us to new germs, which strengthen our immune system. A "kiss with the tongue" stimulates the partner's lips, tongue and mouth. The oral area is one of the main erogenous areas of the body. I hope SP knows that?

I like to kiss. But my answer has evolved over time.
When I was young I wanted DFK at all, now I have changed my approach.

I am respectful, I don't force anything anymore, I am aware of it, and my partner feels more comfortable. And it has always paid off, but for that you have to see your partner often. It's up to each to judge the relevance of this approach.