The Sad Truth: Some Escorts Think We're Losers!

[westwoody]

sorry but you got a bias there buddie.sterotype ya your friend was university educated to become a dr or lawyer and this helped her through school.let me guess........ she does not have a pot to piss in or a place to throw it.and risked he life with serious illness and for what.
and if your a friend of hrs id say your blue collar and 40k or less a year live paycheck to paycheck
how close am i you might not like it but thats life.

Whoa that's a big pile of very wrong assumptions.

You don't even know anything about her but you jump at the chance to trash her.

 

[Passionné]

You don't even know anything about her but you jump at the chance to trash her.

You've got to remember there are clients here who think all escorts are nothing but cheap stupid whores who lie, cheat us, and are completely phony just because they work in this industry. As I said in another thread, they fail to look in the mirror to see who they are. If they smelled their own butts they'd see they are no better in any way.

My view is we are all the same, good and bad. PERIOD!

 

[Passionné]

being as ugly as you are with 4 inch thick glasses to boot you never ever got laid for free and you know absolutely noting about normal woman as you never ever had a girlriend

passionne..... sorry for me being such as asshole with you.....your ok..me i got bad wireing

Cheers to all

 

[westwoody]

1st if you read what i wrote i was not refereing to just escorts i said woman in general and it was my opinion
and i didnt rash eh i just said what ive seen .many a top escort who made big bucks just like drug dealers who made quick cash few of them were smart enought to put money away for a rainy day
so tell me where im wrong.she is fiancially sound after 20 years of selling her ass ????meanign she could live for at least 6 months without working. or was that all a waste of time and she struggles like 1/2 the population
aND A SIMPLE YES YOU MAKE 40K OR LESS AND IM GUESSING YES

How do you figure I make 40k or less? What do you base that on?

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Quite the thread " Some escorts think we are losers "... Most escorts think we are old, who really cares what some think.
Just my opinion.

 

[Passionné]

Quite the thread " Some escorts think we are losers "... Most escorts think we are old, who really cares what some think.
Just my opinion.

As we can see it goes both ways.

Some people on the escorting and client side have maniacally harsh views of the other side...and sometimes both. I remember meeting the owner of Celine's for lunch with a few well known other clients. It was truly surreal listening to her. For a time she put on a very heavy rant about how rotten escorts are and how stupid and gullible clients are. She was particularly insistent about how bad everyone was. Quite a poisonous pair of balls considering she was an agency owner talking to some of her faithful clients about her ladies.

It's also interesting seeing some clients knock down escorts. Some views have been expressed that are so angry, vicious, and extremely demeaning to the ladies it makes one wonder why they would ever go near these allegedly "heinous" ladies? It seems the point they are making is they don't have better options or they would use them instead of seeing any escorts.

As for measuring your life by money. Trump is supposedly worth between $4 billion to $12 billion and as a person his character est une montagne de merde (is a mountain of shit).

cheers

 

[westwoody]

I have a friend whose last name is Montagne.
I see him in a new light now LOL

 

[What's My Name]

At the end of all this who cares what they think of us, as long as we got what we wanted....satisfaction...I couldn't care if SP's think we aree losers or not. Like it was mentioned earlier that it might be them the losers...anyways we look at the glass eithe half full or half empty it's all the same. At the end we can get SATISFACTION, unlike like the rolling stones who can't get no satisfaction ha ha

 

[clark_larson]

The title should be changed to: You're a loser if you care about being perceived as a loser by an escort, the sad truth...

 

[Maria Divina]

Darkmark85:

Humm, I read your history, and the first thing who came in my mind is when the Sp you met told you HOW THE OTHERS Sp's might have seen you, she might have lied to you. Invent that story just to hurt you.
I think she probably contacted other Sp's under pretext to screen you as a potential client, so she could learn who you saw in the past.
Because yes we do screening, but only for the reason to know if you are nice and show respect, so good to meet or not. There's never other personal details, except if the guy is not totally or at all good to meet, we explain why.
So, I never saw it personally that escorts who saw regularly someone, will put him down like that. So, high chances are that she has played you.

I don't know what was the kind of relation you had with her, but she looks like someone jealous/or someone that have been betrayed before, to make that kind of investigation under a false reason.

I'm sorry that you lived that and maybe, you should contact the Sp's you were seeing to have another point of view from them. You might be really surprised.

ps: what is a sap?

 

[Maria Divina]

well since you opened the door..when you started out you like many were curious about me,your agency owner at the time ''peter who knew me personally arranged for you to meet me
we met at a small resturant and had dinner together.
for the readers here can you tell them what you thought of me?we actually met many times as my best friend startrekk was one of your regulars and we all had dinner 1 time at a resturant with other sps cant rememeber the resturant and we all went to cleos after and had a blast
my view of you was you were a petite pretty well adjusted person who could be taken out and and mingle well in a crowd.
my description to all was a "6'6 guy who was likeable , trained all his life, in great shape, who looked younger than his age would you agree with that

Oliver,

I wasn't with Peter, I was with Jessy Montreal Sex City, and I asked Jessy about you, and she told me that you knew kind of everything of certain subjects. And I was curious to meet you then, of course.
I was new in this field, and I wanted to know more. And the best advice you ever told me was: "Don't ever never give your trust 100%" it prevented me to be living to hard deceptions.
because when you told this, I imagine that your best friends of today can become your best enemies of tomorrow.

I met privately Startrekk only once or twice, just before he retired "happy in love".

The restaurant at the GT's we went before Cleo's was la Cage aux Sports. ;-)

You want me to tell publicly what I think of you? Physical description is accurate, your writings are hard to read sometimes, you're someone nice in person.

You can't need me to corroborate what you are saying, because I just can't. I just don't know the majority of what you are talking about, street action, massages places aren't things I know.

Have a good Halloween day, by the way

 

[AmberRose]

Interesting thread so far...
my experience is a bit interesting. I used to see SPs maybe once every month or two. I was in a long term relationship bit it was a bad one. My partner basically stayed with me cause i had very little to no self esteem. She didn't give a shit about my work or me, just being taken care of and being comfortable. Long story short she found out about my habit and flipped her shot which i can understand. When i explained myself that it was cause of poor treatment she obviously did not take that well. That ended the whole relationship which again. I don't fault her. My job is very demanding and hard sometimes and a spoke to the Sps i saw a lot about it. Like i would to a real gf. Thats what i sought mostly, someone i to treat mr how i felt i was missing.
fast forward a bit... i met an Sp in a social setting. She was open about it with me. In return i told her i used to frequent the service every so often. No many details as i had stopped seeing them at that point as i had gone into therapy for my needs.
What happened next was the most interesting part. This girl i was seeing worked along side some of the SPs i saw in the past. No names as i don't want to cause anything. The girl told the other sp about me in passing. Then that sp who i had seeing a year or so prior proceeded to tell her about the extent of what she knew of my habit, including who she knew i had seen and how frequent. Kind of a violation of what i felt was my confidentially but i was told by the girl i was seeing that among their communities they do talk about clients like that. Which again, safety and such makes that ok.
Now that caused a who new set of issues since i felt it was none of this girls business what i did in my past. She felt i wasn't entirely honest.
Then it got really interesting. She told me that all the sps i saw that "liked" me really just saw a sap w
who was an east ATM machine and they didn't really care about me at all. I knew deep down that was the case but part of me thought they cared at least somewhat. Apparently not. Loser, ATM, ect. No privacy to be expected either as they will out me to one another such as what happened. We never recovered from the incident.
I've seen maybe one or two Sps since then but even the illusion that they even like me is ruined. Now im in my 30's, am relatively good looking and make a very decent salary, over 80k a year. Loser? Maybe. But all illusion of the hobby are gone for me after that incedent. The few sps that were always happy to see me apparently saw me as a shitbag atm that was a chattering sap who can't get laid on his own.
Haven't seen any since, no dates with normal women, just working, and living my loser life with a lot more cash, a home, best shape of my life and couldn't care less what i am thought of really. The whole thing seemsnfake when i think about it. Sad kind of, because the few sps i did frequent seemed sincere but after this supposed insider view i don't trust it anymore.

You're talking about me I believe, you changed your Merb handle though?

The SP you were seeing has a history of lying, deceiving, etc etc, hence why she is never in the same place for more than a few months.

But in this particular case, as we all explained earlier, it was by pure accident that we figured out it was you she was seeing. I did not intentionally out you to her, that would have made no sense either since how would I even know you two were seeing each other unless she confided in me?

Either way, no we don't all think you're a sap or easy atm, I told her you were a decent, good guy, but that you get offended easily(I'm not wrong now am I? ;P). I made a mistake discussing these things with her, now knowing her history, and for that I apologize.

On a related note to this thread..
Do some escorts think you're losers? Sure, so do some other humans in other jobs too. There is always going to be people who think less of you in life, but who cares what they think?
There is also plenty of escorts and other people as well who will think the world of you, and that's what's important

 

[Maria Divina]

thanks maria, happy haloween to you as well ....but it was peter who drove you to the resturant,he said see the real tall guy thats him...remember.
back then celine from celine fantasy and peter satin dreams(who was freind of jessy) would all gather at celines bronzage hairdressing salon
with nooky stripperlover ned nobody techman dee myself and many of the girls
jessy if in the area would join me for dinner often back then

Peter has been the chauffeur for Jessy MSC at the beginning of MSC, they made a special agreement about this. You know, Jessy started with only one, and that was me.
I've never been for Peter.

 

[Maria Divina]

Darkmark85:

I think you have had a straight answer now. I told you that was impossible that Sp's will say that you are an "ATM" (we never ever say that between us) or even a "sap".

I hope now you will be confident that the ladies you were seeing never said that. I think you just met someone really not made for you, and that part is really clear.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Well well well.... isn't it that old thread.

Judging peoples will always be part of the human nature. When an SP leave my room, honestly i just hope she tell herself "that client was easy" as in i made her job as easy as possible. Obviously i know some probably think down of me, its part of the deal, do i really care? Well a bit maybe, i mean i would like to please everybody but we all know its impossible, so i settle for "the chances i see this person outside this job is less than 0.05% so its no big deal" Thats kinda like going at the doctor, you tell yourself she probably saw worst than you lol. I just try to make it as "good" as possible for her, but i know if money was not involve she wouldn't had sex with me. Thats just being reasonable. Me what i think? Well i think its a very hard job to do, so i admire them for doing it. And i think honestly escorts are as important than many other professions. Never a guy like me could have sex with super pretty women, and with them i can live this fantasy and all, thats awesome.

 

[Mr. Banana]

The way I see it it is like taking a cab to the airport. As long as I get there in a reasonable time and safe, what do I care if the cab driver does think of me. An SP is there to provide a service, them thinking bad of me does not come into it.

 

[Passionné]

About the title of this thread. Can we go anywhere where there might be someone who thinks little of us. No one can make everyone truly like you. So if some don't it's only human nature at work.

I agree what is important is that I try to make it as agreeable as possible for both of us, and though it's her job to do the same I hope and want her to genuinely feel good as about being with me as she can. While I am paying to enjoy myself I don't try to impose my selfish enjoyment on any escort. I go with the flow. If she invites me to see her again, nearly every time, I know it's been an agreeable experience for the both of us. That makes me happier than just having what I want.

Cheers

 

[westwoody]

Really doubting my self after reading this thread.

I try to be nice but I know I fuck up a lot. Done everything wrong lately. Mis-communicating. Misreading signals or missing them altogether.

Now I just don't know what to think.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Some of you need to really relax about this, should you really care what someone who does not know you thinks of you?
Wow.

 

[B52]

Frankly, not all escorts think that all their clients are losers. Some do, others Dont. Some clients are losers, others are just a number to complete their shifts, and some are awesome that become great lasting friends.
It depends on the first impression, how you spend your time with the girl and how you interact with.
Quite the same with any person you meet in your day. A guy or a girl, a client or a clerk, a dr or a patient, etc.
If you are paying for company & sex and instead of feeling great you are feeling bad or a "loser" then am sorry to say it, but you lost money and selfesteem at the same time... loser!