The Sad Truth: Some Escorts Think We're Losers!

[Gentle]

There is nothing valuable to be an escort, and there is nothing valuable to need to call an escort... ..

This is the key word... 'need'.
For me it's a choice.
By changing my way of life to have this hobby I saved over $100K and so far I'm living way much fantasies than most of the guys I know around me.
How's that for valuable ?

The funny part also is I got only one STD since.
While I was getting min. one per year before with so called 'Regular Girlfriends'.

The no. of guys I know that their girlfriend had other BFs is such that I actually think the loser is the one who think he is 'attractive' enough not to pay for anything and end-up with STDs.

So health is a price to pay for m including your mental health !

Is it me or I'm the only one who don't think women aren't bitches but simply having the same desire that I have as a man ?
Yet these guys go about thinking SPs are losers and turn around and talk about their GF as bitches when they are together with their buddies.

These are the real losers !

 

[metoo4]

Hi Man77777
Imagine the society being different. Replace the word escort by public worker or lawyer, mechanic, maid, whatever other profession. Peoples saying There is nothing valuable to be an escort are in part of the reason why there is nothing valuable about it, it is stigmatization.

 

[man77777]

Imagine the society being different. Replace the word escort by public worker or lawyer, mechanic, maid, whatever other profession. Peoples saying There is nothing valuable to be an escort are in part of the reason why there is nothing valuable about it, it is stigmatization.

1/ Then you can say every negative opinion about a group of people is a stigmatisation and then you wont be able to talk about anything... Come on...

2/ To say that something is not glorious is not saying it is shameful.

3/ Moreover in my post I was talking about the perception every parts has about itself, it wasnt a judgement of the 2 parts. I never met an escort who was very proud to be escort and a client of escort who was very proud to call escort.. That's why they often hide this to their families...

 

[Regular Guy]

I'm not getting on your case. I am just disappointed with the girl who made the comment to you. There is a fine line between those who enjoy the work and those who feel they can exploit others. Sad but everyone has their own reasons for what they do. If you can find a sweetheart then so be it. This girl would be pure gold. I actually don't give a flying fuck about anyone else's opinion on the subject. Been around too long to not reaalze the difference in people.

 

[THEHITMAN]

Everyone has a choice in life in what they wish or wish not to do.I don't get there what these escorts think because in the end we are the ones that are feeding them with our business whether they like it or not

 

[jeff jones]

I actually don't give a flying fuck about anyone else's opinion on the subject.

RG,

What has gotten into you, i sense a bitter more jaded RG. For years you seen this biz thru rose colored glasses. What happened to that guy, he used to provide me so much entertainment. Bring him back please

 

[Merlot]

For years you seen this biz thru rose colored glasses.

Is it me or I'm the only one who don't think women aren't bitches but simply having the same desire that I have as a man ?
Yet these guys go about thinking SPs are losers and turn around and talk about their GF as bitches when they are together with their buddies.

These are the real losers !

True Gentle,

I've known this guy for nearly 20 years, and many others similar. To him every woman is a "BITCH". If I ever mention how nice a woman is, he gets pissed off and complains they're all bitches. That's some very deep emotional damage as another acquaintance cited. We can see evidence of the same here in those who harp on the same one-note mantra against escorts, guys little different than their escort criticisms.
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There's nothing wrong with reminding members to keep their heads about this hobby being a business, and avoiding taking the GFE fantasy/illusion too seriously. I join in that too. But, enjoying the disappointment and anger of others with I told you so anti-woman/escort skepticism evokes the same display of damage in them that they see in escorts. Maybe it's a defense mechanism. The choice is to let it get to you by being so skeptical and maybe bitter or get beyond it. In that way there's no difference, escort or client.

Maybe I'm projecting too much of the guy I've known too long and too well. I hope no one here is that jaded. But sometimes it seems so. However generally, I doubt the overall best and worst of clients are different from the ladies.

good luck,

Merlot

 

[Lily from Montreal]

If its nothing to brag about or nothing to be ashamed about, why are 99% of SP's , MP's face blurred out on websites or ads. And why do they(you) work under an alias ?

And the "So that family members or friends don't recognize us" argument shouldnt be used neither is it valid cause you just said it's nothing to be ashamed about....

Because my pretty boy it is not because something is legal that it is socially acceptable in all circles,and yes family being one, don't worry the day Canada is accepting as Amsterdam and I would not be afraid of having the mafia or something similar asking me for a pizo I will be the first to open my bordello, I am convince I would make a very good madam...but till then a bit of discretion in order...

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Freud would have some fun on this thread. Way too serious. Should be for fun, someone to communicate with ( for a hour or 2 ), better ( looks &/or service ) than what you can get for free.

OK, realized I put this in the wrong thread. Thought I was reading why men see SP's. And agree that nothing is for free but at least you are not handing over cash.

And for some escorts think we are losers, they have our cock in their mouths, nuf said

 

[Guido]

Freud would have some fun on this thread. Way too serious. Should be for fun, someone to communicate with ( for a hour or 2 ), better ( looks &/or service ) than what you can get for free.

Nothing is for free .

 

[Benito Whedon]

On the whole I think escorts concentrate on how great we are, even desperately.They're banging numerous guys for money and are having loads shot in their mouth.Come to think of it, I wonder if those same younger SPs know what's going thru our heads

 

[Doc Holliday]

We share similar experiences, Riddler. One time during halloween, i saw an sp prior to attending a halloween party. I figured i'd surprise her, but the surprise was on me. Prior to her arriving, i decided to try on my Spiderman costume, the one i'd be wearing later for the party. But the sp arrived 10 minutes early & when i heard the knock on the door, i didn't have time to get out of my costune & get dressed in my usual attire (a t-shirt & bermuda shorts) when receiving a 'guest'.

So, i answered the door dressed in my Spiderman costume, and indeed, the young lady looked very surprised, but then burst out laughing. However, the bigger surprised look was none but my own since my 'guest' was wearing a Catwoman costume!

During intimate activities, she kept saying "Meow!!", which was funny at first, but became totally annoying by the end & got me wishing for her to leave early.

But to my credit, i did get her to laugh several times when i'd suddenly hop onto the desk, table or window ledge, getting into my 'Spiderman' character, and screaming out "I'm fuckin' Peter Parker!" "I'm fuckin' Peter Parker!"

She must have thought i was kind of nuts!

Meow!!!

p.s. The sp in question also fell madly in love with me on that very night. Must have been the Spiderman costume! :eyebrows:

 

[Doc Holliday]

I just hope someday that i have seen the number of escorts that you have seen and i can share my experiences for years to come on a board like this. With the number of posts you have you are indeed a board legend.

Keep on wishing, Riddler!

Seriously, though, my rough estimate is that at least 43% of the sps i've seen over the years have fallen madly in love with me. However, i had no choice but to break their hearts when i announced to them that i had no intention of either getting married or have a serious relationship, and had no choice but to suggest they look somewhere else for love. What can i say? I've always listened to my grandfather's advice & used the 4 F's as my motto. Do i dare explain what the 4 F's are?

p.s. They even swore on the bible that they would still love me for as long as i let them do so if i wasn't paying them money to make love to me. I believed them.

 

[Doc Holliday]

The Riddler, Spiderman, just don't answer the door dressed in a chicken suit.

So far, i've answered dressed up as a hasidic jew (with the black hat, fake beard & fake glasses), in a Spiderman costume, dressed up as a cowboy, as a caveman (i wore a wig and had a beard at the time), as Tarzan, and indeed, in my birthday suit. The birthday suit idea was from the same sp who i had seen a couple of days earlier. She told me she was tired of all the pre-sex talk and wanted us to get the action going as soon as she arrived. So, she suggested i answer the door naked, have sex, then have a drink together and talk, and both get dressed after showering together. In other words, a regular 'date' in reverse.

 

[Numerati]

During intimate activities, she kept saying ``Meow!!``, which was funny at first, but became totally annoying by the end & got me wishing for her to leave early.

But to my credit, i did get her to laugh several times when i`d suddenly hop onto the desk, table or window ledge, getting into my `Spiderman` character, and screaming out ``I`m fuckin` Peter Parker!`` ``I`m fuckin` Peter Parker!``

She must have thought i was kind of nuts!

Meow!!!

p.s. The sp in question also fell madly in love with me on that very night. Must have been the Spiderman costume! :eyebrows:

Only escort that would do something like this would be.... Serina of the companions/FKS.

 

[EagerBeaver]

When an escort makes animal noises, imitates a kitten or purrs, it is a sign she does not believe she is with a real man. But that does not mean she is right.

 

[Numerati]

LOL. I see another storm coming.

 

[Doc Holliday]

When an escort makes animal noises, imitates a kitten or purrs, it is a sign she does not believe she is with a real man. But that does not mean she is right.

Really now? So is this why Serina repeatedly made such noises when you saw her a few years back? Weren't you complaining that you found this very annoying?

 

[Doc Holliday]

Only escort that would do something like this would be.... Serina of the companions/FKS.

Quite true. I saw her a few times & it seemed to be ingrained within her. :smile:

p.s. But she wasn`t the one i was referring to in my story.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Really now? So is this why Serina repeatedly made such noises when you saw her a few years back? Weren't you complaining that you found this very annoying?

It's quite possible she did but it was so long ago and my memory is poor.