What's the point of Fetish providers stating "No Sex"??

[dolt]

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4. Many BDSM sessions do involve sex as most women would define it. Many end with masturbation with both parties in the room. Granted, in most of these cases, it is the guy doing his own hand release, ...

I can jerk myself off at home *for free*, without someone barking orders and insults at me to ruin it.

Again I get why so many women want to be doms: she gets paid to treat men like shit who will just take it and doesn't have to put out.
-What I don't get is why a man will pay to have a woman talk down to him, make him feel worthless and deny him pleasure, when most women will already do that *for free*, whether you like it or not.

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2. There are a ton of traditional escorts who do sub, switch and dom activities with regular customers without putting it in their ads. You just have to get to know them and ask. They don’t advertise it for the obvious same reason a lot of escorts only do anal with certain customers. Physically, most ladies can’t really have anal sex twice a day and take a hard spanking three times a day, even if she loves it every once in a while. But if she advertises it as an offer to everyone at the same price as a standard suck and fuck, the line to see her will be around the block...

That part, I do understand. It's the same as most businesses: the really good stuff is never on the menu or in the front of the store.

 

[Julia Sky]

Some of you guys sound like angry vegetarians screaming ''BUT I DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHY SOME PEOPLE ACTUALLY PAY TO EAT A DEAD ANIMAL''... Or like someone who hates red and complains ''I don't UNDERSTAND how people can pay for RED PAINT !!!! I can manage to have my blood on my walls for FREE if I want an ugly room !''

Get over it, it's not for you so OBVIOUSLY you don't understand, you wouldn't do it, but other people are into that and there's nothing weird or stupid about it or about them and I'm not sure why you're all trying to make sense out of it. Preferences are not something to be understood, it's unique to each individual and just because you don't understand something doesn't make it less valid... You know, some of you take escorts to dinner where you pay her AND the restaurant, when you have wives that can cook and talk to you *for free*.

 

[lady_lover]

I guess the way patron explains it makes sense.
A legality issue more than anything.

 

[TnT]

There are different types of fetish connoisseurs. One guy might be into the S&M pain and domination scene, while another might get off on the piggery of the leather and spike heeled boots.

 

[OnlyDoggy]

How often are dudes both dom and sub in BDSM? Must be hard to find a female wrestler who can legit body a 6'0 + big dude. The lady would probably need to have college wrestling accolades to bypass the strength gap. I wonder if any WNBA players offer professional dom? Imagine a jacked 6'5 woman standing over you in leather.

Like would a dude every pay for a threesome where a mistress is domming him, while he doms the other sub present? Does that exist?

 

[Fradi]

There are many that advertise domination and GFE or a mixture of both, I could name at least 10-12 including some of the ex Unicorns and ones like April Rose and Camille Haring.


Apart from that, once you get to know an SP and she is comfortable with you, a lot of them will offer things they don’t advertise including mild dom if that is your thing.

 

[cloudsurf]

I will go out on a limb and state that from my experience.....most women who love sex also like to spice it up both in their personal life and professional life.
Depending on the chemistry and conversation, many agency women, and even more indies, are eager to try mild BDSM. Once they trust you and feel safe then your imagination is the main limit.